In this episode, I talk about people pleasing and how it stalls our growth, blocks our momentum, forces us out of our authenticity and how it affects what we really want to create in this world, as well as the affects people pleasing have on other areas of our lives, not feeling like we’re annoying for promoting ourselves, not curating for attention but creating for artistic freedom and more!

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Love the Game More Than Anyone Has Ever Loved It

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In this episode, I talk about being devoted to something you’re good at, not being the best but focusing on being the only, removing comparison to play your game the best, why David Beckham won, work life harmony over work life balance, hard work is not an obligation but born of curiosity, responsibility and devotion, treating your life like you’re training for the olympics and more!

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Don’t Wait to Feel Qualified

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In this episode, I talk about times to move fast and times to move slow, understanding timing, practice and preparedness for both quick decisions and slower times, the differences between sprints and marathons, clear decision making in all seasons, urgency versus stagnancy and more!

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Pay Attention to Small Moments With Uncontrollable Joy

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In this episode, I talk about finding your “flow state,” identifying when you have the most peace and joy, observing what you’re working on or like to dive deep into conversationally as a tool for understanding your “flow” or joy, identifying what you get lost for hours in doing, seeing what you might be good at or complimented on but don’t do because you don’t think it’s a “big deal” and more!

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Don’t Wait to Feel Qualified

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In this episode, I talk about we can’t wait to feel qualified to do anything we feel called to do including our current roles in life or work, how you’re not the person you think other people think you are, dealing with the “real” imposter syndrome, giving in to what’s natural, easy and effortless in order to let divine nature take over, being fast when it matters and slow when it doesn’t and more!

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If You Weren’t Capable, You Wouldn’t Have the Calling

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In this episode, I talk about why our words matter, why gossip takes us out of our creative gifts and away from our path, how gossip is giving away our life force and creative energy instead of harnessing it more, managing our words, thoughts and actions, furthering our integrity especially with our purpose, creating from our soul fluidly and more!

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A Calm Mind, a Connected Heart & a Clear Vision Navigate Life’s Uncertainties

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In this episode, I talk about defining a path for yourself, what keeps you motivated when you don’t feel like it, why your vision is a marathon and needs time to develop, how your experiences shape your wisdom and your wisdom helps you make better decisions, cutting out all the noise that isn’t related to your path, placing sound bets on yourself and reaping the fruits of your decisions and more!

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If You Weren't Capable, You Wouldn't Have the Calling

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Conviction by Jordan O’Connor

In this episode, I talk about dealing with pessimism and doubt from those that don’t understand why you’re choosing a different path, what the “risk takers” (artists, entrepreneurs, path creators, etc) go through mentally, emotionally and spiritually in building something other than the conventional route, dealing with conformity pressure, dealing with stigmatization of failure, dealing with people who misunderstand our risk for answering our calling and thinking bigger and more!

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If You Weren't Capable, You Wouldn't Have the Calling

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In this episode, I talk about answering your calling even if you don’t feel “capable,” receiving opportunities even when you think you’re not ready for them, understanding that your intuition knows you’re good enough, not having it all figured out but moving in the direction of something bigger, leaping and the net appearing, your “supply” or money is already there and more!

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If It Doesn’t Come Bursting Out of You In Spite of Everything, Don’t Do It

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In this episode, I talk about surrendering to your God given talents, what you ought to be doing versus what you are currently doing, what is it that truly comes “bursting” out of you, do you feel chosen for your work or settling, where is there flow and where does it seem like forced energy and work, the difference between engaging work and burdensome work, desires versus needs and more!

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In Helping Others, Are You Ignoring Your Own Needs?

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