FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal

Rewriting D-Day After Infidelity: Winter Solstice Ritual to Heal Betrayal Trauma & Stop Obsessive Thoughts


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What if you could go back and prepare for D-Day? Not to stop the betrayal from happening, but to soften the blow, steady your nervous system, and walk yourself through the darkest night of your soul with reverence, support, and a plan.

In this deeply soulful Solstice episode, Lora guides you through a powerful re-imagining of D-Day using the energy of the winter solstice — the longest, darkest night of the year. Instead of bracing against the pain of betrayal, you’ll learn how to “pack your bag” for the dark night of the soul: tending your body, nervous system, and subconscious so you can move through the darkness with preparation, not panic.

Drawing on childbirth metaphors, subconscious re-patterning, and the natural arc from winter solstice to summer solstice, Lora walks you step-by-step into the memory of D-Day and back out again — this time as the woman you are now: wiser, more resourced, and no longer alone. You’ll leave with a six-month roadmap for healing, micro-boundaries to support your body and soul, and a new understanding of why you’re not broken… you’re just ready for a different map.

 

Top 3 Takeaways

  1. Why D-Day still hijacks your body (and how to change it)
    • How betrayal trauma locks into the subconscious mind and nervous system, and why you can’t just “decide to stop ruminating” or think your way out of it.
    • The Winter Solstice Betrayal Ritual: Preparing for the Dark Night of the Soul
      • How to “pretend” solstice is your D-Day, pack your metaphoric bag, and consciously walk yourself into the darkness with support, tools, and reverence — so your body learns that you can bear it and you will come out the other side.
      • From Winter Solstice to Summer Solstice: A Six-Month Healing Map
        • How to set micro-boundaries, tiny daily practices, and structures of accountability that quietly rewire your life over six months — so one day you look up and realize, “It’s lighter now. I’m actually okay… and I’m not obsessing anymore.”
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          Favorite Quote

          “The real tragedy of betrayal isn’t the betrayal itself. It’s failing to rise up afterward and reclaim your heart, your soul, your identity.”

           

          About Lora

          Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a former attorney turned betrayal recovery coach, hypnotherapist, and author who helps women rebuild their identity and reclaim their power after infidelity and profound emotional betrayal. Using her signature Life Choreography® approach, she integrates legal insight, nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and deep spiritual support to help clients move from shattered to sovereign.

           

          Resources & Links

          • Download the free Betrayal Recovery Guide: https://betrayalrecoveryguide.com
          • Book your $97 Intro Session: https://introductorysession.com
          • Learn more about Rise & Reign: https://loracheadle.com/rise-and-reign
          • Follow on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook @loracheadle
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