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In this episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with Christa Hardin, renowned therapist, author, and founder of Enneagram and Marriage. Christa dives deep into the power of the Enneagram as a tool for couples’ growth—unpacking how knowing your type, and your partner’s, doesn’t just explain your quirks but opens the door to more compassion, stronger communication, and real healing. Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or already a type enthusiast, Christa shares actionable insights, intriguing stories from the therapy room, and relatable examples of how the Enneagram fast-tracks understanding and connection.

Listeners will walk away with a clear overview of all nine Enneagram types, practical first steps to begin their own Enneagram journey, and surprising tips for applying these insights in everyday life and even in the bedroom! Christa’s approach is warm, research-based, and refreshingly down-to-earth, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking fresh hope and new tools for a thriving partnership. If you’re ready for more connection, less conflict, and a better understanding of both yourself and your partner, hit play on this episode—you’ll want to share it with every couple you know!

Enneagram and Marriage

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Tarah and EJ Kerwin take you deep into the transformative power of the “code word” system—a real-world tool that has enhanced their marriage and countless others. Discover how couples can use a simple, playful word to hit the pause button before arguments spiral out of control. The hosts share step-by-step guidance on identifying when you’re outside your window of tolerance, negotiating how long to separate, and what to do during your break so you return to the conversation more grounded and connected. Plus, they address the science behind emotional dysregulation, practical tips for using code words with kids around, and the importance of healthy reconnection after conflict.

Loaded with relatable stories, actionable exercises, and heartfelt encouragement, this episode will motivate you to create new, healthier patterns in your relationship, whether you’re struggling with frequent arguments or just want more emotional safety and intimacy. Ready to learn the code word approach that Tarah and EJ have used for nearly a decade? Tune in and start transforming the way you and your partner handle conflict. You’ll walk away with a concrete, science-backed system for building a stronger, more connected partnership—and maybe even some new ideas for your personalized code word!

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In this honest and insightful episode of the Relationship Renovation podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin dive deep into the complicated world of emotional affairs. Drawing directly from their extensive experience working with couples and real-life questions, they tackle the common dilemma of defining emotional infidelity versus friendship and shed light on the subtle boundaries that can get blurred. The hosts break down key signs of emotional affairs, including secrecy, emotional intensity, and prioritizing another person over your partner. They also discuss why emotional affairs can feel just as damaging—if not more—than physical ones, and why so many people unknowingly slip into these situations.

If you’re seeking practical guidance to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers actionable strategies to address unmet needs, create emotional safety, and establish healthy boundaries. EJ and Tarah share hope-filled insights, including statistics on recovery and tips on building stronger emotional connections with your partner. Whether you’re concerned that an emotional affair may be happening, experiencing it firsthand, or want tools for prevention, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build trust and intimacy in their relationship. Don’t miss out on this essential guide to understanding and healing from emotional affairs—tune in now!

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In this compelling episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin welcome Philip Pape from the acclaimed Wits & Weights podcast for an insightful and motivating conversation. Philip shares his unique, data-driven approach to strength training and nutrition, emphasizing the power of flexibility over rigid, one-size-fits-all rules. Together, they explore how embracing customized wellness strategies can foster lasting confidence, both as individuals and within couples. From overcoming obstacles and judgment to building sustainable habits, the discussion is full of practical tips and real-life stories that will inspire you to rethink your own health journey.

Whether you're tackling fitness alone or trying to get in sync as a couple, this episode is packed with actionable advice you can use right away. Discover how redefining success, encouraging choice, and focusing on daily "micro-wins" can help you and your partner become stronger—physically, mentally, and emotionally. If you're ready for a realistic, empowering perspective on health and relationships, this episode is your perfect starting point! Don’t miss Phillip’s insights and new ways to pursue wellness together.

Philip Pape - Wits & Weights

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Dive deep into the intricacies of intimacy anxiety with EJ and Tarah Kerwin in this enlightening episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast. Discover what intimacy anxiety truly means and how it could be silently influencing your relationship. EJ and Tarah break down the common symptoms and root causes—that range from past traumas to mismatched libidos. Whether it’s a feeling of unease during date night or avoiding your partner’s advances, uncover the subtle signals that indicate intimacy anxiety might be present in your relationship.

As the episode unfolds, EJ and Tarah provide listeners with practical tools to combat intimacy anxiety and foster deeper emotional and physical connections. They emphasize the significance of timing, setting, and mutual understanding when addressing sensitive topics with your partner. Equip yourself with the knowledge to identify and manage intimacy anxiety, and take the first steps towards nurturing a more connected and harmonious relationship. Tune in to unlock the potential of vulnerability and communication as paths to an enriched partnership.

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In this eye-opening episode of Relationship Renovation, Tarah and EJ Kerwin sit down with parenting expert Susie Pettit for an enlightening discussion about simplifying parenting while nurturing healthy relationships. Susie, a certified life, relationship, and parenting coach, demystifies the complexities of raising teens in the digital age by emphasizing the power of boundaries, emotional intelligence, and parental role shifts as children grow. With her unique background as a mother of five and host of the global podcast, the Love Your Life Show, Susie brings a refreshing perspective that's both actionable and reassuring for parents navigating the challenging waters of teenage and young adult years.

Listeners will be inspired by Susie's practical advice on adopting a "popcorn parenting" mindset, encouraging a balance of loving detachment and empathy. Her innovative approach allows parents to see parenting as a rewarding journey rather than an overwhelming task, providing listeners with tools to foster resilience and independence in their children. Tune in to learn how to transform your parenting style and strengthen your relationship with your partner, empowering your family to thrive. Don't miss this opportunity to rethink and renovate how you approach parenting and relationships!

Susie Petitt - Life and Wellness Coach

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What’s holding couples back from starting therapy?

In this eye-opening episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin bust the most common myths about couples counseling—and reveal how these false beliefs may be sabotaging relationships before healing ever begins.

Despite what you may have heard, therapy isn’t just about “talking”—it’s about transformation. With research showing that 75% of couples report relationship improvement and 90% report better emotional health, the data is clear: therapy works. So why do so many couples wait too long to get help?

Tarah and EJ share the truth about what to expect from a typical session using the Relationship Renovation model—a structured, supportive approach that empowers couples to build deeper emotional connection and communication skills that last.

You’ll also learn how couples therapy can lead to profound individual growth, building resilience and clarity in every area of life. Whether you're skeptical or already in therapy, this episode will shift how you see the power of relational work.

🎧 Tune in now and uncover what’s really possible when you let go of the myths and lean into meaningful change.

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In this deeply insightful episode of Relationship Renovation, hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin welcome back mindfulness expert Kelly Smith, founder of Yoga for You  for an enriching conversation. As a podcaster, author, and mindfulness coach, Kelly shares inspiring tools and practices to help listeners reconnect with their true selves. With a particular focus on how mindfulness, like Yoga nidra, can transform your inner world and soften your emotional edges, Kelly reveals the potential for couples to gain deeper connections. Tune in to discover how a regular mindfulness practice not only benefits your personal growth but also strengthens the bonds with your partner, creating a harmonious relationship that thrives even amidst life's pressures.

Join us as we explore practical steps to incorporate mindfulness into your daily routine, and learn why even just a few minutes each day can have profound effects. Find out how these practices can make you more productive, reduce stress, and pave the way for a joyful, authentic life with your partner. Don't miss out on these actionable insights and start your journey towards a happier, more connected life today!

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In this insightful episode of "Relationship Renovation," hosts Tarah and EJ Kerwin delve deep into a topic many couples struggle with – the blame game. Understanding how criticism and defensiveness can erode trust and emotional safety in a relationship is crucial. Tarah and EJ share personal anecdotes, like their recent challenge with their children's cell phone use, to illustrate how easy it is to slip into these patterns and how damaging they can be if left unchecked. They stress the importance of identifying these patterns and offer practical, actionable advice on how to pause, reflect, and transform these negative cycles into opportunities for deeper understanding and connection.

Furthermore, listeners will learn about the Gottman's "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" – criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling – and receive guidance on how to counteract these relationship-killers. Whether you're navigating trust issues rooted in past hurts or simply seeking more empathy from your partner, this episode is packed with strategies to foster mutual respect and resilience. Join Tarah and EJ on this journey to develop healthier communication skills and increase emotional intimacy in your relationship. Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn how to build a relationship where both partners feel heard, valued, and deeply connected.

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In this enlightening episode of the Relationship Renovation Podcast, hosts EJ and Tarah Kerwin engage in a profound discussion with Dr. Warren Farrell, a renowned thought leader in the realm of relationships and men's mental health. Delve into Dr. Farrell's latest book, "Rolemate to Soulmate," which unveils the secrets to sustaining lifelong love by turning criticism into a tool for deeper connection. Through decades of research and personal anecdotes, Dr. Farrell emphasizes the importance of disciplined appreciation and the power of a structured relationship-building approach. Learn why sustaining love requires intentional effort and structured communication.

Listeners will discover practical strategies to support loving and resilient partnerships. Dr. Farrell shares innovative exercises, such as structured appreciation and meditative preparation for receiving criticism, that can transform the way partners communicate. He also introduces the concept of a 'conflict-free zone,' offering couples a fresh perspective on maintaining harmony. Whether you're seeking to navigate recurring conflicts or want to deepen your emotional intimacy, this episode is packed with actionable insights that can lead to a fulfilling and harmonious relationship journey. Don't miss the opportunity to revolutionize your relationship skills with the proven methodologies discussed in this compelling conversation.

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Role Mate to Soul Mate: Seven Secrets to Lifelong Love

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