This week join Carla Wilmaris to talk about Doing unto others as you would like done to you....THIS IS NOT EASY!!

Sometimes we want to teach a lesson and give others a dose of their own medicine BUT it's not worth it. 

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100 Episodes!!!!!! 

Can you believe we made it to 100? Today we get to hear from our day 1 Besties giving us their most memorable moments of the past 100 episodes. 

For those that joined the pod recently Carla will share her journey of how it all started and how we got HERE today! OH and for those of you that have been listening from day let's see how well you really know her!

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KNOW YOUR WORTH

No one will ever pay you what you’re worth, they will only pay you what you think you are worth.

This week Carla tells a few stories about her self worth and how she is adjusting to know her worth and telling herself that she is worthy. 

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On this week's episode Carla gets to sit down with her long time insta-bestie @shaniciaboswell creator of @blackmomsblog. They catch up on how they organically got to meet each other and discuss Shanicia's journey from being a young mother and feeling lonely in that role to becoming an entrepreneur with a community of women all over the world!

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Woman in a Georgia chik-fil-a gets told by a manager to cover up with his jacket while she breastfeeds her baby. How do you feel about public breastfeeding? TWEET ME!

SHANICIA BOSWELL

• Being a single parent
• Compartmentalizing friendships in your 30's 
• Deciding to have more children in a new relationship
• We get to find out Shanicia's family nickname (you won't believe how cuuuute it is)

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• A mother wants advice on feeling guilty after divorce because she feels as though her children think it is her fault because she is the one that moved and the kids HATE their new apartment away from dad. 

SH*T TAAALK

• Flying Biscuit in ATL is trash!!! 

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This week's Mindful Monday is all about GRATITUDE. I have been experiencing self doubt and what can easily turn into ungratefulness so I have been practicing gratitude every single day.

We tend to fall into a routine where we forget to give thanks and take a step back to realize that we have overcome old battles and we are now facing new ones.

If there's anything about this episode that resonates with you please let me know on social media @carlawilmaris and don't forget share with your friends.

Today is Good Day to Have A Good Day!

Have you ever dated a married man?

At some point in your life you will either know someone who has or you will have experienced this BUT will you ever sit across from her and talk about how you felt during this time and what led to it?

This week I am joined by Vyky to tell our stories from 7 years ago when I was "The Other Woman". It takes one hell of an incredible woman to agree to come on this show and tell HER story which is one of Strength, Growth, & Purpose!

My goals with this episode is to show every woman you can choose to be brave and let go of negative feelings that are holding you back from you GREATNESS! We are women and we are more powerful together than we could ever be apart!

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Would you eat from the forbidden fruit? A GROUP OF FARMERS AND RESEARCHERS CREATED A HYBRID APPLE THAT WILL STAY FRESH FOR UP TO A YEAR

VYKY

• How did this unusual friendship come about?
• Find out both sides of pain and forgiveness.
• What goes through a woman's mind when she finds out that her husband is cheating?
• Emotional vs Physical Cheating
• Repairing a marriage after infidelity
• How do you move on?

UNSOLITICED ADVICE

• Helping a friend with an eating disorder.

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This week I get to sit with the amazing Passport Cutty the author of "The M in Man is for Money" & Mandii B from Whoreible Decisions to have a girl chat. 

Grab your wine (or coffee if you're at work) & sit down with us to discuss the topics that we have when we are sitting at home with our homegirls. 

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Can you imagine having to bring a loved ones corpse to an insurance company? How far would you go to get your coins?

Girl Chat

• 9 years of an On and Off Relationship, WHY?
• Dealing with a friend now dating or "talking" to your ex.
• Social Anxiety while being a social media influencer
• Why do men want to know your past when dating you?

Unsolicited Advice

• How does my friend outgrow her loose reputation now that she has changed her life?

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Hard Work, WORKS!

Welcome to a new segment on Mondays where I will be starting off the week with you on a positive note.

NEW MONDAY - NEW WEEK - NEW GOALS!

This week we will start the first Monday and full week of 2020 talking about Hard Work and how we will catapult ourselves to the next level.

I also challenge you to join me on a 21 days Fast (you can choose anything that you want to give up)

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BY THIS TIME NEXT YEAR _______________________

We are going to hold each other accountable and when you listen to this episode you will learn what my goals for for this time next year.

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Thank you for listening and don't forget to share with your friends, rate and review the show!

On this week's episode of #ShitIm30Podcast, Carla recaps the last decade of her life and Four Lessons she has learned while taking you on a journey of her relationships throughout the last 10 years. Also Carla finally returned back to her roots this past weekend and did something NO ONE expected, find out what it was!

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