Want to know the two saddest words in the English language? “Too late.”  We’ve all experienced it—realizing something too late to repair a relationship. Wishing we hadn’t made that decision that was against our inner ethical compass or there was a sense of misalignment, but now it's too late.

In today’s episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I’m talking all about forgiveness and making amends. 

Tune in and learn that we all screw up, but it’s our responsibility to make it right. I also tell the story of a beautiful couple with an incredible marriage that came to a tragic end—and the wife was left knowing what it is to be too late. 

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

If you are interested in the 2023 session of my 12-week online immersion program for couples Become Passion learn more and get on the waitlist to be notified HERE! 

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

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A rift in a previously trusting, loving, open hearted relationship is one of the most difficult things a person can go through. Whether it’s between family members, friends, or lovers, the sense of loss and grief can be absolutely profound—but there is a possibility for redemption, for healing, and for change. 

In today’s episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I’m telling you about what happens when we make up stories and how a misunderstanding can completely ruin a relationship.

Tune in and learn about how we all have our own unconscious blocks, projections, and hangups and why you should never say goodbye without understanding WHY.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

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What do we do when the tough stuff happens? How do we draw on our inner elephant courage and wisdom to help us get through the biggest losses in our life?

In today’s episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, you’ll have a front row seat to one of my dharma talks. I’m talking about what we can do during our toughest times, where we can find strength, and the Four Noble Truths. 

Tune in and learn that no matter what the winds blow into our life, we don't get to be the weather person. We don't get to choose a fair and sunny day every single day, but we can choose to appreciate those days.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

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Wouldn't you like to be happier? Wouldn't you like to have more ease in your home? More playfulness with your sweetheart? Wouldn't you like to take it to the next step?  Be one of the few select couples who join me inside the Become Passion – Create Love That Lasts a Lifetime 12-week online immersion program for couples. To learn more and to join, click here! We begin THIS Friday, November 4, 2022 and go until January 15, 2023

Today, I’m telling you the real stories of actual couples who have attended my Become Passion program and completely turned their relationships around. You’ll hear about Ed and Jeanine and Jay and Cindy and how they were able to revamp their entire marriages, rediscover their love for one another, and bring back the passion and romance that had been missing for so long. 

Want to know more? Check out the Become Passion testimonials for reviews from actual couples that I’ve helped through this profound program.

Q&A:

My sex life with my sweetheart hasn’t been the same since we’ve had kids—what can we do to spice things up? Making each other priority number one is the best thing you can do to reignite the spark you once had. Make time for love AND lovemaking. Don’t be afraid to schedule dates. Want to learn more? Join my once yearly course, Become Passion — Create Love That Lasts a Lifetime!

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

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In today’s episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I’m going to give you a look inside my Passion Masterclass - a FREE couples workshop I do ONCE  a year. It’s packed with information about the 3 Keys to Passion and much more. I also give you the opportunity to take the next steps in your relationship journey with me as your guide and romance cheerleader! (Yes, you can be both a hopeless romantic and a scientist—fun combination.)

Here’s the good news: You are NOT alone and it's NOT too late… even if it feels like it! In fact, on average, over 30% of the long-term couples I see in my practice aren’t having any sex whatsoever.

In this exclusive Passion Masterclass, you’ll learn about Passion and how you can shift your relationship from where it is to where you want it to be. You’ll learn that extraordinary Lifelong Passion is 100% Possible, but you must beware of Marriage Inc. (AKA running your relationship like a business). You’ll also learn how to create much more intimacy, thrill, and sensuality—no matter where your relationship is currently. 

Intrigued? Be one of the few select couples who join me inside the Become Passion – Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime 12-week online immersion program for couples. To learn more and to join, click here! We begin November 4th 2022 and go until January 15th 2023

Want to watch the actual masterclass with video? Click here!

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

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Interested in joining the Become Passion Program? Doors close in a few days! The program with Dr. Cheryl starts November 4th. Click here to learn more and to register. This is the only time this year Cheryl is teaching Become Passion!

It’s a very special week here at Sex, Love, and Elephants because it marks the launch of my 12 week Become Passion couples immersion program. Today, I’m telling you what I know to be true about sex, love, and relationships. Relationships don’t just take care of themselves—they need an investment of time, energy, perseverance, and LOVE.  

Want to know more? Check out the Become Passion testimonials for reviews from actual couples that I’ve helped through this profound program.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

Q&A:

How can I liven up my relationship? My honey and I are so boring—help! Relationships take hard work! Think of your relationship like a hobby and put the effort in that you both deserve. Want more? Check out my Become Passion- Create Love That Lasts a Lifetime course starting November 4 and learn how to bring the spark back to your love life. 

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

Got a question or topic you’d like me to cover in an upcoming episode? Email me at [email protected]

Let’s Connect!

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On today’s minisode, I’m extending you a very special invitation to join me for my FREE Passion Masterclass. Dates start October 25th! Choose the date and time that works best for you. I’m teaching the Three Keys to Great Relationships—and stay for an extensive Q&A! NOW is the only time in 2022 I’m holding this course!

Wouldn't you like to be happier? Wouldn't you like to have more ease in your home? More playfulness with your sweetheart? Wouldn't you like to take it to the next step? Then join me for the Become Passion program. This twelve-week immersion couples program with me, Dr. Cheryl, starts November 4.

Want to know more? Check out the Become Passion testimonials for reviews from actual couples that I’ve helped through this profound program.

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

Got a question or topic you’d like me to cover in an upcoming episode? Email me at [email protected]

Let’s Connect!

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JOIN Dr. Cheryl’s FREE Passion Masterclass - beginning October 25th! Choose the date and time that works best for you. She’s teaching the Three Keys to Great Relationships—and stay for an extensive Q&A! NOW is the only time in 2022 Dr. Cheryl is holding this course!

Today, I’m sharing an excerpt from last week’s live Q&A class. You’ll hear answers to real questions from listeners just like you, like: What should you do when your partner doesn't want to make love? How do you win back your wife's affection when she's three quarters of the way out the door? How much fighting is too much fighting? Listen in on this rare opportunity—you’ll find out all these answers and much, much more.

Are you ready to reconnect with your honey? To create love and passion that last a lifetime? Join the Become Passion waitlist and hear more about the program! This twelve-week immersion couples program with me, Dr. Cheryl, starts November 4.

Want to know more? Check out the Become Passion testimonials for reviews from actual couples that I’ve helped through this profound program.

Some Questions You’ll Hear Answered Today:

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

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JOIN the free Passion masterclass - choose the date and time that work best for you. This is the only time this year Dr.C Cheryl is teaching it.

Today, I’m talking about Relationship Incorporated and exactly WHY you and your sweetheart don’t need to settle for it. I’m here to tell you that the thrill can last forever— you just have to be equipped with the right tools. It’s time to treat your love life like a hobby, weather your romantic storms, and get back to the thrill and passion you’ve been missing.

Register here for Dr. Cheryl’s FREE Passion Masterclass - beginning October 25th! Pick the time that works for you. Cheryl will teach the Three Keys to Great Relationship and stay for an extensive Q&A. Choose your time NOW!

Are you ready to reconnect with your honey? To create love and passion that last a lifetime? Join the Become Passion waitlist and hear more about the program! This twelve-week immersion couples program with me, Dr. Cheryl, starts November 4.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

Our culture gives us no real skills to be in a romantic relationship (06:29) 

If you've chosen a person and they've chosen you, don’t settle for relationship incorporated (12:23)

The spontaneous lust of early attraction will fade, but thrill can be recreated (13:41) 

Our romantic sexual relationship is one of the biggest predictors of our well being, happiness, and even longevity (17:19)

When the sun shine unexpectedly turns to rain, it’s all in what you make of it (21:36)

No matter what life dishes up, it’s up to each of us to choose who we're going to be as a partner (26:56)

This week’s LoveByte (27:37)

Q&A:

How can I keep the thrill alive with my honey? We used to have so much passion but lately the spark is missing. You have to be willing to make your love life your hobby. Focus on building your passion and revel in the romance. To learn more about the keys to passion and my Passion Triangle, check out my Become Passion- Create Love That Lasts a Lifetime course and learn how couples just like you have learned to create and maintain relationships that stand the test of time.

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

Got a question or topic you’d like me to cover in an upcoming episode? Email me at [email protected]

Let’s Connect!

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JOIN the free Passion masterclass - choose the date and time that work best for you. This is the only time this year Dr.C Cheryl is teaching it.

Today, I’m telling you all about my ill-fated first marriage in my 20’s. I’m talking all about how I fell for my ex, the story behind our incredibly beautiful, big, fat Greek elopement, AND all the reasons our marriage didn’t work out! 

Join me on the couch! For the first time ever, I’m offering exclusive office hours. Jump on and ask me YOUR love & sex questions, LIVE. 

Tune in every Monday in October and listen to the Fall Into Love, Fall Into Like series. And don’t forget to mark your calendar for October 25! That’s when the first free LIVE online couples workshop begins. Registration coming soon!

Are you ready to reconnect with your honey? To create love and passion that last a lifetime? Join the Become Passion waitlist and hear more about the program! This twelve-week immersion couples program with me, Dr. Cheryl, starts November 4.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

How my first husband and I met and got together (02:19) 

My ex gave me an incredibly romantic spiel that brought my guard down (07:23)

Our little elopement turned into an actual BBC production (10:41)

We had a full-on Mamma Mia!-style wedding—complete with a flutist and stage design from the West End (12:00)

We battled and argued for a year and a half of marriage because we did not have the tools to grow together (14:51)

The incredibly powerful divorce ritual that my ex and I created together (17:29)

Love isn't enough. It’s a learned skill (22:09)

This week’s LoveByte (25:44)

Q&A:

How can my partner and I stop fighting constantly—over big things and little things? It can be difficult to grow together as a couple without the correct tools. To learn more about the keys to passion and my Passion Triangle, check out my Become Passion- Create Love That Lasts a Lifetime course and learn how couples just like you have learned to create and maintain relationships that stand the test of time.

Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha’s Bedroom 

Got a question or topic you’d like me to cover in an upcoming episode? Email me at [email protected]

Let’s Connect!

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