Today's episode I am joined by Dani & TJ from the Lovers Quarrel podcast! We are diving into everything marriage, monogamy, relationship conflicts, & how to keep a relationship fresh and spicy while life takes its course.

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• It's not enough to free the innocent. We must rebuild the lives that are shattered by a broken system.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/jamaltrulove/opinion-what-we-owe-the-wrongly-convicted

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• A woman is considering divorce because her husband is bringing home some nasty things he is picking up at "work".  

SH*T TAAALK

• I tried to give the sh*t talk to NYC and the traffic but somehow it all turned right back to me and I was the one at fault. 

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Today's recommended book is:

The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers by Gary Chapman

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On this week's episode of Sh*T I'm 30 I am  joined by my bestie who loves to debate with me, Mandii B host of the Whoreible Decisions podcast and the new man in my life Wax from Bully and the Beast podcast.

It was all kept pretty quiet until recently when a certain podcast decided to send the world on a hunt for Wax's new love! Since the cat is out of the bag we decided to l go ahead and give you the full back story of how our platonic friendship turned romantic , how we deal with a long distance relationship and the very first words Wax said to me, Trust me they were sooooo Wax's words. 

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SHIT YOU SHOULD KNOW

Anal cancer rates and deaths are climbing in the US, study says 

https://www.cnn.com/2019/11/19/health/anal-cancer-incidence-death-increase-study/index.html

JUSTLATASHA

• Understanding men have feelings too
• Not objectifying men
• Toxic Women
• Plan B for Entrepreneurship
• Giving 110% to your side hustle
• Would you date outside of your race?

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Mother living vicariously through daughter but it is crossing boundaries and possibly making siblings uncomfortable.

SH*T TAAALK

• Mandii thinks I am Bob The Builder 

 

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This week I am joined by the host of Dear Overthinker Podcast Ashley Rose

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• How to protect your kids from predators. We discuss the video of a young girl hiding and getting away from a car following her.

Coping with Break Ups in your 30’s 

• Divorcing your high school sweetheart at 29
• Learning how to date when you feel the clock ticking
• Why are breakups harder in your 30's
• We discuss our individual experiences on how we knew it was OVER.

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Woman wants to contact an ex for closure.

SH*T TAAALK

• Father being prosecuted for leaving 1 year old twins in hot car.

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@dearoverthinker www.dearoverthinker.com @lifeofashleyrose

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Lyft Is Offering Free Rides To Job Interview - It's part of a $50 million annual commitment Lyft announced when it went public earlier this year.

Checking In with the Goals You Set for 2019

• How’s your progress for the year?
• Did you get stuck with your goals in 2019
• Resetting your goals for 2020
• Add more goals if you were too considerate

HOW DID WE END UP FIGHTING AT THE BEACH?

 

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

• Step mom sent 13 year old step daughter a text message that now has her and her husband disagreeing on how to deal with a the girl in THEIR house. Was she out of line for the text message?

SH*T TAAALK

• I got suckered into a sleepover by Ayannah and then you wont believe what the other child did (or actually what she DID NOT do)

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New BONUS Exclusive Episode on Patreon all about Procrastination now LIVE…you can access this and all previous exclusive episodes and posts at www.patreon.com/shitim30 SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW Student IDs list phone sex number instead of suicide hotline Carolyn Toney The feelings and reaction to finding out you are herpes positive. Different Types of Herpes How to communicate to others your status Living a polygamous lifestyle Experiences in Sex Clubs and being open about STD Status Dealing with friendships and your status UNSOLICITED ADVICE Woman wants to know how to date a man that has mutual friends and how to open up about herpes status fearing that her friends will find out. SH*T Talk How to properly approach me through DM’s or emails for business purposes! GROW UP AND BE PROFESSIONAL! IDEA TO LAUNCH PODCAST INTENSIVE COURSE beings November 11th! If you have any questions please email me [email protected] visit ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com

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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

• Student IDs list phone sex number instead of suicide hotline

Carolyn Toney

• The feelings and reaction to finding out you are herpes positive.
• Different Types of Herpes
• How to communicate to others your status
• Living a polygamous lifestyle
• Experiences in Sex Clubs and being open about STD Status
• Dealing with friendships and your status

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• Woman wants to know how to date a man that has mutual friends and how to open up about herpes status fearing that her friends will find out.

SH*T Talk

• How to properly approach me through DM's or emails for business purposes! GROW UP AND BE PROFESSIONAL!

This week we are joined by the beautiful @leticiamariegardner! We take the conversation deep and talk about her marriage from where they started to where they are now equally yolked. Leticia opens up about her blended family and how her and her husband make their unique and special family work. Everything that glitters isnt gold, but they have their ways of making their marriage work and she gives us great tips and amazing books she has read that we should also read AND SO MUCH MORE!

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