Afford Anything

Q&A: How to Choose Between Financial Freedom and a First Home


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#655: What would you do if, at the age of 23, you found yourself with $70,000 a year leftover after expenses? Would you pour everything into retirement and coast to financial independence, or stockpile a down payment before life gets pricier with kids, a mortgage, and maintenance costs?

This week, we dive into that real-life dilemma and explore how to strike the perfect balance between freedom now and security later.

Along the way, we question whether a 0.40% fee for automated tax-loss harvesting is really worth it, and debate if the rise of mega-corporations means small-cap value investing is dead.


Listener Questions in This Episode

  • “Julio” asks: How should we split savings between Coast FI and a future down payment, and where should that down payment sit? (01:48)
  • Lindsay asks: Is 0.40 percent worth it for Fidelity’s tax loss harvesting and how do we unwind back to self managed index funds? (32:31)
  • Greg asks: If a handful of giants dominate, should we ignore history and tilt to only the top companies instead of broad markets and small cap value? (50:51)


    Key Takeaways

    • The right savings balance may depend less on math and more on clarity about what “home” really means to you
    • Building a down payment might be the fastest way to reach Coast FI, but not for the reason you’d expect
    • Parking cash safely is trickier than it sounds, especially when the market tempts you with higher returns
    • That 0.40 percent fee could be either a silent drag or a smart trade-off, depending on one often-overlooked detail
    • The rise of mega-caps might look unstoppable, yet history has a way of surprising even the biggest players
    • True diversification isn’t about predicting winners, it’s about protecting future you from overconfidence today

    • Chapters

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      (00:00) Are we headed for a dystopian future

      (01:48) A 23-year-old with a $125k income and a big savings gap

      08:52) House price, down payment size, and the numbers that drive the split

      (10:47) The savings snowball case, match protection, and timeline trade-offs

      (25:14) Where to park the down payment, why cash beats stocks for readiness

      (32:31) Is 0.40 percent worth it for tax-loss harvesting

      (36:24) Fees versus claimed tax savings, turnover, and exit options

      (50:51) Should dystopia change our portfolio

      (54:36) Small-cap value beyond tech, acquisitions, and global opportunity

      (1:11:02) Optimism, innovation, and why investing still assumes progress


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