Raw Reality

A wholesome weekend, a few questionable purchases, some VERY strong opinions and a whole lot of random life updates. This week we're chatting about everything from haircare disappointments and slow cooker hacks to the things that make us feel like actual adults and our biggest icks. As always, nothing is off limits and the conversations take a few unexpected turns. 💌2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

We all know the power of saying YES, but what about the power of saying NO? In this episode, we're chatting about people pleasing, setting boundaries, feeling guilty for putting yourself first and learning that you don't have to say yes to everything. From friendships and relationships to business and career opportunities, we're unpacking why saying no feels so uncomfortable, why we're so scared of disappointing people and how learning to choose yourself can completely change the direction of your life.Because you can be a good person, have good intentions and STILL disappoint people. And that's okay. 🤍

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This week on Raw Reality, we’re catching you up on all the chaos. From Tate vomiting and golf fails to texting people at the most inconvenient times, Lily’s birthday celebrations, putting effort into your friendships and a car park situation that deserves its own story.We also have a cooking disaster involving a broken stove, overcooked meat and an oven that never even got turned on. Because apparently, adulting is going really well!PLUS, we’re getting into the question nobody asked but everyone needs to answer… where is your dog while you’re having sex? 👀 Because some of the things we’ve seen on Instagram have left us with QUESTIONS.And finally, our recommendation of the week is for anyone who does voiceovers, plus a little chat about the photo booth at our event!As always, nothing is off limits and we’re just here to have a chat.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

We’ve all made mistakes, had a few questionable life decisions and learnt some lessons the hard way. From terrible hair choices and career decisions to money mistakes, relationships and realising that reaching your goals doesn’t automatically make you happy, we’re sharing the things we probably wouldn’t do again. Some were funny, some were expensive, and some taught us lessons we genuinely needed to learn. Because sometimes the best lessons come from getting it wrong first!2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Life lately, hormones and all the random things in between 🤍We’re catching you up on everything from body changes and life updates to our current obsessions, weekend resets and the latest things happening in our lives.Then we get into the REAL conversations, from the moment you realise you’re officially an adult to the worst excuses for cancelling plans, sharing clothes with your friends, telling your partner everything and our thoughts on a surprise Olympic proposal.As always, nothing is off limits and we have A LOT to say. 💌2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

From opening her own salon at just 19 to stepping into the Love Island villa, Issy has already lived so many different chapters, and we’re getting into all of it.

We chat about backing yourself as a young female founder, the realities of building a business, and turning setbacks into opportunities after her salon was broken into. Of course, we couldn’t have Issy on without unpacking her Love Island experience, from feeling misunderstood on the show to being dumped and Conor choosing to leave the villa with her.

We also get into life after Love Island, travelling together, navigating how the world sees you, and making sure you never lose sight of who you are outside of what people see online.

Issy’s story is a reminder that there is so much more to someone than what we see on our screens, and we can’t wait for you to get to know the girl behind the villa.

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We’re catching up on everything happening in our lives lately! From Tori’s mum life updates and late-night Glassons shopping to Lily’s wedding dress journey, wedding planning and trying to figure out if she wants a blue or burgundy phone, there’s a LOT to unpack.

We’re also asking the big question: Is it normal or are we just weird? From accidentally stalking someone’s entire family on Instagram to making up fake scenarios in our heads and getting genuinely upset about them, we’re putting some of our most questionable habits to the test.

Plus, we’re sharing this week’s recommendation and having a good old girls’ chat about everything in between.

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We’re joined by Anna Archer, content creator, runner, founder of On The Run Club, early Runna investor and someone who has built a career online while continuously evolving.

From starting her fitness journey on social media and becoming a Gymshark athlete to finding her feet in the running world, building a business and navigating major shifts in her identity, Anna’s journey has been anything but linear.

We’re chatting about building a career online, figuring out who you are beyond social media, taking risks before you know whether they’ll pay off, and opening up about her ADHD and autism diagnoses and the role routine plays in her life.

Plus, we get into what Anna really wants the next chapter of her life to look like, how her priorities have changed and what it means to keep evolving while an entire online community watches.

An honest conversation about identity, growth, business and learning to back yourself, even when you don’t have it all figured out.

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Life lately has been a little bit hectic, so we’re chatting all things slowing down, business stress, weddings, Christmas, summer and learning that you actually CAN’T do 100% of everything.Tori is postponing her project, enjoying being back in a slower season and letting Tate develop at his own pace, while Lily is navigating the chaos of being a female business owner and learning how to regulate through the stress.We’re also talking hair, fashion, eating out, car deals, staff shoes, wedding planning, our latest event, the things we’re loving right now and, of course, our latest recommendations.Plus, we have to answer the very important question… **why is everyone suddenly obsessed with Paris?!**And because we clearly need more hobbies, we’re creating our ultimate girls’ activity bucket list. Rock climbing, bowling, surfing, hiking, tennis and more.Basically, another very real life update with a little bit of everything. 💌2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

In this episode, we’re having a real conversation about weight gain, body image and why so many women have been taught to believe that smaller automatically means better.

We’re unpacking the pressure of social acceptance, the way angles and progress photos can completely change how we see ourselves, genetics and body fat distribution, and the difference between looking confident and actually feeling confident.

We also dive into some pretty confronting statistics from the Butterfly Foundation, including the finding that 75% of young Australians surveyed wished they were thinner or leaner, and that 2 in 5 women globally said they would give up a year or more of their life to achieve their ideal appearance or body size.

Because when did being smaller become more valuable than actually living?

We chat about learning to become more comfortable with gaining weight, wearing different clothes, letting go of the fear of other people’s opinions, and focusing on performance, strength and what your body can actually DO rather than simply how it looks.

And perhaps the biggest question of all...

Would you rather have your dream body or your dream scale weight?

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