Are dads actually contributing more to the day-to-day parenting of their kids?

In this episode, Libby and Tegan explore the idea of ‘Dad Culture’ and how the mental load of parenting can and should be split between primary and secondary caregivers.

And have you ever noticed your child feeling a bit left out when their siblings have your attention? We chat about how we handle sibling rivalry and help one listener navigate it. 

Plus, in this week’s Nails & Fails, Tegan wants to normalise “butt talk” and Libby’s gearing up for a charity event and she needs Tegan’s help.

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Assistant Producer: Tahli Blackman

Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

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What’s been your least favourite phase of parenting?

In this episode, Tegan and Libby look back on the stages of parenthood they've experienced so far and agree on one phase in particular being the worst, and it’s not what you’d expect.

And if you're exhausted about worrying about every member of you families feelings, same. Libby and Tegan dive into the mental load of parenting 'feelings first'.

Plus, Libby had a special guest join her in this episode, and we count that as her nail of the week.

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Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

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Do you remember who you were before you had kids? Or does that feel like fever dream at this point?

In this episode, Libby and Tegan reflect on what their lives were like before becoming parents and how having kids has changed them. You might be familiar with Libby's pre-kid life...but did you know Tegan had a different kind of microphone-related job?

They also chat about how you can help your child get used to going to school, after-school activities and the importance of downtime.

Plus, Libby has a recommendation for keeping kids safe online - it's a must hear! Here's the link if you want more information.

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When have you lied to your kids? And what lies did you parents tell you growing up? From white lies to exaggerating the truth, sometimes a little truth bending is required to get through a sudden tooth fairy dilemma or to simply get your kids to eat their crust.

In this episode, Libby and Tegan share the hilarious and heartfelt moments they've had to fib to their kids. Plus, they discuss Ash Barty's recent reflections on missing milestones and mum guilt.  

LOOKING FOR A LAUGH? CHECK OUT THE 'CANCELLED' EPISODE ALL ABOUT BIRTH HERE. 

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A heads up: This episode discusses child sexual abuse and may be better to listen to with headphones if little ears are around.

As parent we know that conversation with our kids can sometimes go in one ear and out the other, but sometimes there is a conversation so important we need to make sure it sticks. 

This episode Tegan Natoli is joined by Triple M Rush Hour Sydney Host and founder of Gotch4Life Gus Worland, who is also the founder of Gotcha For Life, to learn how to talk to your child about their safety, how you can adapt those conversations for any age child and the resources available to help you navigate those chats with confidence.

For more information click here. Or listen to this episode of our news podcast The Quicky.

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Executive Producers: Talissa Bazaz & Courtney Ammenhauser 

Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

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Are school swimming carnivals really that important? How is everyone keeping their kids entertained while running errands? And what do you do when your child gets body shamed by someone close to you?

In this episode, Libby and Tegan discuss Libby's viral Instagram video, the importance of participation, and we share our secrets to keeping kids calm at the shopping centre.

Plus, Tegan has a new role in the P&C at her kids' school she doesn't remember volunteering for.

LOOKING FOR A LAUGH? CHECK OUT THE 'CANCELLED' EPISODE ALL ABOUT BIRTH HERE. 

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Assistant Producer: Tahli Blackman

Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

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Our friends do so many incredible things for us. But what happens when your best friend offers to have your baby for you?

In this episode, Libby and Tegan speak to best friends Edwina and Jen who went down a surrogacy path together. They share how they navigated this new territory as friends and what it's like to have kids who are 'womb mates".

Plus, Tegan can't get enough of a very specific hot cross bun, and Libby's dairy-free journey continues.

RECCOMENDATIONS: 
Biscoff Hot Cross Buns

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Producer: Grace Rouvray

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We know children don’t come with an instruction manual, so we’re bound to make mistakes, especially with our first child.

This episode Libby and Tegan discuss which of their children they have done the best parenting on and which child is the ‘practice pancake’.

Plus, most families in Australia are struggling with the cost of living crisis, so we’ve got some simple changes for your every day to ease a bit of the financial load.

And in nails and fails Tegan’s son is loving his mullet, and Libby tries to (unsuccessfully) convince Tegan to have a fourth child

RECOMMENDATIONS 

Clothing Rack

Econaps Cloth Nappies 

The Sugar Mamma

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Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

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Going through a divorce is never easy. But no one told us one of the hardest parts is actually figuring out how to tell the kids.

On this weeks episode Tegan speaks to Clinical Psychologist Katherine Lawrence about how and when to talk to your kids about separation or divorce.

And on a lighter note Libby and Tegan have searched the internet far and wide to bring you the weirdest baby names ever recorded in history. And Libby has a not so secret reveal which shocks Tegan to her core.

In Nails & Fails Libby is nailing the back to school phase and Tegan must know EVERYTHING.

RECOMMENDATIONS 

Anita Birges - Home Organisations

Ubbi Wipes Dispenser 

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With thanks to Clinical Psychologist Katherine Lawrence

Producer: Grace Rouvray

Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

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This week Tegan & Libby are talking all things 1's and 2's and unpacking a comedian’s controversial toilet training regime to start ’em young... like 5 months young! Perhaps even more controversial, we agree (kind of).

Plus, did you know that night terrors are actually your child exploring their imagination? This terrifying and annoyingly important stage can be a struggle, so we have some tips to manage the night time scaries.

And, in Nails and Fails Tegan struggles with wrangling the post holiday schedule and finding true love through the puppy she never wanted.

RECOMMENDATIONS 

Lice Clinics Australia

Night Terrors Fact Sheet

Silicone Toddler Placemats

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Producer: Grace Rouvray

Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

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