December 18, 2024

The Best of We Chat Divorce: Top Tips and Advice

55 minutes

Karen and Catherine are joined by the esteemed Susan Guthrie to discuss an often-overlooked yet critical aspect of divorce: the power of pausing. Susan shares her decades of experience as a top family law attorney and mediator, emphasizing how taking a pause can create space for rational decisions, foster cooperation, and significantly reduce conflict during divorce.

Key Takeaways:

The Importance of Pausing:

Taking a moment to breathe after making the decision to divorce can help reduce emotional reactivity and prevent costly mistakes.

Avoid Rushing to Hire an Attorney:

A divorce coach or financial professional may be a better first step to ensure you are prepared and informed before choosing the right legal representation.

Mediation and Cooperation:

Susan highlights how mediation and other cooperative processes focus on creating a forward-looking solution rather than litigating the past, which often leads to better outcomes.

Understanding Your Team Needs:

Building a team of professionals, including financial experts, mediators, and specialized attorneys, tailored to your divorce's unique complexities, can save time, money, and stress.

Conflict Cycles:

Reactive and aggressive behaviors, such as draining accounts or hiring overly adversarial attorneys, can escalate conflict unnecessarily. Pausing and focusing on respectful communication can prevent these cycles.

We Chat Divorce: Supporting you through every step of your divorce journey with clarity, empowerment, and expert advice.

Disclaimer:

The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance.

The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.

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