Same Team with The Freemans

How is it that a couple would make it on the UK list of top 10 most empowered couple? In this episode you will find out that is exactly what Johnathan and Dulcie have done, as they brought together their lives and business, to run the thriving Fen Dairy Farm in Bungay, U.K.

All of their business & relationship success, happiness and connection came from combining their individual and unique talents together to serve a bigger purpose. This is the mark of a power couple. Listen in to discover how you can leverage your different skills to work, play and live together effectively and successfully.

Questions asked in this interview

1. How did you combine your goals and decide to work together?
2. Are you able to balance business and romance or do they blend together?
3. How did you two become one of the top 10 Power Couples in the U.K.?
4. How do you keep fun and play alive in your relationship while also building the business?

In this episode you will learn:

1. How to leverage your different skills and talents in work but still work well together
2. How to reconnect to the reason you're together after times of being disconnected
3. Why making family travel time a priority is so important
4. The power of having a vision as a couple, that is separate from your business vision.
5. The importance of having a diverse group of couples friends.
6. The power of emotional awareness and a hug during tough times.
7. How to make your partner a priority and making sure you have their back.

Quotes:

"It's not just about sharing the good times. It's also about sharing the work and having their back."

Bio of guest:

Meet Jonathan & Dulcie Crickmore, living in Bungay, in the U.K. and they work and live on a farm that's been in the family for 80 years. They have been named one of the U.K.'s top 10 empowered couples, and grown the business through leveraging their different skill-sets: Jonathan working more with his hands and with the animals, and Dulie focuses on marketing and branding for the farm. They are parents of two kids and have a passion for travel, and they make sure to travel for weeks out of every year.

Resources:

Guest resources: Connect more with this incredible guest here:http://fenfarmdairy.co.uk/

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

The "American Dream" has always been to live in America as the land of opportunity. It was about the ability to have a family you love, move into a great house, drive a nice car, be friends with you neighbor and raise a family.

Is this still your American Dream or is this an "inherited dream" passed along to you by someone else? In this episode the Freemans explore what it really means to live the American Dream and to create a future for you and your relationship that is created by you and not just given to you.

Questions asked in this interview

1) What is your version of the American Dream?

2) Do you have a vision for your life and your relationship that is much bigger than material possessions and even yourself?

In this episode you will learn:

We are all meant to be creators of our own unique experience of life.

We do not just react to life's circumstances but we use the events in life to create our own vision when we have clarity on our relationship purpose.

Quotes:

"It is not about the creation, but about the creating in life."

Resources:

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

Getting to know one's spiritual beliefs usually happens pretty early on in a relationship. Its one of those foundations of a relationship where most feel their beliefs must match a potential partner.

There are times in established relationships, where an individuals spiritual beliefs change and now may be different from their partners. This can seem difficult to navigate as it seems to people as something that must be "overcome".

In this episode the Freemans dive into how to have a relationship continue and to thrive even when spiritual beliefs may not be the same.

Questions asked in this interview

1) Can you, as a finite human being, truly and fully understand the infinite?

2) Do you fully understand how even a blade of grass works in its entirety? If not is it possible that even your own beliefs of spirituality are not completely understood or necessarily right or wrong?

In this episode you will learn:

None of us completely know or experience God, Source or the infinite, so its not about having to have the same exact view as your partner.

Its more about seeing your spiritual differences as a way to more deeply know each other and have an even more complete experience of spirituality through conversations with your partner.

Quotes:

"Do you fully understand how even a blade of grass works in its entirety?"

Resources:

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

When you first enter into a relationship, isnt one for the first obstacles how to create your combined friends together? Each individual has their friendships coming into a relationship and sometimes deciding how to merge the two, or which ones to spend time with becomes a significant question for the growth of a relationship.

In this episode the Freemans cover the Social aspect of a relationship and how to create a group of friends that support the grow of your relationship vision and have a community that supports both of you!

Questions asked in this interview

1) Do we try and merge our individual groups of friends together into one group?

2) What if I do not like some of the friends my partner has?

In this episode you will learn:

How to create a balanced social life together as you form your relationship.

How to assess and determine the types of friendships that will best support the growth of your relationship and not be a hindrance.

Quotes:

"Your friendships are like your fourth grade teacher. There are times when you have learned what there is to learn, and you graduate to your next teacher."

Resources:

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

Does the honeymoon phase just go away after some period of time? Is that only in the beginning? Is that only in dating? Is that only when you first get married or is there something we can shift? Is it something we can have the experience of, dare I say for our whole relationship?

Together the Freemans dive into the conversation around experiencing the excitement and joy of being in a relationship as the new normal!

Questions asked in this interview

What really is the experience of the "honeymoon phase" in a relationship?

In this episode you will learn:

1) The honeymoon phase is just the level of uncertainty within your relationship. That you can intentionally elevate all throughout your relationship together.

2) The honeymoon phase is not anything that just fades on its own, its when you stop creating and allow your relationship to be a part of your routine.

Quotes:

"As human beings we are program to survive, so being in a relationship for a certain period of time becomes a default part of our life."

Resources:

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

I was taught that I was supposed to save as much as I could and that brought me security. Hence why we talk about what is your meaning of money as a couple, as a couple, but even as an individual inside of your relationship. Is it for security? Is it for status as a for enjoyment or control, and for me, I went to my engineering job, I earned a salary and it was all about stockpiling. It was about making that savings account as big as possible because it brought me a sense of security and can I say that I had a lot of enjoyment around money? No, not really at all. And when I went to purchase by invest into things like clothes or shoes, it was very difficult for me to actually kind of let go actually as I think about this. Contributing and giving to other people was very difficult because now with my mindset stockpiling for security, I always saw items from myself or giving to others as reducing what I had.

Questions asked in this interview

What does money really mean to you?

Are you thinking too short term about money and what you want to experience?

In this episode you will learn:

Setting up money buckets

How to shift your mindset around money to attract more.

Quotes:

"Saving and enjoying money happen at the same time!"

Resources:

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

What an honor it is to connect with Sandy and Lon in this episode, as not only have they committed themselves to a 54 year marriage, but they have given their past 15 years to helping couples design their own relationship.

Relationships are all about growth as individuals and as a couple, so join us as Sandy and Lon share about how to "challenge" your partner to grow outside their comfort zone.

Questions asked in this interview

1. What would you say is the purpose of a romantic relationship?
2. What do you see is one of the biggest challenges in the current idea of relationships?
3. If a couple feels their life is far off from their ideal design, where can they begin?
4. How can you challenge your partner to grow, when uncomfortable or reach any limitation?
5. How do you handle tense conversations or disagreements? Does it get easier over time?
6. Is there anything you wish you could go back and tell yourselves 20 years ago?

In this episode you will learn:

• What the highest level intention is for your relationship.
• How to "challenge" your partner to grow beyond their comfort zone to strengthen your relationship.

Quotes:

"Previously, relationships were seen as a way to get something, that otherwise you wouldn't obtain"

Bio of guest:

Joining us today is Lon and Sandy Golnick, co-founders of Relationship By Design, together they have been leading workshops, seminars and trainings in the fields of relationships, families and business relations for over 40 years. They bring 53 years of marriage, plus their experience as parents of two daughters and six grandchildren.

Lon and Sandy have the unique skill to listen intently and compassionately to engage people in being full partners to generate new opportunities in their relationships. They are dedicated to you experiencing being intimately related, appreciated and fulfilled. Lets jump right in to hearing from them how to Challenge Your Partner To Grow Outside Their Comfort Zone!

Resources:

Connect more with this incredible guest here: http://relationshipbydesign.com

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

This interview is one-of-a-kind with an incredible couple who shares about creating a "New Paradigm" partnership in practical ways.

Meet an incredible couple, Anaiya & Pete, living primarily in the South of France.

They share about pure miracles in their partnership, including how Pete LITERALLY showed up at Anaiya's doorstep when she was convinced she would be single.

Questions asked in this interview:

1. How did you two meet?
2. Why do you believe people pursue relationship? Why do they want them?
3. Share a little more about what a "new paradigm" partnership is vs an "old paradigm partnership."
4. How do you know when to just laugh something off or "keep it light" vs when do dive deep into a conversation together?
5. Is there a way you ask each other when you have permission to go deeper into a trigger point or "wound"?
6. What are some ways you keep it fun and light when it could have instead turned into a serious moment?
7. Pete, you said your favorite thing about partnership is "presence," what does presence look like to you within a sacred union?
8. Pete, would you share with the group about what guided you to feel your previous divorce "completion" was in alignment?
9. Anaiya, did you write your book "Sacred Relationships" while you were with Pete?
10. How do you two play together?

In this episode you will learn:

1. How Anaiya met Pete literally at her doorstep when she lived in the middle of nowhere (miracles are real).
2. What is a "Sacred Relationship."
3. How to balance fun/play and deep transformation work together as a couple.
4. Some practical masculine and feminine differences.
5. Exercises you can implement in the moment of "tension" to bring light energy to the situation.
6. Why it's important to have an "inner marriage" within yourself as well as the "outer marriage" with your partner.
7. How to have compassion for your past partners (even past marriages) supports your current partnership
8. And so much more about the "new paradigm" of relationships

Bio of guest:

Anaiya Sophia is an independent mystic of an almost forgotten faith and a teacher of Kundalini Yoga. She carries an Oral Transmission from the Sacred Feminine Mysteries which she weaves into all her gatherings. She co-authored several incredible books, including our personal favorite: Sacred Relationships (a must read).

Pete is nobody's fool first-three-Chakras-up man from a man's background as a soldier, a climber, a divorcee but believer in the truth of loving Sacred Union, which as he sees it is The Work of Love. He brings to relating the ever-deepening quest for personal truth, integrity with courage and the determination it takes to face his own Shadows as the only true route through which he and we can open to the Light and Mystery of Love.

Together they run a beautiful and sacred bed & breakfast in the South of France.

Their favorite thing about partnership:

Anaiya- Impeccability

Pete- Presence

Resources:

Guest resources: Connect more with this incredible guest here: https://anaiyasophia.com

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

It is on our hearts to speak on this topic about "What if my partner and I want different things?" as we have heard this from a number of the couples that we have mentored in the last few months.

This may seem like a depressing question to have come up, as it gives the feeling of "SHOOT" are we not on the same page? This can even lead to the thought of: "is this not the right relationship for me?"

Have no fear or dismay, at some point we think most couples will ask this question, as its just a natural function of life... expansion and growth. We are not the same people form year to year so why would your relationship stay the same? This question just points to that its time to revisit and clarify what you both desire and how that fits into your vision together.

Questions asked in this interview:

1) What is your Partnership Vision Statement?

2) What would you like more of in your relationship?

In this episode you will learn:

1) Its about asking better questions

2) The importance of clarity around your vision together

3) If something doesn't seem to be working, go more general

4) Its all about growth, so find out what area in life your partner is interested in growing themselves. This can be anything!

Quotes:

"Trade expectation for appreciation."

Resources:

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans

I felt guided to talk today about a question I've received from several women this week (funny enough how it's shown up so much recently) from both single women AND women in relationships: "Am I expecting too much from him?"

I love this question because I have had it come up many times. In my marriage sometimes I catch myself asking if I have unrealistic expectations. In this episode I offer you two different questions to ask yourself to find out if you are expecting too much from him AND what you can do about it. Enjoy!

Questions asked in this interview:

How do I know if I am expecting too much from him?

Are my expectations really just requests I haven't vocalized yet?

In this episode you will learn:

1. How to fulfill your needs so you are 100% fulfilled and everything he offers is a BONUS.
2. How to communicate your requests to him

Quotes:

"When I fill my cup completely and love myself, everything he offers is a bonus on top of it."

Resources:

Connect more with The Freemans at www.MeetTheFreemans.com and follow them on instagram: @meet_thefreemans