September 19, 2022

Strong Women, Domestic Abuse and Cultural Spillover Theory - Ep 19

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We welcome Colette Durst to the podcast this week. Hear Colette's story of domestic abuse and she shares her journey from being a young mother and wife and working through law school to living in an escalating environment of domestic abuse all while claiming the corporate ladder.

After 9/11 Colette's spouse was activated as a reservist and went over to Iraq and she felt that was the turning point in her marriage.

Learn about Cultural Spillover Theory and how that and PTSD may have played a major role in the escalating abuse that was happening. And how these things may have played a role that led to adultery, excessive drinking, personality changes, violence, reckless financial decisions, secretly purchasing weapons, and abandonment.

During this rapid escalation, Colette remained silent from telling her friends and family. As so many women remain silent out of fear and shame and they don't seek out help. While Colette did try and get help from the military, things seem to fall through the cracks and no one stepped forward to help her or her family.

Colette decided recently to write a LinkedIn Article that eluded to her domestic abuse experience of "bringing the war home". This article really spoke to many other successful women that reached out and acknowledged they too are struggling.

Our message to our listeners is when women come together and support each other we are stronger! If you are in a Domestic Abuse situation safely reach out for help. If you suspect a loved one could be in a Domestic Abuse situation encourage them to reach out for help.

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1.800.799 SAFE (7233) Text "START" to 88788 www.thehotline.org has resources and live chat sessions available

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