Something that I’ve learned in my life is that the most successful people learn from the mistakes of others. So today in this episode, I’m going to do a deep dive into my story – share all the ups and the downs, and the 3 biggest lessons I learned along the way. There aren’t many shortcuts to healing, but I want to give you as many as I can. Listen in to hear what led me to where I am and how you can get there faster and with more ease! 

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If your husband struggles with porn use, you’re probably trying everything you can to “support” him through it. On today’s episode I’m going to tell you why what you’re doing is actually making it harder for your husband to quit, and how you can ACTUALLY support your husband to help him get the results you both want.

In 2 weeks, I will be going live and teaching you My 3 Easy Steps to Become Free from Your Husband’s Porn Problem. This is a free, live training that has helped hundreds of women heal from thier husband’s porn use. If you want to attend, click the link below. I only have 50 seats available because I like to make sure I have enough time at the end for everyone’s questions. So save your seat before they are gone!

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If you’re struggling with betrayal, it’s probably because something is holding you back and keeping you from healing. Today I’m talking about the 6 reasons you might be feeling stuck and how you can choose today to get unstuck. 

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You’ve probably noticed that not a lot of people are talking about pornography use, betrayal trauma, and everything that comes along with it. When I was going through my betrayal, I had a TON of questions…but nowhere to find answers. That’s why on today’s episode I’m diving deep into YOUR questions. 

In this episode I answer questions like: 

• How should I set a boundary if my husband is spending money on porn?

• Is it okay for a wife to tell her friends about her husband’s porn problem?

• How can I  teach my kids about pornography without shaming them?

• Is it healthy to be intimate with my husband if he has the urge to look at porn?

And you might be surprised by some of my answers!

My hope is that you will find helpful insights, tools, and hope as you navigate this tricky journey.

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Do you feel like your self esteem and self worth are completely destroyed after you found out about your husband’s porn problem? Maybe you’re struggling with the way you look, the way you feel about yourself, or your relationships in your life. In this episode I’m going to teach you how you can take control of the way you feel about yourself regardless of your husband’s behaviors. You don’t have to rely on your husband’s or others’ validation in order to feel good about yourself! 

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For most couples who find out about betrayal or addiction, they are quick to start couple’s therapy rebuild trust in their marriage. In my own experience in couple’s therapy and now as a betrayal coach, I have seen that this isn’t always the best solution.

In this episode I’m going to take you through 3 things that your therapist WON’T teach you about rebuilding trust, but I believe are necessary for you to understand as you heal from betrayal. The truth is, these 3 things might be hard for you to swallow…but I promise they will make all the difference in your healing if you apply them! 

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When you experience betrayal, you probably have a lot of feelings like anger, hurt, disgust, resentment or worthlessness…and guess what? Your brain doesn’t like those emotions so it pushes them away and tries to avoid them. But the more you push these feelings away, the stronger they become and the harder it is to allow space for healing. The only problem is, most women don’t actually know *how* to stop avoiding their emotions so they get stuck in a negative cycle and fall deeper into their betrayal. 

If this is you, you’ll definitely want to listen to this episode! I’m going to dive deep into your emotions after betrayal and how you can utilize a very important tool to help you create more space in your life for healing, compassion, and understanding. 

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If you’re anything like I was 5 years ago, you probably feel like you are powerless when it comes to your husband’s behaviors. But in today’s episode, I’m going to share with you the most important tool you have when it comes to healing - the power of your thoughts.

Maybe it feels like mindset work is too simple of a solution for what you’re going through, but I’m going to show you why thought work can help you start feeling empowered, confident, and resilient. And the best part is, once you start adding thought work into your healing, you will immediately start seeing progress! 

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In today’s episode, I’m going deep into the 3 stages of betrayal trauma recovery. I’m going to explain what they are, symptoms of each stage, and how to tell which stage you’re in. Knowing which stage you’re in shouldn’t discourage you, but instead it will help you see the progress you’ve made, and give you direction with where you want to be in the future. 

If you haven’t listened to the last episode about 3 Stages of Porn Recovery, check that one out first because I share a lot of parallels between the two. 

Enjoy!

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After working in this space for 7 years, I have seen that men typically go through similar stages of porn use recovery - from first telling their wife to finally being able to quit. 

In this episode I’m breaking down the 3 stages of porn recovery that every porn addict will go through and how to identify which stage your husband is in. Understanding these stages is helpful for you as a wife so you can know how to support him, and also how to support yourself. 

Check it out! 

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