We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling

Quiet Quitting In Romantic Relationships


Listen Later

There’s a new term in the workplace that describes a behavior that’s existed for as long as I can remember: Quiet Quitting. 


It’s when an employee is dissatisfied with their job and rather than resigning, they do the bare minimum (and sometimes less) to remain employed. But they’re basically checked out. They’re going through the motions to avoid having to deal with the stress that comes from changing their job.


Today I want to use that term and apply it to what we do with loved ones when we “quietly quit” our relationships. 


It’s not something most of us do consciously. But we all do it to some extent. 


I’m talking about the soft exits we unintentionally take and how those exits result in creating distance in our relationships.  


These are things that look, at least on the surface, like normal everyday activities. 


I want to talk about how seemingly benign activities can drain energy from our relationships because they keep us too busy for deep connection. And how eroding intimacy over time can lead to the kinds of exits that tend to be terminal in relationships: Like affairs. 


Questions? Comments? Email us at [email protected]


Share this episode with a friend! 

Xxoo Darcy


CREDITS

This episode of “We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” was produced by Darcy Sterling. Editing and sound engineering by Bart Migal. Our theme music is by Trending Music. Special thanks to Amanda Cristiani, Stephanie Sterling and Preston Smith. “We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” is a Sterling Standard Production. 

 

DISCLAIMER


#RelationshipTalk #Relationships #RelationshipPodcast #RelationshipPodcasts #RelationshipAdvice #RelationshipGoals #RelationshipExperts

#RealTalkRelationships #PodcastLove #WeNeedToTalkWithDrDarcy #Therapy #CouplesCounseling #CouplesTherapy #DrDarcySterling

#DoctorDarcySterling #DrDarcy


Instagram:@drdarcysterling 

Facebook:Dr.Darcy Sterling

Tik Tok:@doctordarcysterling  

Twitter:@DrDarcySterling   

YouTube:@DarcySterling   

Threads:@drdarcysterling

Watch this episode here on YouTube. 

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy SterlingBy Darcy Sterling

  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8

4.8

22 ratings


More shows like We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling

View all
Hidden Brain by Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam

Hidden Brain

43,442 Listeners

The Daily by The New York Times

The Daily

111,785 Listeners

We're Having Gay Sex by Ashley Gavin & Studio71

We're Having Gay Sex

2,697 Listeners

the tara bixby podcast by Tara Bixby

the tara bixby podcast

137 Listeners

Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark by Turning Point USA

Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark

12,395 Listeners

IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson by Higher Ground

IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson

12,216 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

28,304 Listeners

The Ezra Klein Show by New York Times Opinion

The Ezra Klein Show

15,237 Listeners

Good Inside with Dr. Becky by Dr. Becky Kennedy

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

4,371 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

We Can Do Hard Things

41,337 Listeners

The Dr. Gabrielle Lyon Show by Dr. Gabrielle Lyon

The Dr. Gabrielle Lyon Show

1,126 Listeners

The Chris Cuomo Project by Chris Cuomo

The Chris Cuomo Project

3,507 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,416 Listeners

Handsome by Headgum

Handsome

12,453 Listeners