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The 46 Tools, Tips and Tricks You Need to Have a Good Divorce with Andy Heller on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #304


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This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., invites Author Andy Heller to talk about taking the high road in your divorce and how it allows you to divorce with compassion for your family and yourself. 

Andy offers a masterful perspective on navigating the divorce process. Andy’s book “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” shares forty-six tools, tips, and strategies. The book is his give back to make the divorce process easier for those considering or on the divorce path.

Andy is a successful businessman, not a divorce professional. While navigating through his own divorce, he read countless support books to help him navigate the process. While helpful, Andy identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women navigating divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

  • What Andy means by “take the high road” in divorce
  • “Always tell the truth and avoid playing games.”
  • How to help your children manage life changes and communication guidelines when your child is with their co-parent
  • Don’t forget about your own needs when divorcing. Self-care is the most critical when you are going through a stressful time. 
  • Beware of the two categories of advice givers - know who to listen to and who to not listen to!
  • Healthy dealings with your ex: “Put on an imaginary rubber suit.” 
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    About this week's special guest: Andy Heller

    Andy Heller is a successful businessman and not a divorce professional such as a divorce attorney, mediator, therapist, co-parenting counselor, or the host of other professionals that support and service those going through divorce. Among his professional accomplishments, Andy co-authored two best-selling real estate investment books in the 2000s. While the books were well received, Andy had no interest in writing another book.

    That decision changed after his own divorce.

    While navigating through his own divorce Andy read countless support books to help him navigate through the process. While helpful, Andy identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women navigating through divorce. Andy’s book “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” is his give back with a stated goal of making the divorce process easier for those who are considering or who are on the divorce path.

    Several factors make his book truly groundbreaking. First, Andy brings a businessman’s objective perspective into his counsel. Andy interviewed attorneys, divorcees, therapists, co-parenting counselors, mediators, special masters, and others to arrive at advice and guidance from the leading industry experts. Andy presents the guidance in 46 strategies, tools, and tips that armed with the experience and counsel of these experts, the readers can themselves, hopefully their former spouses, and most importantly their children land in a healthier place in the months and years after the conclusion of their divorces.

    Andy’s book: Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family


    Andy on Facebook: https: /www.facebook.com/takethehighroadbook

    Andy on Instagram: https: /www.instagram.com/andyhheller/

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    MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

    SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here:  https://neon.page/susanguthrie

    Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online.  Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.  

    Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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