I Wish You Knew

She's Mothering Him (And He'll Leave Her For It)


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She's giving him everything.

Reducing friction. Avoiding hard questions. Making him comfortable. 

Hoping he'll finally step up.

He won't.

Not because he's broken. Because you've told him everything is fine.

Kelsey Wonderlin coaches women out of the patterns that keep them stuck: attaching too fast, ignoring red flags, and failing to have the conversations that actually build relationships.

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Kelsey break down the three mistakes women make in dating: bonding before vetting, compatibility testing too late, and waiting for men to lead conversations they should be co-creating.


About Kelsey Wonderlin: Dating coach specializing in helping women attract emotionally available partners. Creator of the Magnetic Dating Lab and the weed-out question framework.
🔗 Instagram: @kelseywonderlin 
🔗 Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available Men | https://coaching.kelseywonderlin.com/3-things-free-opt-in

About Adam Lane Smith: Attachment specialist. Author. 17 years married. Helping one billion people become securely attached.

🔗 Website: adamlanesmith.com 
🔗 Attachment Assessment: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/
🔗 Attachment Repair Program: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-repair/

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