Raw Reality

Raw Reality

By TORISSTORY & FITWITHLILYHealth & Fitness
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Raw Reality episodes

  • #157 | When ‘That Girl’ Aesthetic Becomes Toxic

    Romanticising life is everywhere right now, on TikTok, Instagram, Pinterest and while it’s sold as self-love, for so many women it’s become just another pressure. In this episode, we unpack the difference between using romanticising as a tool for joy versus letting it become an escape from reality. We talk about what it actually means to slow down and appreciate small moments, why self-care doesn’t need to look aesthetic to matter, and how chasing a “that girl” lifestyle can leave you feeling more inadequate than inspired.

    We share raw moments from our own lives where we have felt the pressure creep in and how we pull ourselves out of it - creating main character energy from confidence rather than comparison.

    By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away with a new perspective on self-love: ‘your life is still beautiful on the days that don’t make Instagram’. We hope you enjoy xx


    Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.


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    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/


    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/


    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/

    34 min
  • Bloated, Tired, and Confused? Let’s Fix Your Gut

    If you’ve ever felt bloated after every meal, unsure where to even start with gut health, or overwhelmed by the endless supplements and TikTok trends — this episode is your permission slip to slow down and simplify.

    In this mini episode chat with naturopath Tia Miers, we unpack the real non-negotiables when it comes to healing your gut (especially while travelling), why your libido and hormones are more connected to your digestion than you think, and how things like stress, pace, and even your morning coffee routine could be making things worse.

    Listen to the full episode here -

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4msOl48iBP7FDiERDJ9v6B?

    si=b78277c3167e4251

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/raw-reality/id1681027631?

    i=1000652393398

    Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p3lhCT8xr|4

    Thank you for listening. Don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.

    Love Tori & Lily x

    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/

    2025 Notion template: https://rawreality.com.au/products/your-year-notion-template

    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZIMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/

    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/ Recording Studio @zonegym_https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_

    13 min
  • #156 Stop Overthinking & Start Posting: How to Actually Begin Your Social Media Journey

    We always get asked how to start socials and the ins and outs of the industry, so wanted to bring a full episode going into depth on the topic. Today we share how we got started on social media - from our very first posts and PR packages to the lessons we wish we knew earlier. We talk about finding your niche (or not), creating content that feels authentic, and pushing past the fear of judgment. You’ll also hear our honest take on brand deals, editing, and the unglamorous side of being online, plus answers to your biggest questions on growth, income, and turning social media into more than just a hobby. If you take anything from this episode it’s to post the content!! We hope you enjoy xx


    Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.


    MERCH RR x MSCR https://musclerepublic.com/collections/raw-reality-x-mscr (https://musclerepublic.com/collections/raw-reality-x-mscr)


    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/ (https://rawreality.com.au/)


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    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/ (https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/)

    @fitwithlilyy

    https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/ (https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/)


    Community Facebook group

    https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/ (https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/)


    Recording Studio @zonegym_

    https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/ (https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/)

    1 hr 10 min
  • The Cold Water Doesn't Get Warmer If You Jump Late

    If you’re waiting to feel ready — spoiler alert: you won’t.

    In this mini episode, we’re breaking down why messy action is the only way to move forward.
    We talk about:

    • Why perfectionism is killing your momentum

    • How to throw yourself in before you "feel ready"

    • The secret power of saying yes when you're scared

    • Why you don’t need a plan — just guts

    Confidence comes after action, not before.
    The water doesn’t get warmer. You just get braver.

    Listen to the full episode here -

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/78Ol4E1mvMDcscbLEIqfaW?si=9b8a0db83f1c4656

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/raw-reality/id1681027631?i=1000718184174

    Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlbEF5quXRM

    Thank you for listening. Don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.

    Love Tori & Lily x

    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/

    2025 Notion template: https://rawreality.com.au/products/your-year-notion-template

    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/

    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/

    12 min
  • #155 | What I Wish I Knew Before Owning My Own Business

    A solo episode today from Lily, talking about if she had to start her online coaching business again these are the things she would avoid. 3 years deep she has learnt a lot about the fitness industry and starting her own business, so wanted to share some insight to help you if you’re on the same journey. Starting a coaching business can feel overwhelming, and it’s easy to fall into common traps that slow growth and cause unnecessary stress. This episode breaks down the biggest mistakes coaches make in the early stages and also highlights the game-changing shifts that create momentum to build a successful business. Whether you’re just beginning or looking to refine an existing business, this conversation will help fast-track results and avoid years of trial and error.


    Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.


    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/


    2025 Notion template 

    https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR


    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/


    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/


    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/

    42 min
  • How to Make a Big Decision in Your 20s

    Feeling stuck between two paths? In this mini pep talk, we unpack the pressure of making big life decisions in your 20s — whether it’s moving, changing careers, ending a relationship, or saying yes to something new.

    We talk about why there’s no perfect choice, why it’s okay to change your mind, and how to explore all your “what ifs” without spiraling. Making a decision means sacrificing something, but it also means learning who you are in the process.

    This one’s for you if you’re afraid of regret, tired of overthinking, or just need someone to remind you — you’re never too old to change.

    Listen to the full episode here -

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3VRtAVPuLsRQBQMRtorT1R?si=8770bf2f24804832

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/raw-reality/id1681027631?i=1000712012717

    Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-IxqZ8eucU&t=40s

    Thank you for listening. Don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.

    Love Tori & Lily x

    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/

    2025 Notion template: https://rawreality.com.au/products/your-year-notion-template

    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/

    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/

    15 min
  • #154 | Why Finding Your Purpose Isn’t the Goal

    We hosted our launch event last week with Muscle Republic celebrating our merch drop - it was absolutely incredible and we are truely blown away by the support. We did a live Q+A and panel chat which we wanted to make a live episode for those who couldn’t come. 

    We’re diving into all things purpose, confidence, and chasing big (sometimes a little delulu) dreams. We chat about why purpose isn’t something you chase, how self-love comes from action, and building confidence in who you are rather than just what you achieve.

    We get real on failure, routines that actually stick, moving your body in ways that feel good, and surrounding yourself with the right people. Plus, we answer some juicy questions you asked us live! We hope you enjoy xx


    Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.


    OUR COLLECTION https://musclerepublic.com/collections/new-arrivals

    ‘RAWREALITY20 to save’


    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/


    2025 Notion template 

    https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR


    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/


    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/


    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/

    52 min
  • How to Actually Grow on Social Media (Without Losing Yourself)

    In this episode, Tori sits down with one of her best friends, Taylor, to unpack what it really takes to grow on social media — and spoiler: it’s not about looking perfect or going viral. They talk about choosing your "why," building a community instead of chasing numbers, and how vulnerability is the key that most people avoid.

    Whether you're just starting or feeling stuck, this episode will reframe your perspective, show you how to lean into your story, and remind you that it's supposed to be hard. That’s what makes it worth it.

    If you're building something online, you need this chat.

    Listen to the full episode here -

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0kzuB4U7caK4gSO5zmxlDW?si=2b50c732502b4804

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/raw-reality/id1681027631?i=1000715980963

    Thank you for listening. Don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.

    Love Tori & Lily x

    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/

    2025 Notion template: https://rawreality.com.au/products/your-year-notion-template

    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/

    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/

    11 min
  • #153 | Behind The Scenes of OUR Merch - MSCR x RR

    GUYS IT’S FINALLY HERE - our collection with Muscle Republic! This episode we are spilling the tea on all the BTS moments on how it came to life - from the very first phone call to the moment we held the finished pieces in our hands. We share why we teamed up with MR instead of going solo, the inspo behind every colour, cut, and quote. 

    We dive into how we designed the merch, navigating imposter syndrome, and the surprising lessons we learned working with a brand that’s always two steps ahead of the trends. Basically the secret is OUT and we want to share everything with you. Thank you so much for supporting us on this wild journey, we couldn’t do it without all your support. 


    COLLECTION DROPS 15/8 - https://musclerepublic.com/


    EVENT IN MELB 14/8 - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/raw-reality-x-mscr-tickets-1545718197739

    DANCE CLASS IN MELB 15/8 - https://rawreality.com.au/products/dance-with-us-melbourne


    Thankyou for listening, don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.


    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/


    2025 Notion template 

    https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR


    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/


    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/


    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/


    43 min
  • Menstrual Cycle 101: How to Work With Your Body

    Your period impacts way more than you think. In this mini episode, we sit down with Lily’s bodybuilding coach, Bec Cameron, to break down everything you need to know about your menstrual cycle — from why fat is essential for hormones, to how your cycle affects training and recovery, plus practical ways to manage PMS without losing your mind.

    We also dive into the truth about birth control and weight loss and how to finally stop fighting against your body and start working with it.

    Whether you’re an athlete, in the gym for general health, or just tired of feeling blindsided by your cycle every month, this is your ultimate guide to syncing your training, nutrition, and mindset with your hormones.

    Listen to the full episode here -

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4DqVbqJH8EY7mjEBwtYDtV?si=8b50a970ec764445

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/raw-reality/id1681027631?i=1000698466503

    Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/l7HKrUrX_Fg?si=H9KE3elKIlmVx5x0

    Thank you for listening. Don't forget to share with your besties & tag us in your stories.

    Love Tori & Lily x


    Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/

    2025 Notion template: https://rawreality.com.au/products/your-year-notion-template

    Find us below:

    @rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw

    @ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/

    @fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/

    Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

    Recording Studio @zonegym_ https://www.instagram.com/zonegym_/

    14 min

About Raw Reality

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Empowering you to do & be better with our big sister chats on all things life, health & business. From our own experiences (the good, the bad, and the ugly) to interviews with inspiring, game-changing guests, we’re here to challenge you to live authentically, embrace vulnerability, and take bold risks.

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