Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

The Pitfalls of Making Your Partner's Reality Your Truth


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Are you struggling to trust your own reality in a relationship? In this powerful episode, Alana explores how we sometimes abandon our truth to align with our partner’s version of reality, when dealing with betrayal trauma.

Understand why this happens and learn practical strategies to reclaim your inner knowing. If you’ve ever felt foggy, confused, or crazy after conversations with your partner, this episode provides the validation you need to reconnect to your truth.

Referenced in this episode:

  • Finding Freedom in Boundaries with Laura Fisher - past podcast episode

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  • Courage to Thrive Intensive - This in-person intensive is designed specifically for women who have experienced the pain of betrayal and are ready to begin the journey toward reclaiming their lives. Over four transformative days, you’ll gain the tools, skills, and support you need not just to survive, but to truly thrive. The intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT April 23-26.  Use promo code thriveapril2025 for $200 off.

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  • ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity for Men⁠⁠ - This is a four-day intensive designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on May 13th-16th.

  • Heal the Healer - Join us June 12–15 in Mapleton, UT for a luxurious, all-inclusive retreat for women who give endlessly to release your burdens and reconnect with yourself. Enjoy restorative experiences like yoga, somatic healing, rafting, hiking, a sound bath, and a salt cave, all while being nourished with delicious meals and relaxing in beautiful accommodations.

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More from Choose Recovery Services

  • Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.

  • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal. First four weeks are free!

  • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it.

  • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

  •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

  • Healing Hearts - For couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. 

  • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

  • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

  • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. 

  • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group - This group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. 

  • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

  • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

  • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

  • Dating From Within - Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

  • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to help you on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment.
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