This week Carla is joined by Imani from the Lick the Rapper Podcast. Imani was able to bring her perspective from a 25 year old  relative in the entertainment industry and discuss how getting laid off from her current gig has her HUSTLING. 

We discuss relationships that fizzle out because you outgrow them or grow apart and how to trust your significant other in a long distance relationship.  We had two letters this week and let me tell y’all some of you are having a really hard time being quarantined home alone with no boo, but we have the best advice for you.  ______________________

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This week Carla discusses the ever changing triggers. Did you know that your triggers change over time? With New Levels you deal with New Devils.

Let's discuss triggers and realizing that in your 30's you might not completely turn into an introvert because of age, but because of certain fears.

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• MASTURBATION- How do can we start masturbating and what is it about it that makes it so weird to talk about in our communities?

SH*T Taalk!

• Oh boy this Corona Virus is just doing the most!

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This week we are chatting with Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurse Practitioner Angel Adams and we are discussing all things mental health!

My #1 question is 

Can't I just talk to my friends? Do I really need therapy?

Ha! Let's find out!

Also lets dig a little dipper on how psychiatrist prescribe drugs for mental health and if at times they are even really needed?

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This week Carla sits with Ruthie Fonseca host of Unexpected Reality to discuss the importance of girls having their father in their lives. Both ladies have lost their fathers and they tell the stories that impacted them and helped them become the women they are today.

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 19.7 million children, more than 1 in 4, live without a father in the home.

Ruthie Fonseca

• Sudden Death vs Expected Death
• Getting married without your father
• Different Kinds of Parenting

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Atheist is terrified of death and the after life.

SH*T TAAALK

• Parenting and the opinions on Zaya

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Welcome to Mindful Mondays!

This week I felt like I failed in my journey. I truly believed that I took 30 steps back but it took for me to make a phone call to realize that it this too is part of my journey.

I will share with you how I was reminded that there is no Testimony without a Test.

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Relationships: How The Internet Changed Things

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Krysta Monet

• Divorce and how to handle it
• Communication in dating
• Being walked out on during a first date
• How to get over a breakup
• Declining Wedding Invitations

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Man wants to know if he should continue relationship with Muslim girlfriend that refuses to introduce him to her family.

SH*T TALK

• Ms. Marie has a message for y'all that go to the bathroom in the clubs!

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

Forty-four percent of U.S. adults have admitted to being financially unfaithful to their spouse

• Soooo do you have hidden bank accounts so your spouse can't find them?

The Boss From Hell and Navigating Corporate American as a Woman of Color

• The Full story of the Boss from Hell
• Did they Hire a pedophile?
• How to keep your composure when talked down to
• Understanding how to be respected without having to cut up at work
• Navigating life as a single woman
• dating yourself

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• A woman feels as though she has lost herself and her passion in her new life with kids and a husband.
• Embracing your 9 to 5 and using it to fund hour dreams

SH*T TAAALK

• My story seemed to have bothered someone and I DONT CARE!!!
• Megan shares her opinion on the intense dislike on social media about Gayle King. 

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This week join Carla Wilmaris to talk about Doing unto others as you would like done to you....THIS IS NOT EASY!!

Sometimes we want to teach a lesson and give others a dose of their own medicine BUT it's not worth it. 

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100 Episodes!!!!!! 

Can you believe we made it to 100? Today we get to hear from our day 1 Besties giving us their most memorable moments of the past 100 episodes. 

For those that joined the pod recently Carla will share her journey of how it all started and how we got HERE today! OH and for those of you that have been listening from day let's see how well you really know her!

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KNOW YOUR WORTH

No one will ever pay you what you’re worth, they will only pay you what you think you are worth.

This week Carla tells a few stories about her self worth and how she is adjusting to know her worth and telling herself that she is worthy. 

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