THIS WEEK CARLA IS JOINED BY MANDII B OF WHOREIBLE DECISIONS! ENJOY!

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SHIT YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Panel approves ban on sale of flavored e-cigs in New York
  • https://www.apnews.com/7bc6b75760624644afc97383aea4247b

BEING TOO OPINIONATED with Mandii B

• 5 Challenges and stereotypes of being an opinionated woman (the first one being “You’re a Bitch”)
• Although Mandii and Carla are both very opinionated they talk about their main difference in dealing with others' opinions
• We find reasons why it pays off to be opinionated
  • (We all admire opinionated people!)

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• I’m the other woman! We help a woman figure out if she should stay in a relationship now that she knows she is the other woman.

SH*T TAAALK

• CARLA: Drove all the way to the other side of town for boxing and didnt even get to box. Find out why.
• MANDII: I am tired of men! I am done dating! (Do you guys believe her?)

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW Felicity Huffman gains favorable probation report in college admissions conviction Brooke Skylar Richardson walks free on probation in daughter’s death DATING 101 How long does the talking period last during cuffing season? Do you think a relationship can last if youre in love but no physical attraction? Would you be ok with you parent dating someone that is the same age as you? How long do you date before bringing your boo to meet your family? Is it a turn off that someone is constantly on their phone while they’re with you? UNSOLICITED ADVICE Fuck Buddy or My Almost Perfect Boyfriend SH*T TAAALK If this dog runs away ONE MORE TIME!!!

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Felicity Huffman gains favorable probation report in college admissions conviction
• Brooke Skylar Richardson walks free on probation in daughter’s death

DATING 101

• How long does the talking period last during cuffing season?
• Do you think a relationship can last if youre in love but no physical attraction?
• Would you be ok with you parent dating someone that is the same age as you?
• How long do you date before bringing your boo to meet your family?
• Is it a turn off that someone is constantly on their phone while they’re with you?

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Fuck Buddy or My Almost Perfect Boyfriend

SH*T TAAALK

• If this dog runs away ONE MORE TIME!!!

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW Oregon bill would allow victims of racially motivated 911 calls to sue

https://www.statesmanjournal.com/story/news/politics/2019/06/04/oregon-bill-would-allow-victims-racially-motivated-911-calls-sue/1337547001

CUFFING SEASON

Cuffing season is the time of the year, usually between Oct-March where people feel the urge to be coupled up.

 

• Is cuffing season even a real thing?
• Carla & Anthony seem to be in the draft of the season
• Tips to not let cuffing season distract you from your personal goals
• How do you know if you found “the one” that will make it through cuffing season?

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Being months away from the 30th birthday and wanting to know if she should pursue her passion in the entertainment industry again and how to financially go about it. 

SH*T TAAALK

• Shit Talk Little Nas X on the Shop Diversity and Inclusion 
• Malik Yoba hits back at claims that he solicited young trans teen for sex

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• MDMA ( Ecstasy/ Molly) has been shown to help treat Mental ailments Such as PTSD, Social Anxiety, Depression and Alcohol addiction accompanied with psychotherapy. 

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/4-conditions-that-ecstasy-may-help-treat#1

LIVING WITH ANXIETY & DEPRESSION

While Carla deals with severe anxiety and Anthony with depression, both hosts this week dive into how they deal and cope with their mental health and how it affects them on a daily basis.

• How the disorders have affected their personal lives.
• Triggers that can cause an anxiety attack or cause depression.
• Their personal coping skills to keep going every single day.

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• My bf broke up with me but still thinks we are going on a vacation I paid for!

SH*T TAAALK!

• Dave Chappell: Stick and Stone on LGB(T) issues

EPISODE NOTES  Shit you should know Fires are devouring the Amazon. And Jair Bolsonaro is to blame

 

As the world watches in horror and terror as the Amazon burns, scientists have made clear that the cause, principally if not entirely, is human activity.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/26/fires-are-devouring-the-amazon-and-jair-bolsonaro-is-to-blame

 

DEALING WITH DEATH 

 

You become a different person

You reform yourself

Life before life after

Maturity

How does the rest of the family react to death in the family?

Death of a friend.

 

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

Her name is Chasity and me and her known each other from high school and we even graduated in the same year of 2006 and were dates to our senior prom. One of the thangs we both had in common was that we were born with a disability and ailment that would alter our lives forever.

 

Sh*t TAAALLLKKKK

- Power 

-Popeyes Chicken Sandwiches 

Shit You Should Know

 Donald Trump Proposes Mental Institutions As A Solution To Mass Shootings

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2019/08/16/trump-pushing-mental-health-facilities-after-shootings/2029157001/

 Body Count & Boundaries in Relationships 

• Blueface claims he has slept with 1000 women in 6 months
• Do we know our body count? Little Black Book?
• Famous Celebs and their Body Count
• Does your partner need to know your body count?
• Privacy and Boundaries in relationships. 

Unsolicited Advice

My husband and I have custody of my 16-year-old sister for two years. My sister identifies as bisexual and since we have had custody, she’s had a boyfriend who was also bi and now has a girlfriend. What would you think I should do to let her feel like I support her choices?

Sh*t Talk

• JayZ Roc Nation partners with NFL – entertainment and social awareness partnership

“We are past kneeling, now let’s address injustice”

• Don't Call Anthony if you’re not buying or selling a house!

 

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Shit You Should Know  Donald Trump Proposes Mental Institutions As A Solution To Mass Shootings https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2019/08/16/trump-pushing-mental-health-facilities-after-shootings/2029157001/  Body Count & Boundaries in Relationships  Blueface claims he has slept with 1000 women in 6 months Do we know our body count? Little Black Book? Famous Celebs and their Body Count Does your partner need to know your body count? Privacy and Boundaries in relationships.  Unsolicited Advice My husband and I have custody of my 16-year-old sister for two years. My sister identifies as bisexual and since we have had custody, she’s had a boyfriend who was also bi and now has a girlfriend. What would you think I should do to let her feel like I support her choices? Sh*t Talk JayZ Roc Nation partners with NFL – entertainment and social awareness partnership “We are past kneeling, now let’s address injustice” Don’t Call Anthony if you’re not buying or selling a house! Thank you to this week’s Sponsor Audible – Get your free audiobook today at www.audible.com/Carla30 or text Carla30 to 500-500

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

House Homeland Security Chair Lashes ICE Boss For Children Left Abandoned By Raids

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/bernie-thompson-homeland-security-committee-matthew-albence-raids-immigrants-abandoned-children_n_5d4e475fe4b0fc06ace81b2f 

 

• Authorities hailed Wednesday's sweep at food processing plants in six cities as a record-setting operation. At least 680 undocumented immigrants were detained.

IMPOSTOR SYNDROME

a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a "fraud".

 

1. The Perfectionist
2. The Superwoman/man
3. The Natural Genius
4. The Soloist
5. The Expert

 

https://www.themuse.com/advice/5-different-types-of-imposter-syndrome-and-5-ways-to-battle-each-one 

 

https://www.forbes.com/sites/margiewarrell/2014/04/03/impostor-syndrome/#6e60cab248a9 

 

Nicki Minaj Queen Radio interview ‘Anthony vs Carla’  

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

Dating isn't easy. I've definitely got stories to tell the grandkids.

SH*T TAAALK

Carla saying the N- Word

Praytell and Ricky sex scene on Pose Season 2 episode 8 

 

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