You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes.

Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he unveils 6 tested moves to help you get out of your head and into the present moment… so you can have fun, flirty dates and stimulating conversations.

Listen now, and give her a present: your presence!

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Quotes

"Lower the conversational bar when talking to women. You're just chatting, not doing standup comedy or a TED Talk." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:12 - The Science of Staying in the Moment
00:43 - Overcoming Overthinking When Talking to Women
03:06 - Impress Women on Dates with Confidence
08:37 - Simplify: Uncovering Your Natural Wit
11:10 - Authentic Conversations: Lowering the Pressure and Being Yourself
15:11 - Promote Positivity: Avoid Sharing Negative Thoughts and Feelings
19:44 - Engaging Conversation: Exploring the University of Texas
20:54 - Making Connections: The Impact of Active Listening
23:10 - Focus on Her Happiness in Dating
26:52 - Elevate Conversations with Backup Topics
28:08 - The Comfort of a Conversation Safety Net
31:17 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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