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In this revealing episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down with an OG digital creator, entrepreneur and mom Brittany Xavier, for an honest conversation about faith, motherhood, and staying grounded in a rapidly changing online world. Brittany opens up about her early start on social media, the business behind her brand, and the journey from being a young single mother to one of the most recognizable figures in the influencer space. She shares how trusting in God’s plan guided her through life’s biggest turning points, from choosing to keep her baby and balancing school, work, and motherhood, to navigating a difficult custody battle and ultimately finding her voice through content creation.

Together, Valeria and Brittany explore what it means to live authentically online, the lessons she’s passed down to her daughter about social media and technology, and how her family’s move from California to Tennessee brought both public scrutiny and peace. It’s a conversation about growth, resilience, and choosing faith and family over everything, and a reminder that the most powerful influence comes from being true to who you are.

📱Follow Brittany:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanyxavier/?hl=en

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brittany.xavier?lang=en

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/brittanyxavier

Website: https://brittanyxavier.com/

Brittany’s Book Recommendations:

The Case for Christ: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus:

https://amzn.to/4o4sZ4B

I Don't Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist: https://amzn.to/4ob6B9S

Shop my looks from this episode: https://shopmy.us/shop/collections/2702040

Follow me: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/ 

What we talked about: 

0:29 - Valeria’s upcoming trip to Peru

0:47 - Introducing Brittany Xavier

2:12 - Start of interview

2:45 - Brittany’s start on social media

4:39 - The business behind the posts

6:33 - Brittany’s early motherhood days

7:30 - The decision to keep her baby

13:02 - Being a young mother

15:06 - Floatley Ad

16:15 - Balancing school, work and motherhood

18:42 - The decision not to pursue law school

20:42 - Trusting her faith in God and his plan for her

22:25 - Her custody battle

23:14 - Signs from God

24:33 - Her community

25:26 - Her daughter and social media

27:25 - Children and technology

28:22 - Teaching her daughter the business side of TikTok

29:31 - Brittany’s shift in content 

32:16 - The shifting of priorities

33:52 - The decision to leave California

36:26 - Backlash on their move to Tennessee

39:49 - Dealing with the online hate

43:36 - Being her most authentic self online

48:13 - Bringing faith to the forefront 

49:50 - Brittany’s book recommendations

52:22 - Her biggest regret

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