Denise Wiesner, LAc discusses Fertility and Sexual Intimacy with Dr. Ben Weitz.
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Podcast Highlights
2:14 Denise Wiesner’s practice has a focus on women’s health and fertility. She found that a lot of couples that are having trouble conceiving having problems with their sexuality and intimacy and their doctors were not offering any help with those problems. In fact, their doctors do not get a lot of training in sexuality and did not really feel comfortable even talking about such issues. This is why Denise felt the need to write this book.
5:43 Denise discusses some Chinese medicine and Taoist concepts (Taoist tradition is the precursor to Chinese medicine) in her book and she pointed out that the Taoists had this really equal relationship between yin and yang, male and female, and they would actually prescribe certain sexual positions to help patients cure certain problems. Denise also has chapters in her book on orgasm and foreplay and stress in her book.
7:37 Denise includes a discussion of the Chinese five elements of wood, water, earth, metal, and fire. In Taoist tradition, the earth is the center and this is about digestion and if you don’t feel good, it gets in the way of intimacy for men and women. This also includes the microbiome in your gut, your mouth, your skin, on the penis, and in the vagina. If a woman is trying to get pregnant, its not good if she has yeast and other infections in her vagina, so we want to have that balanced.
9:21 The vaginal microbiome is really important and we’re just starting to understand it. The vaginal pH is supposed to be acidic and it starts becoming a little more alkaline around the time of ovulation, so the sperm can live in the cervical fluid and they can swim up to meet the egg. If the vagina becomes too alkaline, a woman will get more yeast overgrowth. The vaginal mucous membranes are very permeable, so you want to make sure that if you use a lubricant that it does not contain preservatives, like parabens. Only a few lubricants have been approved for fertility by the FDA. A lot of lubes have a high osmolality, which means that they have the ability to pull water from the tissues and this makes their vagina very wet, but it is not so healthy for the tissues. It is better for the woman to produce more cervical mucous, which can be facilitated with acupuncture and herbs and even something like N. Acetylcysteine can thin out the cervical mucus and this can be helpful. Denise mentioned that a lot of people like to use coconut oil. But ideally it is best if a woman produces her own cervical fluid and this can be facilitated with proper diet and more time spent on foreplay. She said that it often takes women 20-45 minutes to become aroused, so you have to give them more time.
14:00 Functional Medicine can help with fertility by looking at the hormones, like the thyroid to make sure that it’s working properly. Traditional MDs usually only look at the TSH, so we should also look at T3 and T4 and the thyroid antibodies. If they have very high levels of antibodies, this means that they have a lot of inflammation and we need to help them to bring this down with diet and look at a stool test and see if there is dysbiosis, which is part of the Functional Medicine approach.
15:32 Electronics, laptop computers, and cell phones can decrease fertility. If you keep your phone in your pocket next to your scrotum or your laptop on your lap, it can decrease sperm counts and electronics in the bedroom can interfere with intimacy. So we should keep electronics out of the bedroom.