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Dr Lewinski has studied officer involved shootings and human dynamics in a way that no one has Obviously, in 2020, the police got a lot of attention. So, I wanted to bring on someone who has intelligently studied use of force and officer involved shootings to help shed some light on the topics. This interview, is in no way meant to be divisive, but is meant to give the audience another lens of looking at a topic that most really have no insight on. The mainstream media only gives us one narrative and the police only gives us one narrative. The public constantly asks, "Why did the officer shoot the suspect in the back? Why did the police fire so many rounds? Why do barbers get more training than a police cadet in the academy?" These are all valid questions, but the public rarely gets a great answer other than sensationalized news headlines. Dr Lewinski answers all these questions and much more in the interview.
Dr. Lewinski is a leading behavioral scientist whose work has focused on the intensive study of human dynamics involved in high stress, life-threatening encounters. He has a Ph.D. in Police Psychology and is a professor emeritus of Law Enforcement at Minnesota State University, Mankato, where he taught for more than 28 years, was an L.E. Program Director and also chair of the Department of Government.
Timeline
6:40 - How to regulate your emotions in high stress situations
08:00 - Biggest misconception from UOF and the public view
11:40 - Why officers fire so many rounds at suspects in UOF incidents
16:30 - The average shot cadence of an officer under stress
22:20 - The average high school football player is better trained than a 25 year veteran police officer
33:50 - The speed of an assault & why the officer is always at the disadvantage
40:30 - What’s the one things officers can do to reduce errors in the field
51:27 - What officers need to understand about attention and workload capacity
1:00:19 - Exciting research with edged weapons
1:03:20 - Why police shoot people in the back
Go to https://www.joelevancoaching.com for the show notes, links, and additional resources.
Just in time for Valentine's Day, I got a chance to sit down with the Relationship Renegades (@Relationship Renegades); Emilio Palafox (@emilio_palafox) and Rachele Brooke Smith (@rbrookesmith). These two are on a mission to reframe how relationships are viewed and could be. We always hear the following comments: "My wife is such a B****," "there's no good guys out there for me," "don't fall in love, it always ends in heartbreak," etc etc etc. But what if your relationships could be amazing? What if you and your partner formed such a powerful bond that none of these silly comments would ever come out of your mouth, because you knew through thick and thin, life is beautiful, bountiful, and the two of you form a synergy beyond what just one person could accomplish? What if instead of being in a relationship that you HAVE to be in for some unknown reasons, you GET to be in and you're the luckiest person in the world. Like Tony Robbins says, "life isn't happening to us, life is happening for us." A common phrase they like to use is "Kill Your Superman to Find Your Wonder Woman." In essence, we need to kill our own egos and not care so much about being right, but changing our focus to being happy. The game of life is infinite, and when play for short wins and remain short sighted, and are too busy keeping the score, you'll miss out on the amazing things happening around you. This was a powerful episode about love, enhancing communication with your significant other, and transforming your relationship to the next level.
Timeline
6:00- Why we are being programmed to be in bad relationships
8:15 - Why you should “Kill your Superman to find your Wonder Woman"
12:45 - Why we fall into toxic relationships
17:45 - My own journey with self-compassion
22:35 - Would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy?
25:30 - How to communicate with your loved one even during chaos
34:50 - We don’t always attract what we think about but who we are
38:55 - Stop dating others. Start dating yourself
43:30 - The key motivation to all relationships
51:00 - How our upbringing can shape our relationships
53:26 - The 5 C’s of a healthy, thriving relationship
56:12 - The most common theme underlying all relationship problems
1:05:10 - Some new exciting projects for the Relationship Renegades
For the show notes and resources, head to https://www.joelevancoaching.com to learn more. You can also learn about some of the coaching services I offer. If you're in San Francisco or the Bay Area, I also can help reverse chronic injuries, neurological disorders, and help treat pre/post surgery injuries with electric stim therapy using my Neubie device.
Tosha Schore is the author of the hit book Listen: 5 Simple Tools to Meet Your Everday Parenting Struggles and the creator of the course Out With Aggression which has revolutionized the way I parent my two boys. Tosha has successfully raise three boys who suffered from aggression issues and now is teaching her methodologies all over the world. I discovered Tosha after taking her course, as I too was struggling with parenting two young boys, one who was extremely aggressive towards me: hitting and kicking me, spitting at me, yelling and screaming. I had read many popular books on child psychology, attended seminars, and enrolled in child-parent therapy without seeing any real change.
After taking Tosha's six week course, I started noticing immediate changes in my relationship with my boys. Finally the momentum has shifted in our family and we are really making some strides. I'm so happy to have her on the podcast to help inspire and share some crunchy nuggets that are going to help others that are struggling with this same thing.
Timeline
10:50 - What are most parents getting wrong when it comes to parenting
14:50 - Should physical force and consequences be used to discipline kids?
21:50 - Fear = Aggression
23:20 - What do you do after you’ve set limits with your child and they flat out disrespect and tell you they are not going to comply?
29:10 - Why infusing connection is the answer even if it doesn’t feel right
32:50 - Why using humor to battle aggression is so effective
41:30 - You let your kid call you a “retarded pussy” and you let him get away with it - why?
48:30 - How do parents stop their own triggers (especially when you have no patience)?
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