Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

Sex, Energy, and the Science of Staying in Love


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When was the last time you felt completely alive with your partner, not because of what you did, but because of how connected you felt? No new toys, no faraway trips, no clever tricks. Just presence. Just energy. Just the spark that comes from truly seeing and being seen.


In this Language of Love Session, I sit down with Rachel, a listener and student of Sex Magic, who joined one of my live events in New Jersey and left with a notebook full of questions and a heart full of curiosity. Together, we explore what really fuels passion after the honeymoon fades. It’s not dopamine or novelty, but the deeper vibrational energy that connects two people soul to soul.


We explore: 

  • Why true intimacy starts with awareness, not more techniques
  • How to tell the difference between dopamine-fueled excitement and deep energetic connection
  • How curiosity can dissolve judgment and open your heart wider
  • What to do when one partner feels the energy instantly and the other doesn’t (yet)
  • How to hold your vibration without taking on someone else’s emotions
  • The concept of the Quantum Love Map and its relevance to vibrational matching
  • Why we attract emotionally heavy people and how to stop being their anchor
  • How raising your frequency naturally transforms your relationships
  • Simple Sex Magic practices to clarify desire and realign with what you truly want
  • The importance of being in a high energetic state during sex to enhance the manifestation process.

  • This conversation is for anyone who’s ever looked at their partner and wondered, Can we ever feel that spark again? The answer is yes, but it doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from being more: more present, more attuned, more alive. Passion never really dies; it just waits for you to come back home to your body, your energy, and your heart.

    And if this episode lit something up in you, keep the flame going. Grab your copy of Sex Magic and explore the free meditations and tools at healwithlaura.com. I’d love to hear your story or your question for our next book club, just send me an email at [email protected]

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