In this episode, we explore shared regulation — what it is, why it matters, and how to use simple, practical tools to support your child during big emotions while staying grounded yourself.

You’ll learn how your nervous system shapes your child’s experience, what co-regulation looks like in real life, and how to move from control-based reactions into connection-based responses.

For parents who want to lead with calm, presence, and compassion — even on hard days.

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We throw the word disrespect around a lot, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, we slow things down and take a closer look at what respect truly is, whether it can be demanded or only earned, and how our own nervous system, childhood experiences, and expectations shape the way we perceive it.

We explore:

• What we often label as “disrespect” (in kids, partners, and even ourselves)
• The difference between behavior, boundaries, and meaning-making
• How respect is built through connection, safety, and modeling
• Practical ways to give respect first—without abandoning yourself

This conversation is an invitation to soften, reflect, and reframe—so we can show up with more clarity and compassion in our relationships.

Mellow Moments:
Gentle pauses, grounding reflections, and simple practices for real-time nervous system support.

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“Oh, just wait until they’re teenagers then come talk to me...”

If I had a dollar for every time, ... well I'd only have like 20 dollars, but you get what I'm saying.

This is a super common fear-based response or really, defense, to conscious child-rearing. I'm here to lovingly counter that this philosophy is precisely what we need in preparation for the teen years with our growing children, and in this conversation, I’m joined by Kirsten Cobabe to talk honestly it. To peel back the layers on the warning of “good luck once you have teens” to find it is not only unhelpful, but deeply inaccurate.

We'll discuss how conscious parenting doesn’t fall apart as children grow, but instead becomes the foundation for trust, emotional safety, communication, and lasting connection during the next wave of formative growth in our children's lives. (And ours if we let it be that.) When we parent with awareness, regulation, and respect early on, we aren’t setting ourselves up for disconnection later. We’re building a relationship our future teens will need more than ever.

This episode is for parents who want to:

• Release fear-based narratives around adolescence
• Understand how conscious parenting supports teens’ need for autonomy and connection
• Feel reassured that the work they’re doing now truly matters long-term
• Envision teenage years rooted in trust, honesty, and mutual respect

Connect with Kirsten Cobabe
Website: https://www.kirstencobabe.com/
Instagram: @kirstencobabe

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In this episode, I share seven things I’m bringing more awareness to this year to cultivate greater calm, presence, and emotional safety in our home. These are simple, honest shifts that don’t require perfection, but do invite consistency, compassion, and my favorite, curiosity, into our daily life as a family.

This conversation is for the parent who wants to feel more steady/grounded, less reactive, and more connected — and who understands that nervous system regulation is a family practice, not an individual one.

If you’re craving more peace in your body, your parenting, or your relationships, this episode offers grounded reflection and practical guidance to support a calmer year ahead.  Grateful you're here listening, MM

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Chappell Roan commented that parents are “in hell” a while back, and whie the internet reacted—some offended, some defensive, and some a little more objective, I thought I'd make an episode about my perspective! 

If you’ve ever felt trapped, resentful, or quietly unhappy while loving your kids beyond measure, this conversation will help you understand why—and potentially what to adjust.

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I hope this is helpful and promotes more peace in your day!

Love, Kait

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Adjust these 4 habits & watch your entire relationship shift.

I hope this is helpful and promotes more peace in your day!

Love, Kait

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So much that has been normalized that simply isn't "normal" or healthy & helpful in parenting... In this episode I discuss some as well as all that was and is normal that has been shamed, criticized, and repressed.

I hope this is helpful and promotes more peace in your day!

Love, Kait

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Here are some things that helped me as I traveled along solo with my children a couple of weeks ago & some thoughts/reflections I had during and after!

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