The Stoic Handbook with Jon Brooks

The Anxiety Trap: Why Fighting Makes It Worse


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For most of my adult life, I had this low-level 
hypervigilance running in the background. I tried 
everything to fight it — books, breathwork, control 
techniques, willpower. The harder I fought, the 
worse it got.

In this episode, I share the breakthrough that came 
when I stopped fighting and started welcoming. It's 
a Stoic-Nietzschean reframe called amor fati — the 
love of fate — and it changed my relationship with 
anxiety completely.

We'll explore:

— The two layers of suffering, and why fighting 
anxiety creates the second one
— What Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus understood 
about welcoming difficulty
— Why Nietzsche called amor fati "the formula for 
greatness"
— The Stoic concept of indifferents — and why 
anxiety isn't intrinsically bad
— A daily practice for treating anxiety as a 
training partner rather than an enemy



If you'd like to go deeper into Stoic practice, 
the Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge walks through the 
core practices step by step.

→ stoicchallenge.co



Sources referenced:

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (Hays translation)
Epictetus, Discourses & Enchiridion (Hard translation)
Nietzsche, The Gay Science
Donald Robertson, How to Think Like a Roman Emperor



Thanks for listening. Go well.

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