Why are dating shows so wildly popular? Do you ever wonder if those wild moments from reality TV have anything to do with your real-life dating struggles? What lessons—good or bad—are these shows teaching us, and how do we handle the ever-evolving swipe culture and its endless options? In Episode 421 of The Charisma Quotient, "Swipe Culture, Dating Disasters & Reality TV with Zack Peter" Kimmy Seltzer and Allison Melody sit down with pop culture expert Zack Peter to tackle these big questions, blending reality TV drama with practical, real-world advice (and lots of laughs).

The conversation kicks off with stories from Zack's own journey through podcasting, his show "Disaster Daters," and his penchant for publicly sharing every dating mishap. The trio dives into the nuances of modern dating, from accidental therapy sessions over coffee to decoding signals like hair flipping and the infamous "resting bitch face." They dig deep into why meeting people in real life (especially in LA) feels so daunting, the pitfalls of dating app culture, and why commitment can feel so elusive. Throughout, Kimmy jumps in with her expert advice, challenging Zack and Allison to shift their approaches, embrace playful flirtation, and build authentic connections—both on and off screen.

You'll hear:

• How subconscious signals like hair flipping and body language influence flirting (and what to do intentionally!).

• An honest discussion about meeting people IRL vs. on dating apps, and why both can be equally daunting.

• What makes a "promise ring" such a hot topic—and why it might be better to skip it altogether.

• The impact of swipe culture and the myth of finding someone who checks every box.

• Kimmy's practical, therapist-approved tips for flirting, building approachability, and meeting people outside your comfort zone.

If you're ready to step out of your comfort zone, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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