Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.    

KEY POINT: "Resists the forces to fit in with the group ethos when it contradicts their values"  Number 6 of the 7 part series  Our aim is to resist group think, group feel, the family superself, the workplace superself, and following the herd.  Stating I-positions without reactivity, with calmness, and focusing on Self when dealing with others and the group ethos (values, morals, opinions).  Staying in contact means we do not retreat nor do we attack or become reactive in relationships in which we disagree with others.     Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up".  He explains each one.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and life and relationship coach.  He and his team work with individuals, couples, and families and businesses to become strong self-differentiating people and leaders.  

To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com

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Also all of his videos are on Spotify and Anchor.fm for online and offline listening. You can take them with you in your car or at work.  "Not How but When" by Jerry Wise  https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82