What happens when a school-issued Chromebook starts talking to your child—without permission?

In this episode of Scrolling 2 Death, Nicki is joined by Julie Frumin, a mental health professional, mom, and education safety advocate in Southern California, who shares her shocking experience navigating school-issued devices, hidden AI chatbots, and a system that told her she had only two choices: accept AI on her children’s devices—or turn them in entirely.

Julie walks us through:

• How her elementary-aged daughter was exposed to inappropriate content during school recess
• How an AI chatbot appeared unprompted on her middle schooler’s Chromebook, offering to do his homework
• Why schools claim parents cannot legally opt out of devices in California
• The hidden data collection, surveillance, and lack of transparency inside EdTech platforms
• The intimidation parents face when raising concerns with districts and school boards
• Why “teaching kids to use tech responsibly” ignores brain development and addiction science

We also dig into the bigger picture: Why EdTech is replacing teachers, how school budgets are being diverted to software contracts, and why parents deserve transparency, consent, and the right to refuse technology that doesn’t serve their children.

Julie shares practical advice for parents who want to push back—starting with teachers, navigating principals and school boards, and getting involved in statewide policy efforts, including proposals to:

• Require full transparency and parental consent for EdTech
• Pause AI use in K–8 classrooms
• Restore paper-and-pencil learning and assessments
• Move toward distraction-free, developmentally appropriate schools

This is an essential conversation for any parent who’s been told, “This is just how school works now.”

Because it doesn’t have to be.

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Resources, research, and advocacy links mentioned in this episode are available here:

• Parent Templates to start conversations with your school, organized by Tech-Safe Learning
• Fit for Purpose by Faith Bonninger
• Distraction Free Schools California
• Distraction Free Schools (US)
• Interviews with neuroscientist Jared Cooney-Horvath here and here
• Schools Beyond Screens (LAUSD Coalition)
• Book Reco: Screen Damage
• Book Reco: Digital Delusion by Jared Cooney-Horvath
• Join The Heat is On parent group to take action

Today on Scrolling 2 Death, Nicki sits down with Congressman Chris Deluzio—a dad of four and a fierce advocate for safer, healthier schools—to unpack one of the most urgent issues facing American families: screens in the classroom.

Rep. Deluzio recently released a major report on smartphone use in schools after months of research and conversations with teachers, administrators, and parents across Western Pennsylvania. He breaks down what he found, why phone-free schools are gaining bipartisan momentum nationwide, and why Pennsylvania has struggled to pass similar legislation.

Nicki and the Congressman go deeper, expanding the conversation beyond smartphones to the overlooked risks of school-issued devices, lack of oversight, and the growing push to introduce AI chatbots into middle-school classrooms. From data privacy to compulsive design to tech companies lobbying to stop states from regulating AI, this episode exposes the full ecosystem of digital harm entering our children’s schools—often without parents’ knowledge.

The conversation ends with a call for bipartisan cooperation and real accountability: parents, educators, and lawmakers working together to ensure that technology in schools actually supports learning instead of undermining it.

If you care about what your kids are exposed to at school, this is an episode you can’t miss.

Elected in 2022 and re-elected in 2024, Congressman Chris Deluzio is serving his second term in Congress representing the people of Pennsylvania’s 17th Congressional District—where he serves on the House Armed Services Committee and the House Transportation and Infrastructure Committee. Pennsylvania’s 17th district includes all of Beaver County and parts of Allegheny County. Congressman Deluzio is a native of Thornburg and lives with his family in Allegheny County.

Congressman Deluzio is an Iraq War veteran, voting rights attorney, and union organizer. He graduated from Bishop Canevin High School and received a Bachelor of Science degree with merit from the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis.

In Part 1, we revealed how Meta’s products are harming kids — not by accident, but by design.

In Part 2, we uncover how Meta responds when confronted with these dangers. Spoiler: it’s manipulation, PR spin, and “safety features” that don’t actually keep kids safe.

We break down Meta’s Teen Accounts rollout, the massive marketing campaign behind it, and the independent tests and new research showing that teens are still being pushed sexual content, violence, self-harm, predators, and more. We examine why experts say Meta’s fixes are performative — and why real change will only come from lawsuits, legislation, and collective public pressure.

We also look at the major court cases underway, the growing protests, and what parents can do right now to demand real protections for kids.

This episode isn’t just about what Meta has done — it’s about what they refuse to do, and how we force the change our kids deserve.

The heat is on.

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Here's how you can take action today: 

• Sign up for our email list at https://www.scrolling2death.com/heat
• Sign the Petition asking Meta to make Instagram safer. Here's the Petition link.

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‍Hosts: ‍

Nicki Petrossi – Host of Scrolling 2 Death 

Sarah Gardner – Founder & CEO of Heat Initiative

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Expert Guests: 

Kelly Stonelake - Former Meta executive and whistleblower

Arturo Bejar - Former Meta executive and whistleblower

Paul Raffile - Cyber analyst and sextortion expert

Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation

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Expert editing provided by Jacob Meade.

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Other Resources mentioned in the episode: 

• Design it for Us Report: Teen Accounts Fail to Deliver Promised Safety Features
• Teen Survey by Heat Initiative: Instagram Teen Accounts are Missing the Mark
• Research led by Arturo Bejar: Instagram Still Poses Risk to Children, Despite New Safety Tools
• Parents Together Action Report: Teen Accounts Sextortion Report

Neuroscientist and author Jared Cooney Horvath is back (check our first conversation here)—this time to tackle yourmost-asked questions about kids, learning, and technology. After a decade of research into tech-based education, his conclusion is stark and unapologetic: technology isn’t helping kids learn… it’s making them dumber.

The pushback he hears most?
“But won’t my child fall behind without tech?”
According to the data: No.

Drawing on ICMS measures of digital literacy across generations, Jared reveals a surprising pattern:‍

• Millennials outperform Gen Z,
• Gen Z outperforms Gen Alpha—despite Alpha growing up with devices (in their cribs), and
• Gen X—our parents—perform just as well as Gen Z, even though many didn’t touch modern tech until their 30s or 40s.

Jared also dives into the questions parents are asking right now:

• Should AI have a place in the classroom?
• Are short-form videos killing learning?
• Is there any truly educational content for toddlers?

…and much more.

Tune in as Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death and Jared share clear answers, data-backed insights, and a shocking look at what’s really happening to our kids’ brains. If you care about learning, focus, or your child’s future, this is an episode you cannot afford to skip.  And don’t forget to grab Jared’s new book, share this episode with your school and parent community, and join the movement to reclaim real learning.

Get Jared's book here: The Digital Delusion: How Classroom Technology Harms Our Kids’ Learning -- And How To Help Them Thrive

The Heat is On is an investigative series by Scrolling 2 Death, in partnership with Heat Initiative. Sarah Gardner, Founder and CEO of Heat Initiative, joins Nicki (S2D) to expose the truth Big Tech doesn’t want you to hear – and this episode is about Meta.

Meta’s roots reveal a troubling origin story—from Facemash, where students were rated based on their appearance, to becoming one of the most powerful (and dangerous) tech companies in the world, with over 3.3 billion daily users. Behind the sleek apps and promise for connection lies a history of harmful design choices that target young users—fueling anxiety, depression, eating disorders, self-harm, and even suicide.

In this episode, you’ll hear from former Meta executives and whistleblowers, cybercrime experts, and child-safety researchers who prove that the company knew how harmful its platforms were to kids—and did almost nothing to stop it.

Today, over 40 U.S. states, thousands of school districts, and countless families have taken legal action. And yet, Meta continues to push untested, potentially dangerous features—like their new AI chatbot—on teens without parental consent. Jonathan Haidt, author of The Anxious Generation, weighs in to warn how these harms are reaching an industrial scale and legal action alone is not enough. We all need to work together to hold Big Tech accountable. 

It’s time to turn up the heat: Join our email list. Share this episode. Keep your kids off Meta platforms.

Whether you're a parent, caregiver, educator, or simply someone who cares about the well-being of kids, this episode will give you the facts, the tools, and the fire to demand change.

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Hosts: 

Nicki Petrossi – Host of Scrolling 2 Death 

Sarah Gardner – Founder & CEO of Heat Initiative

Expert Guests: 

Kelly Stonelake - Former Meta executive and whistleblower

Arturo Bejar - Former Meta executive and whistleblower

Paul Raffile - Cyber analyst and sextortion expert

Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation

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Resources mentioned in the episode:

• Instagram Teens research by Parents Together
• NY Times: The Men Who Use Instagram to Groom Child Influencers by Michael Keller

Expert editing provided by Jacob Meade.

Parents everywhere are wrestling with the same impossible question: How do you protect your kids from online harm without raising them in a bubble?

In this episode, Nicki is joined by Titania Jordan, CMO of Bark Technologies, to take on one of the most common—and most misunderstood—parenting mindsets: “We supervise. We talk about safety. We don’t want our kids to be naïve… so we let them use these platforms.”

We read real parent comments about giving kids access to Roblox, YouTube, phones, and social media despite knowing the risks. Together, we break down what this approach gets right—and where it unintentionally opens the door to serious online dangers.

This episode is for every parent trying to thread the needle between keeping kids safe and letting them live in the world.You are not powerless. You don’t have to choose between protection and exposure—you can do both, intentionally.

The goal isn’t perfection.
The goal is raising kids who can navigate the digital world—
not be consumed by it.

Mentioned in the Episode: 

• Bark's Connected Communities Program
• Bark Drive-A-Logue Cards
• Join parents taking action at https://www.scrolling2death.com/heat

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This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies:

• ‍Learn about the Bark Phone.‍
• Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids.  *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF‍
• Learn about the Bark Watch.

On this episode of Scrolling 2 Death, host Nicki Petrossi is joined by Clare Morell, author of The Tech Exit and fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center.  Together, they tackle one of the biggest questions parents face today: Do kids really need smartphones and social media to thrive?

Clare reveals why the conventional wisdom—just add parental controls or screen-time limits—is a lie parents have been sold. She introduces The Tech Exit, a bold but practical roadmap for families who want freedom from addictive digital technology. Drawing from expert research, stories of families who’ve gone tech-free, and her own policy work, Clare paints a hopeful picture: children can grow up happier, healthier, and more connected without smartphones in their pockets.

This is a must-listen for any parent searching for a way out of the digital trap.

Get your copy of The Tech Exit.

The Heat is On is a new investigative series by Scrolling 2 Death, in partnership with The Heat Initiative. Sarah Gardner, Founder and CEO of The Heat Initiative, joins Nicki (S2D) to expose the truth Big Tech doesn’t want you to hear – and our next episode is all about Snapchat.

In Part 1, we revealed how Snapchat built its empire by marketing a sexting app to kids, fueling addiction, exploitation, and harm.

Today, in Part 2, we uncover what happens inside Snapchat when employees raise the alarm. The truth: executives routinely dismiss internal warnings and ignore grieving parents. The company hides behind ineffective parental controls that almost no one uses: fewer than 1% of parents activate them. And it’s not because employees didn’t try. Internal emails show trust and safety staff had “little contact with upper management” and faced pushback whenever they proposed in-app safety features because CEO Evan Spiegel “prioritized design.

According to Snap’s own internal documents, proactively identifying and protecting minors from sexual content or predators would “overburden moderators,” “create disproportionate admin costs,” and should not be Snap’s responsibility.

Snapchat isn’t just failing to prevent harm; it resists cooperation even after tragedies occur. In this episode, you’ll hear how the company obstructs law enforcement and leaves devastated families without support.

This episode isn’t just about what Snapchat has done—it's about what they refuse to do, and what it will take to force change. Lawsuits and legislation matter, but real progress requires collective action and public pressure.

Here are three simple steps parents can take to demand child protections from Snapchat:

1.     Join our email list for real-time actions you can take.

2.     Set a family rule: no Snapchat for minors—and don’t use it yourself. So basically, no Snapchat ever.

3.     Share what you learned with one friend or family member.

This episode was expertly edited by Jacob Meade.

Thank you to our incredible guests:

• Laura Marquez-Garrett - Attorney, Social Media Victims Law Center 
• Amy Neville - Parent survivor, founder of Alexander Neville Foundaton
• Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation 
• Paul Raffile - Sextortion expert (featured in Part 1)
• Aaron Ping - Survivor parent and host of the Superhuman podcast
• Jim & Kate Sullivan - Survivor parent 
• Anna McAdams - Affected parent
• Paul Solotaroff of Rolling Stone 
• Sarah Gallagher Trombley, ex-Snapchat executive and founder of Digital Mom Media

Ava Smithing, Advocacy Director at the Young People’s Alliance, returns to Scrolling 2 Death to share an exciting new project. If you missed her previous episodes, Ava is a leading youth voice for nonpartisan policy solutions for safer technology development. Growing up in the early days of social media, she experienced firsthand how harmful algorithms can shape young users’ lives - even contributing to her own struggle with an eating disorder. Now, she’s turned that experience into a mission to raise awareness and drive change.

In this episode, Ava dives into two key concerns:

• The dangers of engagement algorithms and the harmful content they amplify.
• The erosion of privacy, as tech companies quietly collect and share user data across apps and sites to influence what we see and buy online.

To elevate youth perspectives, Ava has launched a new podcast, Left to Their Own Devices, which explores the real stories of young people navigating life online. But the show doesn’t just highlight the harms; it imagines what a healthier, more ethical digital world could look like.

Tune in as Nicki from Scrolling 2 Death and Ava discuss why young people shouldn’t just be consulted about technology’s future -  they should be guiding us all

The Heat is On is an investigative series by Scrolling 2 Death, in partnership with Heat Initiative. Sarah Gardner, Founder and CEO of Heat Initiative, joins Nicki (S2D) to expose the truth Big Tech doesn’t want you to hear – and this episode is all about Snapchat.

From a disappearing-nude app in 2011 to a social media giant in 2025, Snapchat’s story is one of innovation, imitation, and controversy. When it comes to digital harms and kids, Snapchat ranks among the worst—which is why this story expands two parts. In Part 1, we’re exposing how Snapchat’s “innovations” have put profits ahead of our children’s safety. 

Snapchat’s culture was flawed from the start. The FTC sanctioned the company early on for misleading users about how ‘private’ disappearing snaps really were. Since then, features like Discover and AR filters have been designed to keep kids endlessly engaged, regardless of the consequences.

Today, nearly half of all U.S. teens use Snapchat. Yet the platform continues to enable drug poisonings, connect minors with predators, and drive addictive use. As psychologist Jonathan Haidt warns, Snapchat is harming children on an industrial scale - and insiders admit the company knows but fails to act.

Online drug dealing, especially fentanyl-laced pills, has fueled a 350% rise in teen deaths over the past three years. Snapchat’s Quick Add feature helps dealers find young users, exposing an estimated 700,000 people to drug content daily. Even when dealers are reported, only one in four accounts is removed.

Sextortion is another growing crisis. Snapchat receives about 10,000 reports each month— numbers employees say barely scratch the surface. Predators exploit the app’s disappearing messages, and with Snap Map, digital threats increasingly turn into real-world harm.

Rather than designing for safety, Snapchat keeps doubling down on engagement. Features like Snapstreaks drive compulsive use; 45% of teens now use the app “almost constantly.” Your child’s attention keeps them profitable.

In this episode, Sarah and Nicki hear from parents and experts who’ve seen the damage firsthand. Their message is clear: these aren’t accidents - they’re design choices. The question is...can Snapchat fix this? Or is Snap a lost cause?

Video Editing expertly provided by Jacob Meade.

Thank you to our featured guests:

• Laura Marquez-Garrett - Attorney, Social Media Victims Law Center
• Amy Neville - Parent survivor, founder of Alexander Neville Foundation
• ‍Jonathan Haidt - Author of The Anxious Generation
• Paul Raffile - Cyber-analyst and worldwide sextortion expert
• Aaron Ping - Survivor parent of Avery Ping and host of the Superhuman podcast
• Jim & Kate Sullivan - Survivor parent of Jack Sullivan
• Anna McAdams - Online safety advocate and mom of Elliston
• Paul Solotaroff - Senior Writer at Rolling Stone
• Mike Neff - Attorney, Neff Injury Law
• Sarah Gallagher Trombley - former Snapchat Exec and Founder of Digital Mom Media