In this episode of Healing With WORTH, Marquelle and Lauren are joined by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services and founder of WORTH, to discuss the subtle and often overlooked red flags that may signal pornography use or other secretive sexual behaviors in a marriage. Using Gottman’s “Four Horsemen,” they explain how these patterns slowly erode safety and connection, how gaslighting and self-blame keep women trapped, and why you don’t need proof of addiction to know something is wrong—mistreatment alone is enough. This conversation offers clarity, validation, and practical guidance for women at any stage of marriage and are ready to trust their instincts and protect their emotional well-being.