The Inspired Life Podcast

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Are you friend-zoning your prospects because you’re terrified of coming across as a "pushy" salesperson? Most heart-led coaches and entrepreneurs sabotage their own revenue because they care too much about being liked, which prevents them from asking the hard questions and closing the deal.

In this powerful guided episode, trauma-informed coach Lewis Huckstep sits down with Ryan Tuckwood, Australia's #1 sales coach and Shark Tank success story. Together, they walk you through a step-by-step process to completely remove the "commission breath," detach from the outcome, and use ethical sales psychology to scale your business.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

🔥Identify the critical moment you "friend-zone" your leads (and why caring too much is actually costing them the transformation).

🔥 How to stop getting triggered by objections using the "Cushion, Relate, Isolate, Overcome" framework.

🔥The exact M.A.P. pre-call routine you need to regulate your nervous system and super-saturate your frontal lobes with oxygen.

🔥 Why 95% of the sale is won or lost in the "Discovery" phase (and the exact memory anchors you must use to start the call).

You are not broken.

You are patterned.

And patterns can change.

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#mindset #advice #sales #growth #business #sharktank

I paid a coach $80,000, only to be told I was going to fail. But what if the experience that breaks your confidence becomes the very thing that helps you discover your purpose?In this episode of the Inspired Life Podcast, Lewis Huckstep sits down with business niche and messaging coach Rani Peluso to explore how our most painful experiences can become our greatest sources of wisdom, purpose and personal power.After 23 years in the coaching industry, Rani shares her journey from feeling unworthy and searching for external validation to discovering her unique genius and building a business around what truly inspires her.Together, Lewis and Rani explore why your past doesn't define your future, why chasing someone else's version of success can leave you unfulfilled, and how everything you've experienced the good, the bad and the painful can contribute to who you're becoming.IN THIS EPISODE:🔥The $80,000 coaching experience that changed Rani's life and taught her to stop seeking approval.🔥 Why your biggest challenges and failures might hold the key to your greatest purpose.🔥 How to discover your natural genius and build a life and business aligned with your values.🔥 Why being a great coach doesn't automatically mean you'll build a successful coaching business.🔥 The hidden beliefs and money blocks that can hold people back from pursuing their dreams.🔥 Why your experiences, even the ones you'd rather forget, don't have to be wasted.This conversation is a reminder that you don't need anyone else's permission to live an extraordinary life.Your past doesn't have to limit you. It might just be the thing that gives you the wisdom to help someone else.ABOUT RANI PELUSORani Peluso is a business niche and messaging coach with over 23 years of coaching experience. She helps certified coaches uncover their unique genius, turn their life experiences into meaningful offers and build coaching businesses aligned with their values.CONNECT WITH RANIWebsite: https://clients888.comIf this conversation resonates with you, subscribe to the Inspired Life Podcast for more conversations about personal growth, purpose, overcoming challenges and creating a life that truly inspires you.#InspiredLifePodcast #LewisHuckstep #PersonalDevelopment #FindYourPurpose #Mindset #SelfWorth #LifeLessons

Work with me for free: https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/aboutDoes God exist? Is manifestation real? Is God simply “the universe” or “source”?And if Christianity is true, how do we explain some of the most controversial parts of the Bible?In this deeply vulnerable and highly debated episode, trauma-informed coach Lewis Huckstep sits down with long-time friend and entrepreneur Nicole Carlisle for an open conversation about Christianity, spirituality, manifestation, trauma, healing and the existence of God.Nicole shares her journey from severe suicidal thoughts, anxiety and business burnout to spending more than $130,000 searching for answers through personal development and New Age spirituality, including manifestation, NLP, Reiki, kinesiology, tarot, astrology and crystals.But after years of searching, Nicole says one three-day Christian counselling experience changed her life in a way nothing else had.Lewis isn’t convinced by Christianity.He believes in universal laws, source, spirituality and the idea that healing comes from returning to wholeness, so he challenges Nicole on some of the biggest questions surrounding Christianity and religion.Can Christianity and universal laws coexist?Is manifestation actually spiritual or are we trying to become our own God?Why would a loving God allow suffering?How can the Bible say “do not murder” while also containing stories of God ordering people to be killed?Why Christianity when there are thousands of religions?And is there actually evidence that Jesus existed and rose from the dead?This isn’t a sermon.It’s an honest debate between two friends with very different beliefs, both willing to question what they think they know about God, spirituality and the meaning of life.Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments below.#mindset #advice #healing #spirituality #faith #trauma

Work with me for free: https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/aboutAre you using your business achievements as a shield to avoid real intimacy and connection? Most high-achievers build an entire one-dimensional identity around being successful just to feel worthy, enough, and lovable—completely masking their true, vulnerable selves to the world.In this powerful guided episode, trauma-informed coach Lewis Huckstep sits down with speaker coach and modality creator Cody McAuliffe. Together, they walk you through a step-by-step process to drop the "masks" you wear, regulate your nervous system through life's most chaotic seasons, and step into true, authentic leadership.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:💥 Identify how you use traits like "shyness" or being "the coach" as a protection mechanism to avoid the deep discomfort of authentic human connection.💥 The critical difference between taking radical ownership of your own nervous system and projecting your dysregulation onto your intimate partner.💥 How the chronic stress of parenting exposes your deepest triggers (and why true growth is measured by how you show up when everything is falling apart).💥 The exact mindset shift needed to stop selling through fear and shame, and start building a business aligned with your true calling.You are not broken. You are patterned. And patterns can change. Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments below.#mindset #advice #healing #growth #leadership #nervoussystem

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Are you tired of feeling stuck while watching other people completely transform their lives? Most ambitious people buy into the limiting belief that they need to wait for the perfect moment or more information, which turns personal development into a dangerous form of procrastination.

In this powerful episode of Freedom Renegades, mindset expert Kelvin Coils walks you through a step-by-step process to completely remove internal conflict and start taking relentless action.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

• 💥 Identify why having a vision isn't enough without internal alignment (and how to fix your mindset)

• 💥 The critical difference between being resilient and becoming "antifragile"

• 💥 How to stop getting triggered by the fear of failure and become comfortable with the worst-case scenario

• 💥 Why society's definition of "work-life balance" is actually a trap (and how to build harmony instead)
  

You are not broken. You are patterned. And patterns can change. Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments below.

#mindset #advice #growth #success #action #vision

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Are you tired of shrinking yourself to keep the peace in your relationship or career? Most people struggling with their self-worth tolerate misaligned behavior, push themselves into chronic illness, and sacrifice their own joy to support a partner who isn't doing the inner work.In this powerful guided episode, trauma-informed coach Lewis Huckstep sits down with entrepreneur Libby Ernst to unpack her profound journey of walking away from a successful family business, navigating a severe health diagnosis, and making the agonizing decision to end an 8-year relationship to reclaim her identity.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

💥 Why staying in a misaligned relationship just because you've "invested so much time" is destroying your self-worth.

💥 How to stop suppressing your emotions and use "conscious grieving" to finally process deep pain and anger somatically.

💥 The hidden cost of the masculine "hustle culture" on women's bodies and why honoring your natural cycle is essential.

💥 The exact boundary-setting mindset needed to confidently walk away from someone who refuses to grow alongside you.

You are not broken. You are patterned. And patterns can change. Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments

below.#mindset #advice #healing #growth #relationships #boundaries

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Are you tired of feeling burnt out, unworthy, or constantly stressed even when you finally hit your business goals? Most high-achievers trying to find fulfillment are focused on the wrong thing—they buy into the limiting belief that they must choose between being a broke "spiritual hippie" or an unhappy, relentless hustler.

In this powerful guided episode, trauma-informed coach Lewis Huckstep and ultimate entrepreneur James Balog walk you through a step-by-step process to completely remove the limiting belief that you can't have both wealth and deep, everyday joy.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS VIDEO:

• 💥 Identify your core limiting belief around money and happiness (and why society's definition of success is a trap)

• 💥 The critical difference between being a victim and radical ownership (and why you must accept that everything is your fault)

• 💥 How to stop getting triggered by setbacks and build generous, deep relationships that naturally scale your business

• 💥 The exact skill set you need to practice daily so you never run out of joy again

You are not broken. You are patterned. And patterns can change. Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments below.

#mindset #advice #healing #growth #mature #spirituality

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You've read the books. Done the courses. Sat in therapy — maybe for years. And you're still repeating the same unhealthy patterns: the same fights, the same money blocks, the same relationship you keep finding in a different person. That's not a lack of effort. It's because you've only ever addressed 20% of the equation.

In this video I break down why success and change is 20% skills and 80% identity — and why almost every self-help resource you've consumed only ever teaches the 20%. I show you the three things you actually need to understand to change your identity for good: what your identity actually is, why every pattern and behaviour you repeat is your identity working exactly as designed, and why your triggers aren't random — they're a direct mirror to what's still unhealed inside you.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS VIDEO:

• Why success is 20% skills and 80% identity, and why almost all self-development content only teaches the 20%
• The difference between your authentic self and your "human identity" — your mind, nervous system, beliefs, and conditioning — and why your identity is what actually drives your behaviour
• Why you never self-sabotage — you realign to how you view yourself to be
• The Projector Principle: why your life is a projection of your identity, and why trying to change your circumstances without changing yourself never works
• Why triggers aren't threats — they're mirrors revealing exactly what still needs to be healed
• Why therapy often treats the symptom (the pattern) instead of the root cause (the identity underneath it), and what to do instead

You are not broken, and you are not lazy for still repeating these patterns after everything you've tried. You've been doing inner work at the surface level. Until you actually change your identity — not just your information — you will keep recreating the same reality. That's the work. That's what this video is about.

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Work with me for free: https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/Have you done all the "right" things after a breakup, therapy, journaling, no contact, and still feel stuck months later? Most breakup advice online falls into one of two extremes: delusional (every ex comes back if you just do the right things) or bitter (cut them off, they were always a red flag, never look back). Neither one actually teaches you how to heal.In this episode I sit down with breakup and relationship coach Cole Zesiger, who has coached over 2,000 people through heartbreak, to break down the exact process that took him from two back to back breakups at rock bottom to the life and marriage he has now.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS VIDEO:The 4 step Renewal Framework Cole used to rebuild his life after divorce and a second breakupWhy chasing achievement and external validation will always leave you feeling empty, and what actually fixes itThe dependency paradox, and why having a secure partner makes you achieve more, not lessThe three non-negotiables every healthy relationship actually needs to lastHow to know you're really ready to date again, and why forgiveness alone isn't the finish lineYou are not behind, and none of the healing you've already done was wasted, even the parts that felt like they broke you. Every ending you have survived has quietly been building the version of you who is capable of a real, lasting love. That version of you is closer than you think.Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments below. Subscribe for weekly content on healing, identity, and creating a life you actually love.

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Do you keep ending up in the same relationship with a different face? Same fights, same walls going up, same partner who feels distant even when they're right in front of you. If this keeps happening no matter who you're with, it isn't bad luck. It's unhealed childhood trauma running the show.

In this video I break down why your triggers are never really about the other person, and I walk you through the exact four step process I use with my paid clients to find and heal the root cause.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS VIDEO:

• Why childhood trauma controls your relationship patterns without you realizing it
• The real reason people and situations trigger you, and why it's never actually about them
• The ARIA Method, a four step process to identify and heal your triggers at the root
• How to regulate your nervous system in the moment you get triggered, before you react
• The exact questions to ask yourself to find what a trigger is really revealing

You are not broken and you are not too much. You are patterned, and patterns can be unlearned. The relationship you want is available to you the moment you stop repeating the one you were taught.

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