Adult Child of Dysfunction

"The Body Keeps Score" Says It Right, Guest Beverly Armento


Listen Later

In this powerful episode, we welcome Beverly Armento, an inspiring author, motivational speaker, and advocate for children, teachers, and the power of resilience. Beverly's life story is one of profound hardship, courage, and eventual healing. From an early age, she was thrust into the role of caretaker for her blind, artistic, and mentally ill mother. Though Beverly excelled in school and in the world, she was privately suffocated by her mother's rage, delusions, and physical and emotional trauma. For seventeen years, Beverly endured unthinkable pain and suffering at the hands of her mother. At one point, she felt so overwhelmed by hopelessness that she even considered suicide.

During what she describes as a literal "dark night of the soul," Beverly had a pivotal moment of reckoning. In the midst of this inner turmoil, she found herself mentally grappling with God, her angel teachers, and even her first-year teaching students. In this intense internal struggle, she was faced with the stark pros and cons of life itself. It was in that moment of desperation and confrontation with her own fears that Beverly experienced a profound shift. She emerged from the darkness with a renewed sense of hope and a deep understanding of the lessons her angel teachers had passed on to her: to love learning, to believe in herself, and to embrace resilience and hope.

Despite this shift, Beverly’s journey of healing was not immediate. Even though she ran away from home to escape her toxic environment, she continued to carry the weight of untreated trauma into her adult life. It wasn't until 20 years later that Beverly sought psychological help and began to confront the lasting impact of her childhood experiences. She now recognizes that trauma, especially when left untreated, can manifest physically and emotionally throughout a person's life.

Drawing on the insights of Dr. Bessel van der Kolk’s groundbreaking work, The Body Keeps the Score, which you can grab here. Beverly emphasizes how trauma isn't just a mental or emotional experience—it also has a profound effect on the body. The body, as Dr. van der Kolk suggests, keeps score of all our unresolved pain, and this manifests in various ways, including chronic illness, physical pain, and emotional dysfunction. Beverly shares how her own body bore the brunt of her untreated trauma for decades before she began her healing journey.

In this episode, Beverly candidly discusses the lifelong consequences of living with untreated trauma and the journey toward healing. She reflects on her 50-year career as an educator, where she used her own story of resilience to inspire and uplift others. As a motivational speaker and advocate, Beverly now dedicates her life to helping others understand the transformative power of resilience, hope, and the belief that we all have the ability to choose happiness—even in the face of the most challenging circumstances.

Listeners will come away from this conversation with a deeper understanding of trauma, its lasting impact, and the importance of seeking help in order to heal. Beverly’s story serves as a testament to the power of the human spirit and the strength we all have to overcome even the most devastating of experiences.

To learn more about Beverly , you can visit her at :

https://www.beverlyarmentoauthor.com

https://www.youtube.com/@beverlyarmento8430

https://www.instagram.com/beverlyarmento/

https://www.amazon.com/life's-turning-points-a-personal-reflection-journal/

https://amzn.to/4241MHg - Seeing Eye Girl

Hey there, I’m so glad you’re tuning in! If this episode resonated with you, there’s more support waiting. I help adult children of dysfunction reclaim their voice, set boundaries, and rewrite their life story with confidence and clarity. 💛I am an international inspirational speaker, NLP practitioner, Trauma Informed ACOA Coach, and Best-selling Author. But more importantly, I am your friend who wants you to live your best life EVER!

🆓 Signature Course – Trials to Triumph: An Adult Child's Emotional Freedom Blueprint

This course is designed to help you unpack the past, embrace your truth, and build emotional freedom—without overwhelm.

👉 Start here: www.tammyvincent.com/course

🎯 Work With Me – 1:1 Coaching, Group Programs, and Support

If you're ready to dig deeper into healing, boundaries, and stepping into your next chapter, I’d love to walk alongside you.

👉 Learn more: www.tammyvincent.com

📬 Send Me a Voice Message

Got a question, a comment, or something to share after listening to the episode? Leave me a voice message and you might be featured in an upcoming show!

🎙️ SpeakPipe: www.speakpipe.com/TammyVincent


📺 Check Out My YouTube Channel

For more healing tools, short trainings, and inspiration, be sure to visit my YouTube channel.👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction YouTube Channel

🌟 Book Me as a Speaker for Your Event

Are you looking for a speaker to inspire and empower your group on healing, personal growth, and setting boundaries? I'd love to collaborate with you!

👉 Book a time to chat: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/speakers-event-chat

🫶 Let’s Connect

📩 Email: [email protected]

📱 Text: 513-280-3555

🌟 If this episode helped you, please share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit follow. Every share helps break generational cycles and bring healing into more lives.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Adult Child of DysfunctionBy Tammy Vincent

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

6 ratings


More shows like Adult Child of Dysfunction

View all
Mental Illness Happy Hour by Paul Gilmartin

Mental Illness Happy Hour

5,818 Listeners

The Recovery Show » Finding serenity through 12 step recovery in Al-Anon – a podcast by The Recovery Show

The Recovery Show » Finding serenity through 12 step recovery in Al-Anon – a podcast

1,575 Listeners

The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair by Michelle Chalfant

The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair

1,543 Listeners

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard by Armchair Umbrella

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

68,673 Listeners

Soberful by Veronica Valli & Chip Somers

Soberful

478 Listeners

Unlocking Us with Brené Brown by Vox Media Podcast Network

Unlocking Us with Brené Brown

23,600 Listeners

The Dr. John Delony Show by Ramsey Network

The Dr. John Delony Show

6,667 Listeners

Trauma Rewired by Jennifer Wallace & Elisabeth Kristof

Trauma Rewired

312 Listeners

The Bible in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz) by Ascension

The Bible in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz)

60,234 Listeners

Change of Air by Callie Miller

Change of Air

57 Listeners

Alcohol Minimalist: Change Your Drinking Habits! by Molly Watts, Author & Coach

Alcohol Minimalist: Change Your Drinking Habits!

156 Listeners

Adult Child by Andrea

Adult Child

1,782 Listeners

ACA Adult Children Voices Across America Speaker Meeting by adultchildrenvoicesacrossamerica

ACA Adult Children Voices Across America Speaker Meeting

69 Listeners

The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle by Anna Runkle

The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle

311 Listeners

Our Whole Childhood with Patrick Teahan by Patrick Teahan

Our Whole Childhood with Patrick Teahan

249 Listeners