The Slumflower Hour

Are you an 'understanding girlfriend' who can't quite seem to get the words out when you're annoyed at him?

Have you decided what your non-negotiables are in what you'll tolerate from a guy?

Are you a 'free spirit' or are you giving your power away to men?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she plots out smooth and non-aggressive ways to be more assertive in the presence of men, while maintaining your authentic personality - plus a very saucy South of France storytime...involving a yacht ;)

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So what's the fuss around dating providers? Why are women scared to date selfishly? Why do we slut-shame women who are upfront about their requirements of men who want to sleep with them, whilst we uphold and celebrate the women who settle 'in the name of love'?

In this episode, join Chidera as she explores the concept of men being providers - and why we shouldn't let 'feminism' stop us from having our own cake and eating it too...just like the men do!

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Do men deserve their loneliness? Do women make too many excuses for men? Can women develop the willpower to abstain from sexual and emotional reliance on men?

In this episode, join Chidera as she explores the 'male loneliness epidemic' - and why we should all let men deal with this matter by themselves...

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If you finally feel ready to leave, this episode is for you.

In this episode, join The Slumflower as shares tools on how to leave FOR GOOD, and what you can do to fortify yourself mentally...for when the storm inevitably comes.

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Where is the line drawn between leadership and control?

Do 'alpha' men actually live up to their description?

Why do women seek such traits in men?

In this episode, join Chidera as she explores the myth of the alpha male - and why we should all interrogate our attraction to alpha men...

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Is a person redeemable once you develop the ick for them? What does it take for a man to give you the ick? How can you tell when a man has gotten the ick for YOU?

In this episode, join Chidera as we talk all things ick - including my biggest turn-offs that classify a man disqualified in her eyes!

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Is that man in a rush to marry you? Would he even make a good husband? Are you desperate to be wifed?

In this hilarious episode, join The Slumflower as she chats through why a marriage proposal isn't always flattering - and what you can do to remove the power and pressure you have placed on the idea of being someone's wife!

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Do you justify tormenting yourself for the sake of having a 'good story' to tell? Are you impulsive and adrenaline-driven in your dating decisions? Have you found yourself living in the architecture of your own demise?

Featuring TWO saucy stories, join Chidera in this episode as she talks through times when she's done it for the plot...and benefited from the wild spontaneity! ;)

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Are you easily swayed by a man's appearance? Do you find yourself being easily governed by the coochie flutters when you come across a cute man? Are you unknowingly giving away your power by putting emphasis on how attractive that man is, instead of how well he treats you?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she takes good-looking men OFF the pedestal!

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Has that man become the sad cloud in your sky? Do you find yourself coasting along in this relationship out of guilt rather than choice? Do you feel responsible for this man's wellbeing?

Baby...it's time to lift that burden and address the baggage you've taken on as your own!

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