The Balance Theory

The Real Reason You Struggle to Connect with Others (It’s NOT What You Think)


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Have you ever felt unseen, unheard, or like deep connections just don’t come easily? You’re not alone—and the reason might not be what you think. In this episode, Giuliano Gonzalez dives into the hidden mindset blocks, social habits, and confidence shifts that can transform the way you connect with others.


If you’ve ever struggled with feeling out of place, second-guessed yourself in conversations, or wondered why building meaningful relationships feels so hard, this conversation is for you. Learn how to break free from people-pleasing, own your voice, and cultivate genuine connections that actually matter.


💡 In this episode, we cover:

✔️ The #1 mistake people make with networking

✔️ Why knowing this ONE thing is the key to confidence

✔️ How to approach strangers without fear

✔️ Should you waste time changing people’s opinions about you?

✔️ A powerful networking technique you need to try

✔️ Why a weak network is costing you money and how to fix it

✔️ How to handle awkward moments with confidence


and MUCH MORE!


🔥 This episode will challenge you to think bigger, network smarter, and OWN your worth.


💬 Let’s talk! What’s one belief you’re letting go of after watching this? Drop it in the comments below! ⬇️


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TIME STAMPS

(00:00) Introduction

(02:35) What do most people get wrong with networking?

(06:05) Do you know your values?

(09:55) How do you have the confidence to approach strangers?

(13:45) Is it worth your time changing people’s minds about you?

(18:04) Networking technique “hook point”

(21:26) You’re losing money by not having a good network

(29:21) You don’t have to work hard for things

(30:41) People-pleasing isn’t kindness, it’s self-betrayal

(40:00) Phrases to use in awkward moments


WHO AM I?

My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!


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