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Passive Aggressiveness and Betrayal: How to Recognize and Overcome It


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.What would you guess is the #1 thing people want help with when they go to see a therapist or a coach? Here’s a hint…whether you’re dealing with betrayal, trauma, or just simple disruptions in a relationship growing apart, all these roads lead to a need for better communication. 

We are hard-wired for connection, and a core part of connection is communication. Join Alana on this episode for the first step to better communication in your relationship – learning the difference between communicating in a way that is passive, aggressive, passive aggressive, and assertive. 

A few topics covered on this episode include:

  • Why are you feeling passive aggressive with your partner after betrayal?

  • What does it look like to communicate passive aggressively?

  • The swings between communication styles after betrayal.

  • How to communicate using “I feel” statements.

  • How learning new information can lead to behavior changes.

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    • Alana Gordon - MFTIntern, CCPS-C
    • Choose Recovery Services
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