This week on the Squiggly Careers podcast, Helen and Sarah borrow brilliance from a sweet source — the marshmallow experiment — to explore how the science of delayed gratification applies to our work and career choices.

Inspired by the famous psychology study, they unpack what it means to make one marshmallow versus two marshmallow decisions — the everyday trade-offs between instant satisfaction and long-term success. From replying to emails and saying yes to everything, to applying for jobs and building relationships, Helen and Sarah share real-life examples of how to recognise and reframe your choices for greater impact.

You’ll learn how to spot your own marshmallow moments, connect them to what motivates you most, and choose progress over quick wins (at least some of the time!).

Episode 510

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⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 Introduction

03:53 The Marshmallow Experiment explained

05:43 Why delayed gratification matters for squiggly careers

06:43 The shiny object trap — instant wins vs. long-term goals

08:13 One vs. Two Marshmallow choices at work

10:53 Email decisions — control vs. quality

16:23 Saying yes vs. saying no — and why “no” can lead to more impact

24:03 Career choices — applying vs. creating opportunities

29:03 Building relationships and the “giant marshmallow” payoff

30:53 How to spot your marshmallow moments

🎯 What You’ll Learn

- How to apply the concept of delayed gratification to your career

- Why awareness of short-term vs. long-term trade-offs boosts progress

- How to make intentional choices that lead to more impact

- Ways to balance quick wins with meaningful goals

📚 Resources Mentioned

The Marshmallow Test by Walter Mischel https://www.amazon.co.uk/Marshmallow-Test-Understanding-Self-control-Master/dp/0552168866

Delayed Gratification article by James Clear https://jamesclear.com/delayed-gratification

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