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What we're talking about today: This week we're talking about taking on the energy of the media we consume (music, podcasts, tv, movies & the people we are around)

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SEMI-ANNUAL LISTENER FUNDING: It brings us so much joy to create Gal Pals AND we want to continue to make it sustainable for our lives as we continue to grow and move forward.

We wanted to offer you the opportunity again to directly support the creation of Gal Pals, that respects both of us and you as the listener of this podcast.

To directly support the show you can venmo: @EngridLatina

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ADDITIONAL EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Apologizing

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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ENGRID

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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We love our worth the hype episodes because we get to crowd-source from y'all - our amazing listeners - to see what is truly worth the hype and what does not meet expectations. Here is our updated list for January 2022: Worth the Hype III. Enjoy!

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ADDITIONAL EPISODES YOU MIGHT ALSO ENJOY:

Worth The Hype 1

Worth The Hype 2

Receiving Feedback

Giving Feedback

Nuances of Friendships, Not Taking It Personally, & Overthinking

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ENGRID

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Liveng Proof Podcast

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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TV SHOW or MOVIE

Georgie:

• Soul - pixar

Engrid:

• Outlander
• Ted Lasso
• Maid
• Gilmore Girls
• Queer Eye
• Flea Bag
• Yellowstone
• Normal People
• Harry Potter
• I'ts a Wonderful Life
• Dune

Listeners:

• Schitt's Creek
• Queer Eye
• Friends
• Ted Lasso
• Arcane
• Encanto
• The Office (how am I just watching this now)
• Gilmore Girls
• Brooklyn 99
• Hacks
• Handmaid's Tale
• All I know
• Witcher and Wheel of Time
• Only Murders in the Building
• Euphoria
• Emily in Paris
• Seinfeld
• Yellowstone
• Succession
• Street Gang - a documentary about Sesame Street
• Insecure
• You
• Euphoria
• Sex Life of College Girls
• Sex Education
• Dune
• Squid Game
• Grey's Anatomy
• Outerbanks
• The Crown
• Maid
• Gossip Girl Reboot
• Spiderman no way home
• Fleabag

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MUSICAL ARTIST / NEW SONG

Georgie:

• Doja Cat
• Dua Lipa
• Lil Nas X

Engrid:

• Taylor Swift
• Tyler Childers
• Where's My Love - SYML
• Heat Wave - Glass Animals

Listeners:

• Taylor Swift
• All to Well 10 minute version
• Nic D.
• Serotonin and Fineapple two great songs
• Tame Impala
• Fleet Foxes
• Adele
• Harry Styles
• Justin Beiber
• Olivia Rodrigo
• Maggie Rogers
• Brandi Carlile
• Lorde's Mood Ring
• Lizzy McAlpine
• Silk Sonic

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FASHION TREND / BRAND

Georgie:

• Straight Leg/Boyfriend Jeans
• Birkenstocks
• Blundstones
• Bucket Hats

Engrid:

• Doc. Marten Chelsea Combat Boot
• Abercrombie Curve Love Straight Jeans
• Cross Body Fanny Packs (JAck)

Listeners:

• Poshmark
• Free People
• Everlane
• Mom Jeans
• Skinny Jeans
• High waisted pants
• Blundstone's
• Thrifting
• Levis Jeans
• Ankle booties
• Lululemon
• TNA sweat sets (Aritzia)
• Champion
• Sweats
• High top converse
• High waisted everything
• Rothy's
• Straight leg jeans
• Sheertex tights
• Girlfriend Collective
• Mom Jeans
• Bucket Hats
• Patagonia
• North Face
• Claw clips
• Overalls
• Hill house nap dress
• Skims
• Dr. Martens

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BEAUTY TRENDS

Georgie:

• Farmacy Honeymoon Glow
• The ilia mascara
• Beauty blenders
• Facials
• Charlotte Tilbury

Engrid:

• Charlotte Tilbury Contour Wand
• Niacinamide
• Farmacy - Honey Grail Ultra Hydrating Face Oil
• OSEA Body Oil
• Olaplex
• Bumble & Bumble Flexible Hold Hairspray

Listeners:

• La Mer
• Olaplex
• Mara Algea Retinol Face Oil
• Ilia
• Sunscreen
• JVN air dry cream
• Origins
• Clinique concealer
• The brow trio
• The no makeup work from home life
• Summer fridays
• Super soft washcloths for makeup removal
• Microblading
• Glossier
• Paula's choice
• Creave
• Boy brow
• Faux freckles + blush
• Primally pure
• Ice rollingt
• Biossance
• Beauty counter
• Laneige
• Face steamers
• Glitter eyeshadow
• Oil cleansing
• Certain glossier items
• Mini uggs
• Gel x nails
• Mascara primer
• Charlotte tilbury flawless filter

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OTHER BRAND

Georgie:

• Mejuri
• Baggu bags - nellie got them for me
• Cuyana leather bags - my friend Lindsay introduced me to them
• Nice cars

Engrid:

• Lululemon Align Leggings
• Bala Wrist/Ankle Weights
• Bomba Socks
• Loopy Phone Cases
• Manduka Yoga Blocks & Mat
• Weighted Blankets

Listeners:

• Lumie alarm clock
• WeVibe vibrator
• Silk pillow cases
• Cometeer coffee
• June shine
• Retin A for acne
• Revlon blow dry brush
• Peloton
• Bala bangles
• Stanley water bottles
• Brooklinen pillows
• Ritual vitamins
• Nice sheets
• Air fryer
• Dyson vacuum
• Tushy bidet
• Simple modern cup

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BOOK OR PODCAST

Georgie:

• What We Said
• Be there in 5
• The Daily

Engrid:

• Breath - by James Nestor
• Atlas of the Heart - Brene Brown
• Drama of the Gifted Child
• The Boy, The Mole, The Fox, & The Horse - Charlie Mackesy
• Be There in Five (podcast)
• Unlocking Us (podcast)
• Adult Child (podcast)
• Absolutely Not (podcast)

Listeners:

• To Kill a Mockingbird
• The Alchemist
• Jenna Kutcher's podcast
• Braiding sweetgrass - (book)
• Where should we begin - ester perell
• Atomic habits (book)
• Daisy Jones (book)
• The Six (book)
• We Can Do Hard Things podcast
• Brene Brown
• NPR's throughline
• Midnight Library (book)
• Nature of Fragile Things (book)
• True Crime Garage Podcast
• Bad Broadcast
• It Ends with Us (book)
• The Seven Husbands of Eveelyn Hugo (book)
• Crime Junkies
• Murdaugh Murders Podcsat
• Girls Gotta Eat
• Four Winds (book)
• Last thing he ever told me (book)
• Rock Paper Scissors (book)
• Armchair Expert Podcast
• The River has Teeth (book)
• Think Again by Adam Grant (book)

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NOT WORTH THE HYPE

Georgie:

• Aritzia
• Agolde jeans - they aren't bad - they're just really expensive for what they are
• nespresso

Engrid:

• Outer Banks
• Squid Game
• Ritual Vitamins (IMO)
• Dyson Vacuum Cleaner

Listeners:

• Cros
• Netflix
• Justin Bieber
• Dyson Airwrap
• Always Pan
• The Bachelor
• Shackets
• Adele
• Friends
• Skims
• Emily in Paris
• Don't Look Up
• Dryer Brush - Revlon

• Patrick TA lamination gel makes brows crusty af
• Tula
• Glossier
• Drunk elephant
• Brazilian waxes
• Alcohol
• Taylor swift
• Juicers
• Boy brow (there I said it)
• Zara
• Madaket Millie's

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INFLUENCER RECOMMENDED PRODUCT

Georgie:

• Nuuly - my friend Mimi influenced me and used a what we said code
• Credo beauty *the healthy maven
• w&p Porter mug - instagram ad
• Mimi & jaci

Engrid:

• Bliss Skincare Products
• Sports Research Collagen Peptides
• Coastal Blue Blocking Glasses
• Ole Henriksen Truth On The Glow - Cleansing Cloths (not worth it IMO)
• Ritual Vitamins

Listeners:

• Ilia mascara
• AYBL activewear
• Woo Lube
• Curology
• Fab Fit Fun Box
• Dashing Diva Gloss Nail Strips
• Vegamour for hair growth - didn't like
• Dae Monsoon Moisture Mask
• Jaclyn Hill makeup
• The brow trio
• Laura Mercier Setting powder
• That giant water bottle *not worth the hype
• Summer Fridays - the jet lag mask
• Ana Louisa jewelry
• Matcha tea - not worth the hype
• Sheertex
• Ritual
• Spanx leggings
• Glossier
• Always pan - returned after 2 months no longer non-stick
• Ice roller
• Parade underwear
• Outdoor voices exercise dress
• Sharpie gel pens for bullet journaling
• Waterless shampoo/conditioner
• Hydrojug
• Athletic greens
• Ilia serum
• Chemex
• Cuup bras
• Thrive lash extension mascara

With the new year comes a lot of media about "starting fresh" and cultivating new habits…we wanted to talk about how you don't need to reinvent yourself just because we kicked off a new year. We also wanted to discuss how our relationships with goal/intention setting has changed over the years.

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OTHER EPISODES YOU MIGHT LIKE:

Success After A Setback

From Over-Exercise To Restorative Movement with Kara Duval

Perfectionism & Self Sabotage

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TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

How has your relationship with setting goals/intentions changed over the years?

Thoughts on how we are trending away from an overly curated/perfected/glamorized feed? Can we glamorize the unglamorous?

"There's a lot of beauty in ordinary things, isn't that kinda the point?" - Pam Beasley

What's the difference between a highlight reel and romanticizing your life?

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CONNECT WITH US

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Join: Gal Pal Corral

ENGRID

Instagram: @livengproof

Liveng Proof Podcast

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GEORGIE

Instagram: @georgiemorley

The Chasing Joy Podcast

Website

n the episode Georgie & Engrid are discussing all things Inner Critic. We all have those judgemental voices (that are really just trying to protect us) that show up. The gals share their biggest inner critic stories, what the narratives sound like (usually mean) and ways the inner critic shows up in our lives (perfectionism anyone?). And of course they dive into where these stories came from in the first place. They ponder the question:

What does it look like to give the critical parts of yourself loving attention, instead of trying to ignore them?

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OTHER EPISODES YOU MIGHT LIKE:

Navigating The Holidays

Success After A Setback

From Over-Exercise To Restorative Movement with Kara Duval

Perfectionism & Self Sabotage

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CONNECT WITH US

Instagram

Join: Gal Pal Corral

ENGRID

Instagram: @livengproof

Liveng Proof Podcast

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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Self Improvement Fatigue & Social Media Burnout

On today's episode, Georgie dives into a few different of the year topics including burnout from social media, creativity, and self-improvement fatigue.

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ENGRID

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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In this episode Georgie & Engrid unpack this feeling that can arise in a relationship where you feel (often subconsciously) like you have to live up to expectations, play a role - in a sense be "perfect" - in order for the relationship to really work. Usually we aren't aware of these feelings and inadvertently assume a role in order to either prevent people from leaving, or to be revered by someone else. As with most topics on Gal Pals it's nuanced. We hope this convo resonates with you!

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ENGRID

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Liveng Proof Podcast

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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QUESTIONS IN THIS EPISODE:

Do you have people in your life you feel like you can be 100% yourself with? (like the good bad and UGLY)

Did you see healthy conflict modeled growing up?

How did the style of conflict you saw impact how you showed up in relationships?

In a romantic relationship what would happen when you made a big mistake (or the other person did)? (do you tend to withdraw or over engage)

Has that changed at all?

How does it feel in your body when you hurt a friend or partner or someone you love? (what do you do with that feeling)

What does being a perfect friend look like to you?

What happens when you make a mistake in a new(ish) friendship?

As many of us will be traveling or hosting this season - and spending time with family and friends - we thought it was a good time to chat about being home for the holidays and what that can bring up.

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QUESTIONS IN THE EPISODE:

In what ways have you found it helpful to handle the non-verbal expectations of others?

What kind of gatherings have you left full of energy? Emotionally Drained?

What things do you need to do when you feel overwhelmed in a family gathering? How do you tend to these needs?

Even if you do set a boundary with family/friends gathering - in what ways have you found it helpful to handle when this boundary is not honored/respected?

How do you navigate gossip? What do you do when others want to speak about someone else to you (instead of simply talking directly to the person it involves)?

What does detaching and not taking it personally feel/look like for you?

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ENGRID

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Engrid here, just popping in with a little life update and to let you know we'll be back with fresh Gal Pals in December.

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LINKS MENTIONED:

Navigating The Holidays

Breath YouTube Video (Reader's Digest Version of the Book)

Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art

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ENGRID

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As a woman I feel like I was encouraged not to have needs and to put others' feelings ahead of my own, not to inconvenience those around me. Overall I felt like it was preferred if I was "low maintenance". In this episode we want to normalize how having needs, being picky, choosy, or particular about something doesn't make you "too much". Having preferences and expressing those preferences is normal and okay.

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In This Episode:

• What are some things you are particular about?
• In the event that you're not able to be particular/picky - how does it make you feel?
• Were you ever criticized or teased for having particularities or preferences?
• Do you ever worry that your preferences make you "too much"?
• Have you ever hesitated to share/express a preference out of fear that it would inconvenience others?

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ENGRID

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GEORGIE

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The Chasing Joy Podcast

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In this episode Georgie and Engrid unpack the nuances of overthinking, how it feels, what triggers it, and how they deal with it.

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IN THIS EPISODE:

• How would you describe what it's like to be an "over thinker"?
• What are some recent examples of when you've been overthinking?
• Have you always been an over thinker?
• Where do you think it comes from?
• Do certain situations trigger it?
• What do you do to feel better?
• Is there a sweet spot of being prepared and being thoughtful without "overthinking"?
• How can you be at peace with those judgmental voices?

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CONNECT WITH US

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Join: Gal Pal Corral

ENGRID

Instagram: @livengproof

Liveng Proof Podcast

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GEORGIE

Instagram: @georgiemorley

The Chasing Joy Podcast

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