In episode 109, we’re talking about why overplanning keeps so many high-achievers stuck and how clarity actually comes from action, not preparation.
This episode is for the planners, overthinkers, and researchers who feel busy and productive but aren’t moving forward. If you keep telling yourself you need more time, more certainty, or a clearer plan before you start, this conversation will help you see what’s really happening and how to break out of the planning trap.
I share client stories and real-life examples to show why waiting to feel “ready” often becomes a form of avoidance, especially for women, women of color, eldest daughters, and first-generation leaders who were taught to get it right the first time. We walk through what it actually looks like to choose a starting point, build momentum, and let clarity emerge along the way.
In this episode, I cover:
Why overplanning often disguises fear, not strategy
How clarity is created through action, not overthinking
What it means to experiment instead of waiting for certainty
Why perfectionism slows momentum and confidence
How choosing one small step creates real movement forward
Key Takeaways:
You can’t think your way into clarity
Starting before you feel ready builds confidence
Small steps reduce fear and decision fatigue
Momentum creates belief faster than planning ever will
You don’t need the full roadmap, just a place to begin
Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to the Pivot and Promotion Podcast
00:59 Escaping the Planning Trap
05:18 Taking Action for Clarity
09:35 Building Momentum with Small Steps
11:56 Final Thoughts and Coaching Opportunities
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