SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Woman, 24, shot dead after 'using loaded gun for arousal in sex game gone wrong’

Lex & Drea

• Who is Garfield? & Why is she so fat?
• The Rules of sending nudes and videos.
• Older men or younger men? What do we prefer.
• Traveling on a Budget..PENNY FLIGHTS!
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UNSOLICITED ADVICE

Newly Single and I Don’t Know If I’ll Find Love

• She dated the same man for most of her 20’s and now is terrified that the pool of men left is trash!

SH*T TAAALK

• Airplane exit etiquette…try me again if you want to!

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Why Collaborating With Your Competition Can Be A Great Idea

https://www.forbes.com/sites/briannegarrett/2019/09/19/why-collaborating-with-your-competition-can-be-a-great-idea/#7d6c35aadf86

Ryan Plaza : The Pursuit Of Success

• Living in your purpose
• Starting a business & investing in other businesses
• Bringing your community to the table of greatness
• How to reach out to get your desired mentor

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

DO WE OWE OUR FAMILY ANYTHING?

• Woman raised younger half brother alone and struggled to do so, but now that he received a large inheritance he is not paying back or helping sister. 

SH*T TAAALK

• Stacey Dash - my opinion on her now being labeled everything she denounced, specially “an angry black woman”

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Former NFL Star Larry Johnson's Latest Dig At Megan Thee Stallion Is Reeking Of Toxic Masculinity
• https://blavity.com/former-nfl-star-larry-johnsons-latest-dig-at-megan-thee-stallion-is-wreaking-of-toxic-masculinity?category1=news 
• People say he has a serious case of CTE….his tweets are worshiping satan.
• Mac Miller’s Death Leads to Drug Charge Against California Man
• https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/04/us/mac-miller-death-arrest.html

GIRL TAAALK feat Dexty!

• If your partner has a female friend is it ok for him to help her with a bill here and there?
•      When do you think it’s the right time to give bae a key to your house?
• According to a report men with wives with low libido are paying their wives as an incentive to want to have more sex. Would you be ok with getting paid by your HUSBAND/Life partner?
• H&M ad controversy

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

If you have a situation you would like for us totalk about on the show or advice. Send an email to [email protected] so we can read yours next. I am a professionalwith my advice and opinions!

•     I Think I need to cheat on my fiancé, I feel trapped.

SH*T TAAALK

• Bitter Baby Mamas that keep their children away from the fathers.

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SHIT YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Panel approves ban on sale of flavored e-cigs in New York
  • https://www.apnews.com/7bc6b75760624644afc97383aea4247b

BEING TOO OPINIONATED with Mandii B

• 5 Challenges and stereotypes of being an opinionated woman (the first one being “You’re a Bitch”)
• Although Mandii and Carla are both very opinionated they talk about their main difference in dealing with others' opinions
• We find reasons why it pays off to be opinionated
  • (We all admire opinionated people!)

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• I’m the other woman! We help a woman figure out if she should stay in a relationship now that she knows she is the other woman.

SH*T TAAALK

• CARLA: Drove all the way to the other side of town for boxing and didnt even get to box. Find out why.
• MANDII: I am tired of men! I am done dating! (Do you guys believe her?)

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW Felicity Huffman gains favorable probation report in college admissions conviction Brooke Skylar Richardson walks free on probation in daughter’s death DATING 101 How long does the talking period last during cuffing season? Do you think a relationship can last if youre in love but no physical attraction? Would you be ok with you parent dating someone that is the same age as you? How long do you date before bringing your boo to meet your family? Is it a turn off that someone is constantly on their phone while they’re with you? UNSOLICITED ADVICE Fuck Buddy or My Almost Perfect Boyfriend SH*T TAAALK If this dog runs away ONE MORE TIME!!!

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Felicity Huffman gains favorable probation report in college admissions conviction
• Brooke Skylar Richardson walks free on probation in daughter’s death

DATING 101

• How long does the talking period last during cuffing season?
• Do you think a relationship can last if youre in love but no physical attraction?
• Would you be ok with you parent dating someone that is the same age as you?
• How long do you date before bringing your boo to meet your family?
• Is it a turn off that someone is constantly on their phone while they’re with you?

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Fuck Buddy or My Almost Perfect Boyfriend

SH*T TAAALK

• If this dog runs away ONE MORE TIME!!!

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW Oregon bill would allow victims of racially motivated 911 calls to sue

https://www.statesmanjournal.com/story/news/politics/2019/06/04/oregon-bill-would-allow-victims-racially-motivated-911-calls-sue/1337547001

CUFFING SEASON

Cuffing season is the time of the year, usually between Oct-March where people feel the urge to be coupled up.

 

• Is cuffing season even a real thing?
• Carla & Anthony seem to be in the draft of the season
• Tips to not let cuffing season distract you from your personal goals
• How do you know if you found “the one” that will make it through cuffing season?

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Being months away from the 30th birthday and wanting to know if she should pursue her passion in the entertainment industry again and how to financially go about it. 

SH*T TAAALK

• Shit Talk Little Nas X on the Shop Diversity and Inclusion 
• Malik Yoba hits back at claims that he solicited young trans teen for sex

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• MDMA ( Ecstasy/ Molly) has been shown to help treat Mental ailments Such as PTSD, Social Anxiety, Depression and Alcohol addiction accompanied with psychotherapy. 

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/4-conditions-that-ecstasy-may-help-treat#1

LIVING WITH ANXIETY & DEPRESSION

While Carla deals with severe anxiety and Anthony with depression, both hosts this week dive into how they deal and cope with their mental health and how it affects them on a daily basis.

• How the disorders have affected their personal lives.
• Triggers that can cause an anxiety attack or cause depression.
• Their personal coping skills to keep going every single day.

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• My bf broke up with me but still thinks we are going on a vacation I paid for!

SH*T TAAALK!

• Dave Chappell: Stick and Stone on LGB(T) issues

EPISODE NOTES  Shit you should know Fires are devouring the Amazon. And Jair Bolsonaro is to blame

 

As the world watches in horror and terror as the Amazon burns, scientists have made clear that the cause, principally if not entirely, is human activity.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/26/fires-are-devouring-the-amazon-and-jair-bolsonaro-is-to-blame

 

DEALING WITH DEATH 

 

You become a different person

You reform yourself

Life before life after

Maturity

How does the rest of the family react to death in the family?

Death of a friend.

 

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

Her name is Chasity and me and her known each other from high school and we even graduated in the same year of 2006 and were dates to our senior prom. One of the thangs we both had in common was that we were born with a disability and ailment that would alter our lives forever.

 

Sh*t TAAALLLKKKK

- Power 

-Popeyes Chicken Sandwiches 

Shit You Should Know

 Donald Trump Proposes Mental Institutions As A Solution To Mass Shootings

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2019/08/16/trump-pushing-mental-health-facilities-after-shootings/2029157001/

 Body Count & Boundaries in Relationships 

• Blueface claims he has slept with 1000 women in 6 months
• Do we know our body count? Little Black Book?
• Famous Celebs and their Body Count
• Does your partner need to know your body count?
• Privacy and Boundaries in relationships. 

Unsolicited Advice

My husband and I have custody of my 16-year-old sister for two years. My sister identifies as bisexual and since we have had custody, she’s had a boyfriend who was also bi and now has a girlfriend. What would you think I should do to let her feel like I support her choices?

Sh*t Talk

• JayZ Roc Nation partners with NFL – entertainment and social awareness partnership

“We are past kneeling, now let’s address injustice”

• Don't Call Anthony if you’re not buying or selling a house!

 

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