Oversharing

Happy Halloween! On this spooky episode of Oversharing, Dr. Naomi schools Jordana on how to be the “cool house” in the neighborhood. Our Overshare email comes from a boy Betch who has concerns about his new girlfriend’s mental health journey. How should you digest and respond to a disclosure about someone’s mental illness? The Betchicist question comes from a devoted friend who wonders just how far she has to go to support her entrepreneurial bestie. Dr. Naomi offers up an intention for a Betch on the brink of divorce. And to close things out, we’re feeling triggered by nosey cashiers and road-raging neighbors.

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Jordana is back with another episode of Baby Steps, presented by BetterHelp. This week, she’s joined by star of The Real Housewives of New York, Jessel Taank, to talk all about her experience using IVF to have twin boys at the age of 39. She walks us through the multi-year process, including when she realized it was time to try IVF and why it took much longer than she ever expected. They talk about what it’s like to go to baby shower after baby shower, as pressure mounts to get pregnant yourself. Plus, Jessel shares some useful tips, including breathing exercises and health routines that she found helpful during her own pregnancy.

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Since high school we’ve been led to believe that having a baby was as inevitable as a Sunday morning hangover in your twenties. So what happens when your fertility “journey” takes a massive detour? In this limited series from Betches Media and the Oversharing podcast, host Jordana Abraham explores the various paths to parenthood that lay ahead when starting a family doesn’t come easy.

In the first episode of Baby Steps, presented by BetterHelp, Jordana is joined by her big sister and co-host of the Oversharing podcast, Dr. Naomi Bernstein. Together, they walk us through the ups and downs of Jordana’s own efforts to have a child, including what it’s like to experience multiple miscarriages, exploring treatment options to help with the process, and how to respond emotionally when things don’t go as planned. Plus, she tells us what her options are going forward and what she plans to do next.

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Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss navigating life while in survival mode, and how to cope when you come down with a case of the “f%ck its”. They answer a voicemail from a Betch in need of some sister-to-sister advice, especially when it comes to family drama with your mom. Our Betchicist reply goes out to a new mom who is having major Sunday Scaries at the prospect of going back to work. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a hardworking Betch with a sugar-baby boyfriend. Finally, they rate some Triggered submissions about boyfriends’ past flings and forgotten wedding rings.

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Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana discuss the heaviness we’ve all been feeling this week, including how they’re each coping with the daily news coming out of the Middle East. A “Mr. Betch” writes in for advice on how to fight fair in his relationship. How do you stop yourself from letting things escalate with a significant other? The Betchicist question comes from a long-distance bestie who fears puppy love (aka an unexpected gift) may not be the answer. Dr. Naomi offers an intention for a scorned Betch to keep her off the voodoo doll. How do you get past your hatred for an ex? Finally, we are truly triggered by moms this week. Can we all just get along? Listen in to find out.

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Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi face the music as listeners let them know how they really feel about the Taylor Swift concert ticket debate. Our Overshare email comes from a listener who just can’t resist the “Add to Cart” button. The Betchicist of the week goes out to an expectant mother in need as her husband prepares for a European getaway…with his mother?! A male listener writes in for advice about staying present with his more mature girlfriend. They wrap up with the Triggered scenarios of one Betch getting left out of the game, while the other gets left out of the will.

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Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi proves she’s a REAL Olivia Rodrigo fan. Plus, Jordana loves/hates to say “I told you so” in response to a very juicy listener update. Two new moms look for support today. What’s the best way to calm that protective lizard brain to avoid making your partner feel inadequate around the baby? And how can you find peace when it comes to an unclear diagnosis given to your child? Our Betchicist question comes from a concerned friend who wonders if she should intervene in a relationship that may not have marriage potential. We close with some Triggered scenarios that cover meddling in-laws and wedding vendors offering some VERY unsolicited advice. Does anyone stay in their lane anymore? Listen in to find out.

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Jordana and Dr. Naomi are joined by licensed psychotherapist Terri Cole to talk all about learning to set proper boundaries in your life. They discuss how Terri learned to set boundaries for herself, what it means to set your own standards, and why you don’t always have to jump straight to cutting people off from your life. They also share some tips for how to approach difficult conversations around boundaries with loved ones so that they are open to accepting your preferences. They answer an email from a listener whose relationship with her family improved when she moved further away from home, but is now feeling like they don’t respect her choices when she’s close by. Then Jordana and Dr. Naomi answer a Betchicist question about whether or not you should feel obligated to give your friends a good deal on Taylor Swift tickets. Where do you draw the line between profit and friendship? Finally, they weigh in on a pair of Triggered submissions about a missing dinner invitation and a Starbucks barista mishap.

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Dr. Naomi shares a story about feeling heavy emotions after hearing news from old friends. Plus, Jordana tells us how she prioritized her own needs on her birthday this year. An emailer writes in with a dilemma about feeling burned out and bitter after going on one-too-many dates. How do you navigate the disappointment that comes with a string of unsuccessful dating encounters? The Betchicist question comes from a listener who got a saved-the-date for an upcoming wedding but never got invited. What are the rules of wedding invitations? They answer a voicemail from a caller who needs help setting intentions for a positive outlook on her pregnancy. Is it possible to learn to let go and live in the discomfort of someone else’s mistakes? They close things with some Triggered scenarios about a redheaded baby and some daunting dating advice.

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It’s almost Jordana’s birthday and Dr. Naomi helps her reflect on the pressure of meeting timelines and milestones as you get older. Then a listener writes in to ask whether or not you should expect your significant other to post about you on social media. What does it say about your relationship if your boyfriend won’t share your relationship online, and does it imply he has something to hide? The Betchicist question comes from an emailer whose husband suddenly decided to cut his father out of his life. Are you obligated to support your partner’s life decisions, even if they require you to make a sacrifice? This week’s Intentions email, presented by The Knot Vendor Marketplace, involves a listener who feels an unshakable sense of urgency to get engaged, and Dr. Naomi gives her some tips to stop overthinking timelines. They close things with some Triggered scenarios about relationship judgment, and curly hair-shaming.

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Oversharing: Calm TF Down is available now, featuring our series of guided meditations! Become a subscriber in the Apple Podcasts app or go to subscribe.betches.com 

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