Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

Overcoming Codependency


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Have you ever found yourself constantly prioritizing the needs of others while neglecting your own? Do you get anxious when those you care about are anxious or angry? Do you find arguments leave you contorted, desperately seeking forgiveness and acceptance from your partner? If this sounds like you or someone you love, its time to confront the possibility that you may be trapped in the clutches of codependency. 


This Language of Love Bite, I dive into the complex world of codependency, its roots, its effects on our relationships, and the path to healing. The origin of codependency can be traced back to traumatic childhood experiences, such as being raised by an addict, a narcissist, or enduring emotional or physical abuse. These early life challenges often lead to "parentification," where children assume the emotional and sometimes physical responsibilities of caring for their parents, setting the stage for codependent behaviors later in life.


Despite the challenges, I acknowledge the positive aspects of codependency, such as the innate desire to give and receive love. Join me in exploring these insights further and taking the steps toward healing and growth.


In this Bite, I explain:

  • Codependency as an addiction and a lifetime of recovery
  • The role of traumatic childhood experiences in developing codependency
  • Codependents' fear of abandonment and susceptibility to toxic partners
  • The struggle to discern authentic love from manipulation
  • The positive and manipulative elements of codependency
  • How to heal from codependency through inner child work and setting boundaries
  • The challenges codependents may face when setting boundaries and standing up for themselves

  • Remember, if you're looking to enhance both your love life and sex life, whether you're in a relationship or not, I highly recommend checking out my free course on Quantum Sex


    Additionally, if you're seeking to break free from codependency, there are some valuable resources I suggest exploring. Co-dependents Anonymous is a great program that can provide the guidance you need. Another excellent resource is Melodie Beattie's influential book, "Codependent No More." 


    These resources can offer invaluable insights and support on your journey towards personal growth and independence.

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