The female narcissist is often compared to a black widow spider — alluring, seductive, and deadly to her prey. In relationships, her weapon of choice is emasculation. She strips her victim of confidence, ridicules his masculinity, and weaves a web of control that leaves him doubting his worth.

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In this episode, I break down how the black widow narcissist operates. From playful “jokes” that cut deep, to public humiliation designed to belittle, to sexual manipulation that punishes and rewards, every move is calculated to dominate. 

This is a raw, eye-opening exploration of a form of narcissistic abuse that’s rarely talked about: the quiet, calculated destruction of a man’s sense of self. If you’ve ever felt mocked, belittled, or stripped of your masculinity by a partner, this episode will shine a light on exactly what’s happening — and why it was never your fault.

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