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She Couldn’t Feel Love Unless She Was Performing | Adam Lane Smith
What happens when attachment makes love something you have to earn? Adam and Annie uncover how childhood trauma and disorganized attachment make people perform for love instead of feeling safe being real.
TOPICS COVERED:
👉 The hidden pain of growing up unseen and emotionally neglected
👉 How childhood trauma leads to disorganized attachment
👉 The difference between loud and quiet disorganized attachment
👉 Why many people equate love with performance and compliance
👉 The psychological cost of people-pleasing and self-abandonment
👉 Why traditional therapy sometimes misses attachment wounds
👉 How coaching and brain rewiring can help restore authentic love
If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'Dr. Orion Taraban: Why Modern Men Are Failing at Intimacy'. Watch here: https://youtu.be/rYdzdGReDqg
Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam
Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist:
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2- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
3- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/the-attachment-bootcamp/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
4- https://adamlanesmith.com/work-with-me/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
5- https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-repair/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
Want to learn your attachment style, and sign up for Adam's weekly newsletter? Click the link below to receive your copy and sign up now.
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If you want to know your attachment style , take our free attachment quiz: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
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By Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov
4.7
4646 ratings
What happens when attachment makes love something you have to earn? Adam and Annie uncover how childhood trauma and disorganized attachment make people perform for love instead of feeling safe being real.
TOPICS COVERED:
👉 The hidden pain of growing up unseen and emotionally neglected
👉 How childhood trauma leads to disorganized attachment
👉 The difference between loud and quiet disorganized attachment
👉 Why many people equate love with performance and compliance
👉 The psychological cost of people-pleasing and self-abandonment
👉 Why traditional therapy sometimes misses attachment wounds
👉 How coaching and brain rewiring can help restore authentic love
If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'Dr. Orion Taraban: Why Modern Men Are Failing at Intimacy'. Watch here: https://youtu.be/rYdzdGReDqg
Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/@AttachmentAdam
Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist:
1- https://adamlanesmith.com/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
2- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/how-to-love-an-avoidant-man/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
3- https://adamlanesmith.com/product/the-attachment-bootcamp/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
4- https://adamlanesmith.com/work-with-me/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
5- https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-repair/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
Want to learn your attachment style, and sign up for Adam's weekly newsletter? Click the link below to receive your copy and sign up now.
https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
If you want to know your attachment style , take our free attachment quiz: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social
Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro
X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith
Threads: https://www.threads.com/@attachmentadam
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/
I Wish You Knew Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh_uRUnpQwNZb_WG76TxTTw?sub_confirmation=1
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