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In this episode Georgie and Engrid dive into what it's like to bounce back from a bad body image day. We discuss what those days look like for us and what we do to pick ourselves up and out of it. We also talk about why it's usually much deeper than your body and share how to tap into those deeper issues.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• What a bad body image day can feel like
• The thoughts that we have
• Why it's ok to have these thoughts
• What to remember when you start comparing yourself to your past
• Body image noise around skin
• The expectations we put on our bodies
• Our body image is all about our perception
• Why you don't have to be responsible for other people's judgements
• How the people around you feel about their bodies can influence us
• Your energy matters more than your appearance
• Why isolating yourself can make body image worse
• Tools we use to get out of that negative head space
• Asking yourself "What else is going on here?"
• "Where is this coming from?"

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In this episode the gals dive into a number of listener submitted topics. As per usual the topics prompt a lot of stories, reflection, and thoughts. And as always please remember to take what you like and leave the rest. Georgie and Engrid are not therapists and they're certainly not your gurus. Enjoy the episode :)

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Listener Submitted Topics:

• Boredom Vs. Depression Vs. Disinterest thru the lens of post-pandemic burnout
• Learning to trust your gut and not being swayed by others advice/opinions
• Arriving at the realization that not all people with authority should be listened to.
• How to let go of a situation where you didn't get to say everything you wanted to - but making peace with that.
• How to share past traumas with a new friend or in a new relationship
• Maintaining a sense of independence in a relationship

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ADDITIONAL EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Putting People on Pedestals

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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Today we are diving into this feeling of social media burnout and our relationship with social media. We want to have an honest, imperfect conversation about where we're at with social media knowing that our thoughts and feelings may change, contradict each other and be overall just messy.

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QUESTIONS WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE:

• How does being on social media make you feel right now
• What are the positive things that social media has brought to your life/what do you enjoy about it?
• What are the negatives? Has it gotten worse?
• Can we live without it? Do we want to?
• How does it make you feel about yourself?
• Where do you think it's going?

We would love to revisit this topic in a future episode to share your thoughts, input, and experience with these questions too. Be sure to follow us on instagram @galpalspodcast where we ask questions on our stories for upcoming episodes to feature you (always shared anonymously of course).

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ADDITIONAL EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Apologizing

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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GEORGIE

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In this episode the gals revisit the episode about letting go: how we process letting go & moving on. In this episode the gals asked YOU - our amazing listeners to share their experiences with the idea of outgrowing your story and letting go. Listeners share their stories with us on our instagram @galpalspodcast

Questions listeners answer in this episode:

• What's a story/belief you've let go of?
• How do you know when you've outgrown a belief?
• What does letting go of an old story look like for you?
• Is there a material item that you've had to let go of that symbolizes a time in your life that you've outgrown?
• Have you parted with something that keeps an old story/belief alive?
• Can we look back at times in our lives and see them realistically?

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ADDITIONAL EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Apologizing

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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ENGRID

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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On this week's episode, Georgie and Engrid discuss the healthy self-soothing tools they use when they're experiencing difficult and overwhelming emotions.

Self Soothing:

Self-soothing refers to behaviors that we use to restore emotional equilibrium when we've experienced a setback or feel stressed out. - Physcology Today

We use self soothing tools in the height of difficult emotions ("triage'")

• What negative coping tools have you relied on in the past to manage overwhelming emotions?
• What helped you stop relying on them?
• What soothing tools do you reach for when you're feeling: angry
• What soothing tools do you reach for when you're feeling: lonely
• What soothing tools do you reach for when you're feeling: sad
• What soothing tools do you reach for when you're feeling: anxious/overwhelmed
• What's a recent example of feeling overwhelmed/anxious - and what did you do to soothe yourself? (what thoughts were racing, how did your body feel, how long did it take to calm down)

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Purpose of Today's Episode:

To discuss the nuances of different non-direct communication styles and the potential driving forces behind them. The gals discuss the fawn trauma/stress response. They discuss helpful tools that have proven to be beneficial when it comes to clear, direct (and kind) communication. And they unpack the nuances of navigating potential conflict when there has been a misunderstanding.

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Inspiration for this Episode: The Fawn Trauma Response (@theholisticpsychologist)

• People pleasing
• Going along with another person's perspective, beliefs, or values without connecting to your own
• Dissociating (leaving the body) "spacing out"
• Lets other people make decisions
• Avoids any situation that could lead to conflict
• Fears saying "no"
• Overly polite + agreeable
• Hyper aware of other people's emotions + needs while betraying their own

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• Different Non-Direct Communication Styles
• What are some helpful tools you've learned to be more clear (and kind) with your communication with others?
• How do you navigate communication with someone who is asking you to "read between the lines"?
• Potential conflict can feel uncomfortable - how did you navigate these situations in the past? How do you navigate them now?
• How do you stay true to YOUR own beliefs/feelings without being influenced (guilt tripped) into how someone else wants you to act/feel/believe?

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ADDITIONAL EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Apologizing

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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CONNECT WITH US

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Join: Gal Pal Corral

ENGRID

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Email: [email protected]

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GEORGIE

Instagram: @georgiemorley

The Chasing Joy Podcast

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In this episode the gals revisit a popular past episode Body Image In Photos - except this time they hear all from YOU! Listeners share their personal stories of how they relate to this topic, what comes up for them, and stories they have around what seeing a bad photo can bring up.

TRIGGER WARNING:Talk about bodies including sizeInternalized fatphobia

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• How do you feel when you see a photo of yourself you don't like?
• Do you have a hard time viewing photos of yourself?
• What comes up for you when you know you're going to have your photo taken (like going to a wedding etc)?
• What makes you like a photo of yourself?
• What does it feel like to see a photo of yourself you don't like?
• How has your relationship with seeing photos of themselves has improved over the years?
• Have you been able to look back at a photo see it differently as time has passed?

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EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Body Image In Photos

Apologizing

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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Join: Gal Pal Corral

ENGRID

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Email: [email protected]

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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In this episode, the gals aim to unpack the ways they have unlearned old patterns that no longer serve them. The gals share how they are learning to override our old narratives and adopt new ways of navigating situations instead. How can we let go of old behavior patterns that are no longer serving us and instead choose differently from our default programming.

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QUESTIONS IN THIS EPISODE:

What are some of your triggers?

How do you know when a behavior of yours isn't serving you anymore?

What does the process of changing your behavior look like?

What things have helped you make this change last?

What are some examples of behaviors you've changed?

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ADDITIONAL EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Lopsided Relationships & Codependency

Putting Other People On Pedestals

Perfectionism & Self Sabotage

Jealousy

Resentment

Letting Go

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Purpose of This Episode:

This week the gals unpack the nuances of comparison. What it feels like, what triggers it, their relationship with comparison from childhood, and more.

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EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Apologizing

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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CONNECT WITH US

Instagram

Join: Gal Pal Corral

ENGRID

Instagram: @livengproof

Email: [email protected]

Liveng Proof Podcast

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GEORGIE

Instagram: @georgiemorley

The Chasing Joy Podcast

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Purpose of This Episode:

In this episode Engrid joins you solo to share about the experiences & influences that have shaped her approach to personal training. She discusses the influences of diet culture, rejecting the diet mentality, and how she navigates this with clients. She discusses why diets ultimately don't work and the Non-Weight Loss Benefits of Training. She shares common beliefs she hears from clients and how she shifts the focus.

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HELPFUL RESOURCES:

Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach (4th edition)

Eating in the Light of the Moon: How Women Can Transform Their Relationship with Food Through Myths, Metaphors, and Storytelling - by Anita Johnston

Anti-Diet: Reclaim Your Time, Money, Well-Being, and Happiness Through Intuitive Eating - by Christie Harrison

Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma - by Peter Levine

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma - by Bessel Van Der Kolk

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma - by Robert M. Sapolsky

Food Psych Podcast

Nourishing Women's Podcast

Fearing The Black Body - by Sabrina Strings

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PODCASTS EPISODES MENTIONED:

Nourishing Womens Podcast Ep. 57 Orthorexia - An Eating Disorder on the Rise and in Disguise

LPP #127 My Vyvnase Addiction Story

Feldenkrais Method

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ENGRID

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GEORGIE

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