Social Skills Mastery

Does the thought of being in the spotlight make you feel anxious, nervous, or worried? Emotional Detoxing is the brainchild of my guest, Sherianna Boyle. In this episode, Sherianna shares a wealth of information on how to calm your nervous system, and how can be a reset for the soul, flushing out negative feelings, clearing a path for new habits and behaviors, and energizing you to accept peace, acceptance, and pure joy.

Sherianna is an author, the founder of Emotional Detox Coaching®, creator of the Cleanse Method.®, an adjunct Psychology Professor, and a cool and calm yoga instructor. She combines her skills to introduce us all to her methodology on the show.

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Resistance, in various contexts, can refer to different things, but generally speaking, it refers to the opposition that you encounter when trying to achieve a certain goal or make a change.

In terms of personal growth, learning, or self-improvement, resistance can come from psychological factors such as fear, self-doubt, and overthinking. Pushing past psychological resistance means stepping out of your comfort zone and facing challenges that can lead to personal development and growth. Overcoming these mental barriers can lead to increased confidence, resilience, and new skills.

Pushing past resistance challenges you to step outside your comfort zone and confront your limitations. This process fosters personal growth, helping you become more resilient, adaptable, and capable of handling a variety of situations.

 Resistance is a natural part of personal and professional growth. Pushing past resistance can lead to enhanced skills, confidence, resilience, and a greater capacity to achieve your goals and contribute to personal innovation.

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Our actions and behaviors reflect the self-perception we hold of ourselves in our subconscious. Most of the time, self-confidence is increased by having a positive self-perception. You don’t need to wait to hear what other people think of you. It gives you a sense of satisfaction in life. But sadly, we are all so dependent on other people’s perceptions of us these days that our self-perception is distorted. We strive to live up to the expectations of others around us in order to have our own positive self-perception.

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers

Hesitating when communicating can crush your career and have a negative impact on how you’re perceived.

Hesitating, overthinking, and perfectionistic tendencies can cause you to miss out on having your voice heard and on important opportunities. Whether it's, taking on a challenging project, or seeking a promotion, delaying your decision can result in someone else seizing the opportunity.

And, if you doubt yourself and your skills, you may be less likely to take on new challenges or showcase your talents to others.

Building professional relationships and networking is essential for business building and career advancement. Hesitating to engage with colleagues, attend events, or reach out to potential mentors can limit your networking opportunities.

To avoid the negative effects of hesitating in your career, try to cultivate a proactive and confident mindset. Make timely decisions, take calculated risks, and embrace new challenges as opportunities for growth.

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The Social Priming System: The #1 Way to create your desired social outcomes

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers

Have you noticed that you may be criticizing people, either silently in your mind or aloud to whomever is around? 

If you develop a reputation for being overly critical and negative, it can impact how you are perceived by others. That’s because we’re less inclined to trust or respect someone who consistently criticizes others, and this can have social and professional consequences.

It's important to note that not all criticism is negative. Constructive criticism, when delivered with empathy and respect, can be beneficial for personal and professional growth. It focuses on identifying areas for improvement and providing suggestions or guidance to help someone succeed.

It is crucial to approach criticism in a constructive and compassionate manner to foster healthy relationships and personal development.

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers

Whenever we set a big goal, like deciding to be more assertive or to be confident speaking from the stage, there are bound to be some uncomfortable and discouraging moments along the way. Along the way we have a choice to backtrack and stay where we are with no clear results, or keep going forward, trudging through the brush, swimming in shark-infested waters, or any analogy you can imagine that makes it difficult to get to where you want to be,

But that journey is where the growth takes place. That’s the hard part, because where you are now is comfy and cozy. And where you want to be, well, you don’t yet actually know what it will feel like to reach that destination. In each of these instances, we decide we want to change our current behavior, but we must go through the growing pains of actually doing the work.

In the end, you will have accumulated numerous stories about the battles you fought on your journey, and how you are willing to do it again.

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The Social Priming System: The #1 Way to create your desired social outcomes

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers

There are several reasons why introverted and socially reserved professionals prefer to avoid working in teams.

Introverts often appreciate having control over their work environment and process. They may prefer making decisions independently and working at their own pace. In a team, decision-making is typically a collaborative process, requiring compromise and consensus. Introverts may feel more empowered and productive when they can work autonomously and follow their own internal processes.

Socially reserved professionals may experience social anxiety or discomfort in group settings. They may prefer to avoid situations that require constant interaction, such as team meetings or brainstorming sessions, where they feel pressure to contribute and engage with others. Working alone can alleviate the stress and anxiety associated with social interactions, allowing them to focus on their work without the added pressure of constant socialization.

Creating and sharing a personal journal can help team members better understand the personalities they’re working with.

Free Course: The Assertiveness Accelerator

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The Social Priming System: The #1 Way to create your desired social outcomes

Social Confidence Pro 

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers

Are you tired of hearing about the importance of your brand? Don't be, because it is increasingly difficult to distinguish yourself and stand out in professional and social situations.

When you have a strong and memorable brand, people are more likely to trust you and believe in what you have to say. This can help you build credibility and authority in your field, which can lead to more opportunities.

An attractive brand can help you attract new opportunities, like job offers, speaking engagements, and consulting gigs. When people know who you are and what you stand for, they are more likely to be interested in what you offer.

If you're looking to stand out in your field and achieve your career goals, know that your brand is a powerful tool that can help you get there.

Free Course: The Assertiveness Accelerator

Free Guide: The Ultimate Way to Start Conversations and Leave Them Wanting More

Get on the waitlist and be the first notified when we open The School of Social Mastery

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The Social Priming System: The #1 Way to create your desired social outcomes

Social Confidence Pro 

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers

Social Priming can be a helpful tool for visualizing optimum interactions and alleviating social anxiety, self-doubt, and low self-esteem. 

Priming your mind allows you to create a mental image of a calm and peaceful situation. And by imagining yourself being socially confident, you can evoke a sense of relaxation and control, helping to reduce anxiety levels. This occurs first in your mind and then more or less kicks into gear in the real world.

It creates a positive distraction from anxious thoughts and worries. And when you focus your attention on vividly imagining a pleasant social or business scenario, it can divert your mind away from anxious thoughts and help you meet more people and connect through conversation.

Free Course: The Assertiveness Accelerator

Free Guide: The Ultimate Way to Start Conversations and Leave Them Wanting More

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The Social Priming System: The #1 Way to create your desired social outcomes

Social Confidence Pro 

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers

Social connection is a dynamic process, and developing these skills requires practice and ongoing effort. In today’s episode we talk about how building meaningful relationships takes time, patience, and mutual investment from all parties involved.

Free Course: The Assertiveness Accelerator

Free Guide: The Ultimate Way to Start Conversations and Leave Them Wanting More

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Feeling anxious in unfamiliar situations? Schedule your: "Social Anxiety Solution" mini-coaching and consultation session

The Social Priming System: The #1 Way to create your desired social outcomes

Social Confidence Pro 

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Essential Business Etiquette Tips: The Definitive List of "Must-Know" social rules for success with co-workers, clients, and customers