On Purpose with Jay Shetty

The Episode for People Who Are Exhausted By Dating (How to Change Your Strategy and Mindset for the New Year)


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Are you tired of dating?

What’s your biggest dating struggle?

Today, Jay talks about the complexities of dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections in today’s fast-paced world. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on trust, emotional maturity, communication, and shared values – traits that truly matter in a partner – while learning to move past surface-level “icks” that can distract us from finding real love.

Through personal anecdotes and insights from Match’s Singles in America study, Jay explores why many of us are chasing outdated ideas of love, trying to recreate the romanticized relationships of our younger selves. Instead, shift your focus to the present, to nurture healthy dynamics built on honesty, respect, and mutual growth.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Build Trust in Relationships

How to Spot the Right Partner Through Their Actions

How to Ask Questions That Reveal True Priorities

How to Balance Patience and Expectations in Relationships

How to Handle Communication Differences Effectively

No matter where you are on your journey –single, dating, or in a long-term relationship – remember that love is a process, not a destination.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:01 Why Dating Has Become Extremely Challenging

06:24 The Core Values Feature

10:28 Questions to Ask on the First Date

12:58 Top Two Turn On with a New Partner

13:55 Are You Being Patient with the Right Person?

17:30 Does Your Partner’s Opinion Bother You?

19:14 Allow Other Forms of Relationships to Grow

21:54 Do You Communicate Properly with Your Partner?

24:01 Most Relationships Has a Healing Problem

25:16 Are You in the Wrong Relationship?

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