In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of the no-contact rule and explore why it is essential for your healing journey after a breakup. We discuss the emotional and psychological challenges that come with maintaining no-contact and provide practical tips to help you resist the urge to reach out to your ex.

Key Points Covered:

1. Explanation of No-Contact:

   • Definition and purpose of the no-contact rule.
   • The importance of avoiding all forms of communication with your ex, including direct and indirect contact.
   • Emphasising the goal of emotional healing, gaining perspective, and rebuilding your life independently.

2. Understanding the Emotional Dissonance:

   • Addressing the conflict between knowing intellectually why no-contact is necessary and struggling with emotional urges.
   • Reassuring listeners that there is nothing wrong with feeling drawn to their ex, due to past experiences or unresolved feelings.

3. Strategies to Resist the Urge to Break No-Contact:

   • Interrupt Your Thoughts or Feelings:
     • Practical suggestions like going for a walk or getting a coffee to change your state of mind.
   • Remind Yourself Why:
     • Reflect on the reasons for maintaining no-contact, such as knowing you deserve better or recalling how poorly you were treated.

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