Hear me out....If I were in charge of giving out superpowers for parents, especially parents of kids with a history of trauma, I'd give you x-ray vision.

Attachment research is clear about the power of x-ray vision (except they call is reflective functioning and mentalizing).  It is a powerful ingredient of secure attachment.

In today's episode we will explore what kinds of things x-ray vision would tell us about our children and their behaviors and why it matters.

It matters.  A lot.  Seeing through behaviors to what's underneath is one of the most important skills you could have as a parent!

Since I'm not in charge of hanging out superpowers (yet) we'll have to settle for continued blogs, podcasts, and courses that help you put on your own x-ray vision goggles to see what's underneath your child's behaviors!

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Would you rather read about X-Ray vision goggles?  Head over to my blog! https://robyngobbel.com/xrayvision/

Wonder what all this talk is about Regulation, Connection, and Felt-Safety?  Watch my free masterclass!  https://robyngobbel.com/masterclass

Understanding the impact of trauma on memory will also help you put on your x-ray vision goggles for some of those most baffling behaviors!  Check our my free video series and ebook: https://robyngobbel.com/videoseries

Ready to dive deeper and practice putting on those x-ray vision goggles while also getting practical tools on how to create behavior change through regulation, connection, and felt-safety?  Parenting after Trauma: Minding the Heart and Brain is a comprehensive online parent course  https://robyngobbel.com/parentcourse

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Check out RobynGobbel.com/Trainings for the professional trainings scheduled around the US in 2026.

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