Forgiveness is often misunderstood, especially by those who haven’t lived through the manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abuse narcissists inflict. This episode will help you understand

Should you forgive the narcissist? It's a question that haunts many survivors of narcissistic abuse—and today, we’re unpacking it.

In this powerful episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I explore the loaded topic of forgiveness when it comes to narcissists. You’ll learn why the push to “just forgive and move on” can feel invalidating, how toxic positivity can pressure survivors into unsafe situations, and why your healing doesn’t have to include reconciliation or even formal forgiveness.

We cover:

* Why forgiving a narcissist isn’t the same as healing

* How “forgiveness culture” can retraumatise survivors

* What real healing looks like without forced forgiveness

* When forgiveness is helpful—and when it’s just another trap

* How to set boundaries and protect your peace, even without closure

 Whether you’re still in contact with a narcissist or have gone full no-contact, this episode will validate your journey and remind you that your healing path is yours to define.

“You don’t have to forgive the narcissist to heal—you just have to free yourself from their control.”    

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