Is AA all about following the straight and narrow, or is there room for nuance in recovery? This week, Steve and I break free from the black and white thinking that can trap us in sobriety. We tackle the "one drink = start over" dogma, explore the beauty of personal choice, and celebrate the power of tools over rigid rules. Buckle up for a thought-provoking discussion about finding your own path and making recovery work for you, not the other way around. Highlights:Black & white vs. grey: Rethinking the "all or nothing" mentality in AA.One-drink slips: Should a minor misstep erase your entire journey?Picking your tools: Using the program as a toolbox, not a straitjacket.Attraction, not promotion: Embracing diversity and individual paths to sobriety.Learning from everyone: Accepting different experiences and finding inspiration in unique journeys.
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E161: So You Think Your Sobriety Date Matters? Think Again!

The Sober Friends Podcast is a weekly show where you can listen to inspiring and honest conversations about sobriety, recovery, and wellness. Hosted by Matt J who has been there and done that, this podcast is for anyone who wants to learn more about living a sober and fulfilling life. Whether you’re sober curious, in recovery, or just looking for some motivation and support, this podcast is for you. Tune in every week to hear from guests who share their stories, struggles, and successes on their sober journey. You’ll also get tips, resources, and advice on how to stay sober and thrive in all areas of your life. The Sober Friends Podcast is your go-to source for sober inspiration, education, and entertainment. Subscribe now and join the sober friends community!

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Change is so hard.  I've heard of people saying they love change.  I've also heard of people stop drinking after their beverage was only half drunk.  I could never understand either.  In this episode, we talk about change, why it's hard and how we got through it through our program of recovery.  Are you someone who has challenges with change?  We have lots of tools for you in this engaging episode. Do you find value in what the Sober Friends Podcast does?  Consider buying us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/soberfriendspod.  Your donation helps us with hosting and website fees and allows up to maintain our equipment.  You keep us on the air for the new guy or gal.The Waking up to Grace Podcast
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E175: Managing Change

Join us on the Super Friends podcast as we dive deep into creating a sober lifestyle and what that truly means. Steve and our host, Matt, open up about their personal experiences, struggles, and victories on this challenging yet rewarding journey. Matt shares his recent encounters with Tim, who expressed his concern about John's sleep apnea issues and the impact on his well-being. With the hectic schedule of his kids' sports activities and work commitments, finding time for AA meetings has become increasingly difficult. Despite not feeling the urge to drink, Matt realizes he's overextended and in need of a plan to maintain his sobriety. Steve highlights the necessity of putting in the work and the importance of flexibility in adapting to life's demands while maintaining a sober lifestyle. He shares personal anecdotes and offers valuable insights into the challenges and triumphs of this journey. Together, they stress the significance of reaching out to others, building a support network, and staying vigilant even when things seem manageable. They emphasize the need for constant self-improvement and the incorporation of sobriety into every aspect of life. In a heartwarming story, Steve recounts a recent encounter at a hot dog stand that beautifully illustrates the transformation he's undergone, thanks to his commitment to sobriety. It's proof that the program not only changes one's life but also instills a desire to help others. Tune in and learn from their experiences as they navigate the path to a fulfilling, sober lifestyle. Don't miss this powerful episode filled with inspiration, insight, and a touch of humor. Listen now on the Super Friends podcast! 

E174: Creating a Sober Lifestyle

Join us on the Sober Friends podcast for an insightful discussion about the challenges of maintaining health and wellness on the journey to recovery. In this episode, we dive into the frustrations of dealing with sleep apnea, the temptation of instant relief, and the importance of patience in finding solutions. From struggling with impatience to navigating relationships with food, our hosts share personal experiences and valuable insights on overcoming obstacles. Discover how taking proactive steps towards health can be a transformative journey, and learn practical strategies for managing frustrations along the way. Tune in for a candid conversation about embracing the process of self-care and finding comfort in one's own skin amidst life's challenges. Do you find value in what the Sober Friends Podcast does?  Consider buying us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/soberfriendspod.  Your donation helps us with hosting and website fees and allows up to maintain our equipment.  You keep us on the air for the new guy or gal.The Waking up to Grace Podcast
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E173: Health, Frustration, and the Journey to Wellness

Join us as we delve into a candid conversation about navigating the intricate web of PTSD, food struggles, and alcoholism. In this episode, Matt shares his journey, unveiling how unrecognized PTSD intertwined with his battles with food and alcohol. From therapy revelations to weight loss endeavors, we explore the common threads linking these struggles and how they intersect with addiction behaviors. Discover insights into the parallels between alcoholism and food addiction, challenging self-talk patterns, and the quest for sustainable wellness. Whether you're grappling with similar battles or seeking to understand the intricate dynamics of addiction, this episode offers valuable perspectives and paths toward healing. Dive deep into the shared experiences of sobriety, self-discovery, and breaking free from the cycles that bind us. Do you find value in what the Sober Friends Podcast does?  Consider buying us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/soberfriendspod.  Your donation helps us with hosting and website fees and allows up to maintain our equipment.  You keep us on the air for the new guy or gal.The Waking up to Grace Podcast
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E172: Breaking the Cycle: From PTSD to Food & Alcohol Addiction

Join us for a deeply introspective episode as Matt shares his journey of self-discovery and vulnerability. Fresh out of a therapy session, Matt delves into a candid conversation about unintentional hurts, self-awareness, and the challenges of opening up. From workplace dynamics to personal walls built from past experiences, Matt and Steve explore the complexities of human connection and growth. Tune in for a raw and relatable discussion on the path to understanding oneself and embracing authenticity. Whether you're seeking solace, insights, or simply a shared experience, this episode offers valuable reflections on navigating relationships, both with others and with oneself. Do you find value in what the Sober Friends Podcast does?  Consider buying us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/soberfriendspod.  Your donation helps us with hosting and website fees and allows up to maintain our equipment.  You keep us on the air for the new guy or gal.The Waking up to Grace Podcast
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E161: So You Think Your Sobriety Date Matters? Think Again!

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